Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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What I do bout this ugly big girl at work who stay trying to get at me. She asks about me when I ain’t around.

the guys (older cats) keep saying I’m scared of p*ssy etc...I’m like I ain’t that desperate and I know what I want. I don’t got no problems with big girls but she bout 30 I’m 21 and she not cute at all. :francis:
The OGs at ya job sayin dat shyt to tease you cuz ain’t nobody ugly or cute prolly on them at work... plus that’s how older cats are just wired... they’ll provoke you to fall in some pu$$y you don’t want and prolly hit you with the “boy if I was you at that age I would’ve ran through dat”... knowin damn well if the fat chick threw it at them, they’d pass :yeshrug:

I had some coworkers like that.. all them jokes stop once they see you on the cute ones then it turn into “you takin all the pu$$y up here.. leave us some.. damn!”:russ:
 

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The OGs at ya job sayin dat shyt to tease you cuz ain’t nobody ugly or cute prolly on them at work... plus that’s how older cats are just wired... they’ll provoke you to fall in some pu$$y you don’t want and prolly hit you with the “boy if I was you at that age I would’ve ran through dat”... knowin damn well if the fat chick threw it at them, they’d pass :yeshrug:

I had some coworkers like that.. all them jokes stop once they see you on the cute ones then it turn into “you takin all the pu$$y up here.. leave us some.. damn!”:russ:
yep I’m the youngest in my
department everyone else for the most part is :flabbynsick:

it’s always some 37 year old secretary or assistant trying to get at me and I don’t want em at all. I guess they see me as fresh meat or what not cuz all these old heads been tryna get at them for years.

on the flip side she’s a really nice person tho, ain’t the a$$hole type so I always stop and say what up in the morning.
 

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yep I’m the youngest in my
department everyone else for the most part is :flabbynsick:

it’s always some 37 year old secretary or assistant trying to get at me and I don’t want em at all. I guess they see me as fresh meat or what not cuz all these old heads been tryna get at them for years.

on the flip side she’s a really nice person tho, ain’t the a$$hole type so I always stop and say what up in the morning.

she’s not sexually desirable to you. You don’t have to explain yourself. I had sex with someone I did not find attractive a few months back. I still feel disgusted today.
 

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This is one thing I struggle with as well. I do believe men are supposed to chase, but women are highly emotional creatures. There is a worlds difference in the behavior and (ESPECIALLY) effort between a woman who is interested and one who is not.



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I used to be like that too.
See the thing is, he did chase; the chase was trying to set something up with her. After she saw his call, its up to her to reciprocate some type of interest. She gotta be accountable for something. But hitting her up after she didnt respond to the initial attempt, is counterintuitive.
 

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I used to be like that too.
See the thing is, he did chase; the chase was trying to set something up with her. After she saw his call, its up to her to reciprocate some type of interest. She gotta be accountable for something. But hitting her up after she didnt respond to the initial attempt, is counterintuitive.
There is the chase and digging your own grave.

Sometimes your chase will have you digging a hole to China believing you’re right on her tail.
 

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There is the chase and digging your own grave.

Sometimes your chase will have you digging a hole to China believing you’re right on her tail.

Thats why that first phone call should be it.
She saw that missed call on her phone and women stay looking at their phone whenever they can.
If she was interested she make return contact.
 
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Y'all ever see a girl that there was a bit of interested in between you two and for whatever reason it fizzled? There's a girl I know that I went on a date on two years ago. Pretty attractive girl. I thought she was cool but something was off about her. I recall bumping into her intending on inviting her out, but I guess I wasn't as interested in her. She was always on social media posting selfies, got a bit of a feminist vibe which I'm not down with, and one imperfection about her always weirded me out. :mjlol: So honestly I knew all those things made me lukewarm about her. So I see her on social media sometimes and think :ehh: She gives me the cold shoulder now and lost interest in me. No matter now since I'm in a relationship now.

But I have caught myself from time to time thinking what may have happened if I pursued her. :patrice: I also think the fact that she has actively ignored me it makes me more curious. Not that I'm saying I'm trying to step out of bounds of my relationship or pursue her :whoa: Just thinking aloud since ole girl popped up on my news feed. Just wondering if that random thought got in your head before.
 

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Need hella advice Brehs

Ima real good looking dude

I get hard choosing signals every day or every other day
By chicks at my job or just in passing


Not to brag but just want u to understand my situation


Just yesterday this tall dark slim athletic cute face chick i work with approached me

Was surprised cause she usually quiet talk to no1

She always gave me eye contact and always gave me looks (especially when she thought I wasnt looking)

We started talking

Made her laugh and shyt

Ended up getting her number
Sent her text with my name she said ok cool

But Now 2 days later I'm stuck like always dk what to do

Should I text her , what should I text, should I jus come out say I wanna fukk , I dont like going out to eat or movies and shyt cause to me that's Simping shyt I only do that if I already smashed

Outside of internet dating iv never fukked a chick I met in real life beside once
And that was at this same job

And that was only because the chick really was attracted to me
Dam sure not cause of my convo

She started flirting . called me sexy so I took it from there . It was easy

Iv gotten other chicks numbers at my job to. A couple even approached me

But I never close the deal

Crazy cause I get so many strong signals

Had 1 cute chick say she was gone be my baby mother. another said I was her husband

As far as eye contact forget it
I get that everyday

Any tips brehs

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Thats why that first phone call should be it.
She says that missed call on her phone and women stay looking at their phone whenever they can.
If she was interested she make return contact.
Who knows maybe those 2 have been talking all night. Then again she’s a college student and this is mid-term season.
 

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Who knows maybe those 2 have been talking all night. Then again she’s a college student and this is mid-term season.

Well according to what was posted, she didnt pick up and he was talking about texting her the next day.
And it wouldnt matter if she was a college student or not; she saw that phone call at some point so its job to reach back out. Its not his to keep blowing her phone up until she answers
 
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