Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[buzzkill]

This is our interaction:

Met her last week, talked for like 3 mins and exchanged numbers. Called a few days later to set something up on Sat, she said she was out of town for weekend. No biggies.

Called today and got the quick (can I call you later?) text. I replied and said 'cool np'. That's been the extent of our interaction.

Me sending a "Hey, I'm planning to grabs drinks at XYZ on Saturday you wanna come" text tomorrow is light weight. If it's positive cool, I got a date for Saturday night, if not then at least I know I actually made an offer.

I don't really have much to lose IMO

go for it if you got your heart set on it but you might be making yourself come off like you're too available... if i were you i would see if she shows some sort of effort to call u later like she said and in the meantime u fall back and hit up another shorty

 

[phcitywarrior]

go for it if you got your heart set on it but you might be making yourself come off like you're too available... if i were you i would see if she shows some sort of effort to call u later like she said and in the meantime u fall back and hit up another shorty

Yeah, that's the thing with chicks these days. Showing intent or interest is seen as doing too much. Hence me just resorting to a text. I'll give it till Friday to try to set things up.

I've had some really good dates with some chicks even when the initial signs seemed "off". Some brehs would have told me to cut my losses short.

I just like to follow through till the end. Of course if I can take a hint and tell when it's done.

 

[DeuceZ]

Idk, maybe it’s me. I like to take action and get a definite response.

I’m not gonna call again. Just shoot her a text tomorrow asking if she wanna grab drinks on Friday/Saturday.

I’m not too pressed as I got a trip I’m going on soon and gotta even shelve away some cash for.

Oga her message said she'll call you later... don't text her. I was messaging this girl she said I'll call you after my nap... that was almost a year ago and she still breathing

 

[phcitywarrior]

Oga her message said she'll call you later... don't text her. I was messaging this girl she said I'll call you after my nap... that was almost a year ago and she still breathing

Omo I dey work dey cry man

Man my Naija brehs speaking that real

Can't wait to be in Lagos in a month.

Detty December in full effect

USD to Naira looking real good right now.

 

[VertigoKnight]

So I posted an IG story last night as I was out meeting another old lady friend at a nice bar. Within 3 mins of the story going up, shorty who frustrated me this past weekend viewed the story.

Not even going to conclude anything from that except.




Thank you to the brehs in here holding each other accountable and posting advice and thoughts even if it's not what we want to hear.

 

[MAKAVELI25]

Why call her tomorrow? She clearly saw you tried to call.
Better fall back until she hits you up.

This is one thing I struggle with as well. I do believe men are supposed to chase, but women are highly emotional creatures. There is a worlds difference in the behavior and (ESPECIALLY) effort between a woman who is interested and one who is not.

This is our interaction:

Met her last week, talked for like 3 mins and exchanged numbers. Called a few days later to set something up on Sat, she said she was out of town for weekend. No biggies.

Called today and got the quick (can I call you later?) text. I replied and said 'cool np'. That's been the extent of our interaction.

Me sending a "Hey, I'm planning to grabs drinks at XYZ on Saturday you wanna come" text tomorrow is light weight. If it's positive cool, I got a date for Saturday night, if not then at least I know I actually made an offer.

I don't really have much to lose IMO

 

[MikelArteta]

yeah so deleted that nigerian lawyer chick number. Been noticing i'm the only one initiating, was back at my work site downtown and hit her up for coffee and got the maybe some other time

 

[MikelArteta]

Omo I dey work dey cry man

Man my Naija brehs speaking that real

Can't wait to be in Lagos in a month.

Detty December in full effect

USD to Naira looking real good right now.

dem lekki girl dem

I still talk to like 7 chicks i met in lagos and its been a year and a half since i been there

 

[MikelArteta]

Oga her message said she'll call you later... don't text her. I was messaging this girl she said I'll call you after my nap... that was almost a year ago and she still breathing

mtchewwwwwww
she just hibernating breh

 

[Marzupial]

yeah so deleted that nigerian lawyer chick number. Been noticing i'm the only one initiating, was back at my work site downtown and hit her up for coffee and got the maybe some other time

Another one who pays for your food and isn't interested?

 

[MikelArteta]

Another one who pays for your food and isn't interested?

streak continues

 

[dakidbanks]

Read a couple these posts... maaan a lot of y’all dealin with chicks that are too entitled or they’re playing that “I know my worth” game and makin y’all go in circles actin all outta character for some pu$$y

if she that fine when you bagged her then newsflash, she’s already talking to 2 and a possible.... social media made the game easy, you don’t even have to be in person to pull these broads. Most these chicks already gettin dikked down by somebody that ain’t tryna do nothin beyond that by the time you approach them

and if you keep tryna initiate shyt and she ain’t givin you the time of day then cut her off cuz what Woman ain’t finna accept a free meal or drink

some of y’all think y’all reached the finish line cuz you got the #... some of these girls don’t know how to say no or they intended for you to stay in the friend zone

 

[Noriega]

I understand what yall mean by a 8 in one city is a 6 in another city

It’s girls I fw up in Milwaukee that nikkas was gassing up and being back here in Chicago, most of them average asl

 

[dakidbanks]

I understand what yall mean by a 8 in one city is a 6 in another city

It’s girls I fw up in Milwaukee that nikkas was gassing up and being back here in Chicago, most of them average asl

Facts... you go outta town or overseas to the right place and come back to your city and all the 10s gon start lookin like strong 6s and 7s

 

[Noriega]

Facts... you go outta town or overseas to the right place and come back to your city and all the 10s gon start lookin like strong 6s and 7s

What I do bout this ugly big girl at work who stay trying to get at me. She asks about me when I ain’t around.

the guys (older cats) keep saying I’m scared of p*ssy etc...I’m like I ain’t that desperate and I know what I want. I don’t got no problems with big girls but she bout 30 I’m 21 and she not cute at all.