Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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On a positive note, a couple of chicks i used to smash came back into my life.

-Director chick. Shes worked on a number of high profile Netflix shows and movies. Smashed her last week then found her ring in her purse. Asked her if she was married but she wouldn't answer, so i cut her off. She keeps texting me asking if I am mad at her, and the truth is i dont give a fukk. I just dont like how she didn't tell me she was married because i could've been killed by a jealous husband and not even known why. I should've known though. In the 2 years weve been fukking, she never asked for one date, dinner, movie, or money. All she wanted to do is smoke and fukk.

-Kash. Freak bytch. I was fukking her while her baby daddy was in jail and they were going through a divorce. She stopped fukking me because she randomly hit me up to buy her weed one day, only for her to smoke, and i said no because we weren't going to be smoking together. We still follow each other on snap and she has a lil boyfriend now. She hit me up Monday because she was home along and wanted me to come over. I had her open the door naked, beat her guts in, nut on her tittes, and left. Now shes back texting me freaky shyt and wants to meet up at least once a week.

-White hoe. Thick pawg ass white bytch. COMPLETE slut. She is down for anything and everything. We stopped talking because she switched careers and got busy. She came over last night and i fukked her mouth while watch porn on the big screen. Beat the p*ssy up and sent her home. She wants me to setup a gangbang situation with a few of my boys. Loves black dikk, but shes a complete slut.

-Chicago. This chick is in love with me. She will do anything i ask. If i say jump, she will ask how high. There is nothing i cant ask her for. She loves taking me out, getting me drunk, and taking me home to fukk. She paid for the first two dates even though i had the money in my pocket and was willing to pay. Completely submissive. Shes never flaked on one date or meet up, and loves to suck me off. Shes my main chick and the rest are just flavors that i enjoy from time to time.

So ultimately, i dont care about that chick flaking on me because i have plenty of others who are hella into me. i say all that to say this: ALWAYS KEEP A ROSTER. IF you cant build a roster, find a chick who is more into you than you are into her, and feast. Theres plenty of bytches out here and they're all fukking brehs, so just find the ones for you. And if the one you want doesn't want you back, then shes not the one for you. Does not mean there is anything wrong with you brehs

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I bushed a chick today that I know for a fact has depression and may be suicidal. She sent me a text right after the date stating that she had the best time she has had in months and was looking forward to seeing me again. But during that date she put up a lot of red flags that I cannot ignore.
 
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Women have been using flirting as a tool since the beginning of time to get what they want out of men or a situation. When a woman flirts with you, it doesn’t necessarily mean she likes you. But it means that you either have something she wants or there’s something you can do for her. What women want you to think is that they like you so that you can do these things for her that she needs done. She might say some provocative things to you. She might touch or rub against you gently. She might constantly smile and bat her eyes at you. She might overly complement and be suggestive. She might fix her attire in a way so that you can see her nice legs, cleavage, or even her panties. Women are really good at seducing men. Women will get you to do anything they want if you think you have a shot at getting laid by them. That’s why you gotta come with the approach “if she’s asking me for something, she’s probably using me.” Ever had a girl flirt with you at the club and then ask you for a ride home. And without even knowing her, you did it because you thought she would invite you in? That’s why you really can’t allow these flirting women to be indirect. If a woman is flirting with you and giving you the vibe that she’s interested, then it’s on you as a man to be upfront. Do not play along because then you’re just gonna be disappointed because you misinterpreted her signals. Gotta hit her with the “Are we gonna hook up or not?” And let her know that you’re interested in getting to know her. If she’s still not being straightforward about her intentions after that, cut her loose. Stop doing favors for these women because they’re flirting with you. Stop monopolizing your time with these women because they’re making you think they’re interested. A woman who is interested will tell you that she’s interested after you let her know that you’re interested in her. A woman who’s trying to use you will never commit and will use coded language to keep you hooked, but never say anything that you can hold her to. Be smart.

 

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Women have been using flirting as a tool since the beginning of time to get what they want out of men or a situation. When a woman flirts with you, it doesn’t necessarily mean she likes you. But it means that you either have something she wants or there’s something you can do for her. What women want you to think is that they like you so that you can do these things for her that she needs done. She might say some provocative things to you. She might touch or rub against you gently. She might constantly smile and bat her eyes at you. She might overly complement and be suggestive. She might fix her attire in a way so that you can see her nice legs, cleavage, or even her panties. Women are really good at seducing men. Women will get you to do anything they want if you think you have a shot at getting laid by them. That’s why you gotta come with the approach “if she’s asking me for something, she’s probably using me.” Ever had a girl flirt with you at the club and then ask you for a ride home. And without even knowing her, you did it because you thought she would invite you in? That’s why you really can’t allow these flirting women to be indirect. If a woman is flirting with you and giving you the vibe that she’s interested, then it’s on you as a man to be upfront. Do not play along because then you’re just gonna be disappointed because you misinterpreted her signals. Gotta hit her with the “Are we gonna hook up or not?” And let her know that you’re interested in getting to know her. If she’s still not being straightforward about her intentions after that, cut her loose. Stop doing favors for these women because they’re flirting with you. Stop monopolizing your time with these women because they’re making you think they’re interested. A woman who is interested will tell you that she’s interested after you let her know that you’re interested in her. A woman who’s trying to use you will never commit and will use coded language to keep you hooked, but never say anything that you can hold her to. Be smart.

This is actually great advice. I have a flirtatious personality so it can often be misconstrued as interest. But I am attentive to everyone; men, women & children. But even when addressed directly it won't stop many men if they are really interested in that woman. I have a guy who has been trying for years. I think he thinks he's gonna catch me slipping one day. Won't ever happen.
 

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What you think about a woman that wakes up checking IG and constantly scrolling /posting on it throughout the day?

She likes certain nikkas photos often and she has a couple bathing suit photos. Nothing TOO revealing, maybe an angled thong pic or something. nikkas in her DMs as expected.

Other than IG addiction, she's a great mother and girlfriend.

I've grown not to trust social media or women for that matter...

So, what's your verdict as a woman?

Brehs your opinion is ok as well...
 

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What you think about a woman that wakes up checking IG and constantly scrolling /posting on it throughout the day?

She likes certain nikkas photos often and she has a couple bathing suit photos. Nothing TOO revealing, maybe an angled thong pic or something. nikkas in her DMs as expected.

Other than IG addiction, she's a great mother and girlfriend.

I've grown not to trust social media or women for that matter...

So, what's your verdict as a woman?

Brehs your opinion is ok as well...

Who is she to you and what plans are you contemplating for her?
 
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