Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

Rev Leon Lonnie Love

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I mean...has he done anything remotely grimy towards you that you might have overlooked
we've only known each other since the start of the year. we only became friend since we live together and have a few things in common. cant say i've picked up on shyt her did to me, but he has fukked one of the chicks we live with (she's rarely ever there and always at her man's place) even though she has a boyfriend. I know he doesnt mind fukking girls in relationships.
 

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we've only known each other since the start of the year. we only became friend since we live together and have a few things in common. cant say i've picked up on shyt her did to me, but he has fukked one of the chicks we live with (she's rarely ever there and always at her man's place) even though she has a boyfriend. I know he doesnt mind fukking girls in relationships.

That nikka Is problems:merchant:
 

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Nah like why keep em on social media

Why keep following them on ig

Breh this is a lose lose situation for you. If delete her and she sees you have. She will know she has you in your feelings.

My suggestion is just mute her on IG and FB so you don't have to see her. And keep it moving with another chick.
 

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You have to understand one important thing about women and that is they feed off emotions. The wrong woman can be a succubus in your life if you let her. No matter what is going on, they will try draw something out of you to move you. They are like the unstoppable force looking to meet the immovable object. When dealing with anything like their games, rejection, or words trying to make you jealous, you can NOT feed into it. Ever. Falling back and letting them spin in their own web is your best bet when you smell something like that cooking up for you. Don't jump in and get mad at her, argue, or try set her up for a false date or whatever. I see guys in here trying to play games right back with the woman, and that is the worst possible thing to do.


For instance, if a girl has you pissed because she's ghosting you/flaking/saying things about other guys to test you, but you and her aren't a couple, then just shrug that off nonchalantly and lose interest in her. Don't go directly into it and try to out logic her and her words. SHOW her that what she said/did was wack and give her space. The more space you give her the better for you. That says strength and shows discipline from you. If it's your girl then calmly let her know you're not feeling her and what she's doing, then put her on time out. Just like a kid, because that's how she's acting. Then go to do something else and keep your energy for things like getting money, other women who aren't playing with you, exercising, hobbies, going places etc.

There's A LOT more you can be doing with your life rather than stress over a shorty who is acting out. There is only so much time to do the things you want to in life, than to try out smart them all the time. All you're doing with that is jumping into the witches' brew to stew in there.
 
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You have to understand one important thing about women and that is they feed off emotions. The wrong woman can be a succubus in your life if you let her. No matter what is going on, they will try draw something out of you to move you. They are like the unstoppable force looking to meet the immovable object. When dealing with anything like their games, rejection, or words trying to make you jealous, you can NOT feed into it. Ever. Falling back and letting them spin in their own web is your best bet when you smell something like that cooking up for you. Don't jump in and get mad at her, argue, or try set her up for a false date or whatever. I see guys in here trying to play games right back with the woman, and that is the worst possible thing to do.


For instance, if a girl has you pissed because she's ghosting you/flaking/saying things about other guys to test you, but you and her aren't a couple, then just shrug that off nonchalantly and lose interest in her. Don't go directly into it and try to out logic her and her words. SHOW her that what she said/did was wack and give her space. The more space you give her the better for you. That says strength and shows discipline from you. If it's your girl then calmly let her know you're not feeling her and what she's doing, then put her on time out. Just like a kid, because that's how she's acting. Then go to do something else and keep your energy for things like getting money, other women who aren't playing with you, exercising, hobbies, going places etc.

There's A LOT more you can be doing with your life rather than stress over a shorty who is acting out. There is only so much time to do the things you want to in life, than to try out smart them all the time. All you're doing with that is jumping into the witches' brew to stew in there.

to add to crossbones point....distance and space apart can be a true blessing. I can't tell ya'll brehs how many times that....when a chick did something to irritate me and i disregarded her.....i was afforded clarity. Clarity to realize and ask myself why was i feelin some type of way...especially over her.

whether its cuz you see how she is around others, how she looks differently on a particular day or week (in a bad way)...or just something...you get turned off like:hhh: then if she comes back to you...guess who has all the power of indifference? :mjgrin:

so yea....never ever trip over a broad...cuz u never know how u might feel a few days later after you've cooled off.

call it post-thought. :mjgrin:
 
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