Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Jhoon]

Yep, my options are good but shyt gets tiring, this chick ticked most of the boxes, but she's a strange one. And this year especially I now take anything a woman says in the moment not seriously.

Tbh I have appreciated the straightforward conversations me and her had. I think she's feeling the pressure of what she's doing with life. Everyone she knows are in pretty solid careers, and she's ambling around in her mid 30s despite being talented. I met her for lunch last week as she was in the area and brought her back to my work for a tour of the facilities and I know that had her feeling that she isn't really where she wants to be in regards to her craft.

That's her business though, I don't chase. You can help a chick, listen to her , care for her and still have her throw you in the trash once shes back on her feet.

Jesus, you sound like she got the best of you.

 

[VertigoKnight]

Jesus, you sound like she got the best of you.

Haha I was digging her for sure. But her career stuff is her business.

It's just disappointing, but still onward I go.

 

[jadillac]

I know I just wrote a little something on this, but why would a girl want to be friends with a man? Does she want something? ... is she looking for something? ..

Its a complicated logic, but seemingly a simple thing.

1. She wants the satisfaction of knowing you(not you but guys) like her. For her ego sake.
2. She wants prospect of keeping you around for attention. This goes back to #1 of her knowing you like her. Basically keeping you like a puppet on a string.
3. She likes little pieces of the men in her life. So selfishly, she'll use you bc you give her your time/conversation/positive advice and always making her feel good about herself (ego). She'll use another guy for a different purpose.
She uses the idea of you prob wanting more (relationship or sex) from her as a reason to know you'll always pay attention/respond to her when she hits you up (again ego). Plus women love conversation. Makes her ego feel good to look at her text app and see a bunch of guys texting her/have multiple conversations going

Obviously I'm generalizing, and this isnt all women, but you have an idea of the ones I'm referring to

 

[pickles]

You reading too much into that. Not that i need to answer but no I'm not old, nor am I white

My dude you white as hell, and possibly retarded.

Aint nothing wrong with dipping your toes in some Ebony

 

[HARLEM AL]

So there was a bytch that I was texting for a few days and everything seemed cool.she would send text that were borderline little bit extra flirty like um she had posted a picture on Instagram where you can kind of see her ass. I was like oh damn I see some poking and she's like oh you did eye emoji and shyt like that and then I took a little bit step further I best things r thick..but after that didn't get a text me and the next day I texted her like oh what was that too much still didn't get a response so today I hit this bytch up like hello? And she said heyyyy ...past 2 days bytch was all on insta havinh girls night n shyt

Think ima just cut her off

She just wants attention. ignore her or do what I do.

A broad tries shyt like that with me I’ll hit her up back like “You got 2 options, you either let me watch my dikk go in and out your mouth or you leave me the fukk alone” . That might be too raw for some but she either got to put up or shut up. Broads will waste your time if you let them. Word is bond playa

 

[Jhoon]

She just wants attention. ignore her or do what I do.

A broad tries shyt like that with me I’ll hit her up back like “You got 2 options, you either let me watch my dikk go in and out your mouth or you leave me the fukk alone” . That might be too raw for some but she either got to put up or shut up. Broads will waste your time if you let them. Word is bond playa

you’re not lying.

 

[Droopy]

seem like every chick got a kid

 

[John Reena]

seem like every chick got a kid

Breh....every chick from 21-35 pretty much got a kid.

 

[Canon]

Breh....every chick from 21-35 pretty much got a kid.

And the ones that don’t got boyfriends ,don’t like you, or fat

 

[Deafheaven]

I def am coming to the conclusion you need like 3-5 bytches on call at all times in this climate


Im not polyamorous at all but sheesh these byrds are too fickle

 

[George Gooney]

BLK dating app has some of the worst looking women ever.

 

[VertigoKnight]

I def am coming to the conclusion you need like 3-5 bytches on call at all times in this climate


Im not polyamorous at all but sheesh these byrds are too fickle

I think the growth of the IG 'self care' quote movement hasn't helped and makes women even more miserable. And it's mostly women who subscribe to this stuff. Basically makes it seem that any shytty decision they make is free of consequence and an excuse to be flaky and not apologize for anything they do because 'self care'.

A few chicks I've dealt with follow a lot of that shyt. Nothing wrong with actual guided self care that you learn from. But many treat it as an out for not being decent human beings.

 

[buzzkill]

I def am coming to the conclusion you need like 3-5 bytches on call at all times in this climate


Im not polyamorous at all but sheesh these byrds are too fickle

Me and my brother and homies talk about this all the time... if you dont have a rotation and aren't prepared for any chick to fall off you are going to lose

 

[DapMeUp!]

That second one all I read is "Stay away from people who make you feel accountable for your actions"

Put any random words as a quote in a meme and bytches will eat it up

 

[Pyrexcup]

getting good reception so far in london just need to improve my closing game. 2020 should be fun