Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Apex]

You have to understand one important thing about women and that is they feed off emotions. The wrong woman can be a succubus in your life if you let her. No matter what is going on, they will try draw something out of you to move you. They are like the unstoppable force looking to meet the immovable object. When dealing with anything like their games, rejection, or words trying to make you jealous, you can NOT feed into it. Ever. Falling back and letting them spin in their own web is your best bet when you smell something like that cooking up for you. Don't jump in and get mad at her, argue, or try set her up for a false date or whatever. I see guys in here trying to play games right back with the woman, and that is the worst possible thing to do.


For instance, if a girl has you pissed because she's ghosting you/flaking/saying things about other guys to test you, but you and her aren't a couple, then just shrug that off nonchalantly and lose interest in her. Don't go directly into it and try to out logic her and her words. SHOW her that what she said/did was wack and give her space. The more space you give her the better for you. That says strength and shows discipline from you. If it's your girl then calmly let her know you're not feeling her and what she's doing, then put her on time out. Just like a kid, because that's how she's acting. Then go to do something else and keep your energy for things like getting money, other women who aren't playing with you, exercising, hobbies, going places etc.

There's A LOT more you can be doing with your life rather than stress over a shorty who is acting out. There is only so much time to do the things you want to in life, than to try out smart them all the time. All you're doing with that is jumping into the witches' brew to stew in there.

how do u go about finding girls

do u just go to a mall and approach em

whats ur technique and where do u do it cause a lot of times a girl is with a friend or has earphones in

 

[International Playa]

damn so y'all just gon skip over this huh

Write cliffnotes or quick short paragraph, no one got time to read a book

 

[International Playa]

how do u go about finding girls

do u just go to a mall and approach em

whats ur technique and where do u do it cause a lot of times a girl is with a friend or has earphones in

Friday - Sunday,

social events like BBQs, music festivals,night clubs,parties, fundraising events, church etc

Then use online dating apps as a supplement, online dating u can be messaging females while chilling at home 24/7

 

[CrossBones]

how do u go about finding girls

do u just go to a mall and approach em

whats ur technique and where do u do it cause a lot of times a girl is with a friend or has earphones in

I used to do the malls back in high school. I was a still just a kid and my best friend was Dominican, and if you know them, especially ones who just came here, they go hard hollering at chicks LOL. Basically we went up and just talked to them. I had to wingman him at first, and it was to my surprise the simplest thing (not the easiest, but simplest). Our technique was about the simplest and most basic it could get "hi, my name's ... (go to shake her hand. but not like a guy's hand, more like to hold her hand) " "How are you?" "So what'chu doing?" "You're just coming from ... (store name on her bags)? What's good over there?" Started off with a nod and a smile. Walk up and say just about anything to initiate a conversation that isn't a yes or no question.


If she has headphones on she is not trying to talk to anyone, but that shouldn't matter if you really want to talk to her. Matter of fact, as I think about it, my friend has this thing where he would get eye contact with a girl that had headphones on, or tap her on the shoulder, and talk to her QUIETLY so she can't hear him. It generally made her take off at least a headphone and see what he's saying. You and the girl can sort of chuckle about it. Sometimes they dismiss you but then you just smirk and walk off. Taking an L is cool, because that's how you get better. Going with a friend is a better experience but not an excuse to avoid doing it.


Everyone is worried about how they're going to look in public, but really no one gives a fukk. I know a lot of people are gonna doubt it, but there really is no complicated way to talk to women. If you are doing too much thinking, then you're doing it wrong. The thing I learned from him was assume she's going to be receptive of you, and the other rule is: if she's still talking to you, you can get the number. (Even if it's fake LOL)


Women like men, and they like to talk. In fact, they like men with balls who can talk to them. So do that. Just make sure you're not some buddy buddy, let's talk about your problems mr. sensitive guy. You're talking to get her number or maybe invite her out to something you got planned for later (have plans, don't say "Uhhh I don't know. We can do whatever.")


You say whatever you want really, and if she's feeling your vibe it's that simple. If you're saying some pre-programmed shyt to get a specific reaction, you're going to sound wack. Talk to them and try to make a conversation with her about something that's going on around y'all. I did this in high school on the weekends, but I wasn't as good as my friend. Then I moved away and I didn't do the cold approaches like that. I basically only met girls through school, study buddies that turned to party invites and dates, some friends meet other friends and we hang out, etc. I didn't get back into hollering at women out of nowhere again until a few years ago. So on cold-approaches, it's not the only way to do it, in fact there's more ways to holler at girls than you give yourself credit for.

 

[CrossBones]

I'm going to say one thing about online dating and the reason why it's not my thing. Every guy is hollering at every woman, and every women isn't even interested in about 80% of them. They don't take it serious and it's a buyers market. For them really it's a time sink, and a way for women to judge you more for what you have, than what you are or can bring. It's superficial, it's social media pick and choose, and it's over saturated with cat fishes, scams, fat women, single mothers, and women who don't get out much (could be a red flag to be real with you).

I'm not totally against it, I've used it and I've met women through it. However, I feel like the quality and the vibes weren't the same as when you get to meet someone face to face and THEN decide you want to know them more. Tinder and hook up apps are probably where you will get the most results, or something like match.com maybe, but I'm just not feeling it right now.

Oddly enough, the best results I ever got from online dating sites were when I was super choosy and wrote specific DMs to the women I was interested in, instead of copying and pasting a similar message every girl who looked "okay" or "passable" enough to fukk. Buckshot techniques got me less than being picky.

 

[MollyGalaga]

Having a roster is overrated


Especially since i dont like to remember names

 

[Silkk]

I hate that gap between letting a chick go and meeting a new chick but it must be done

 

[MikelArteta]

I hate that gap between letting a chick go and meeting a new chick but it must be done

As time goes on that gap gets shorter and shorter

 

[Rev Leon Lonnie Love]

I hate that gap between letting a chick go and meeting a new chick but it must be done

thats why u continue meeting new chicks even if your situation with current isnt bad. you aint got to fukk em, keep em on the bench until its time to put them on the field to play.

 

[Silkk]

thats why u continue meeting new chicks even if your situation with current isnt bad. you aint got to fukk em, keep em on the bench until its time to put them on the field to play.

Nah I need a timeout completely from women. I let all of my other ones go already.

If I meet somebody dope then thats cool, but I cant have that being my focus right now. Too much on the line between now & January.

 

[Apex]

thats why u continue meeting new chicks even if your situation with current isnt bad. you aint got to fukk em, keep em on the bench until its time to put them on the field to play.

where do u meet em

how do u approach em

 

[Rev Leon Lonnie Love]

where do u meet em

how do u approach em

bruh come on
it doesnt take that much effort to read the last 5 pages of this thread. These 2 questions have been answered multiple times already

 

[Solano707]

where do u meet em

how do u approach em

man get the fukk out here, you just trolling now an it's not even funny.

 

[Apex]

Excuse me
Hi how are u?

After that is free flowing
Basically say what I meant to say that made me come over in the first place just with great eye contact, a smile and with confidence

Whether it was for me to just compliment her and walk away or get her number or ask how her day has been dont matter
My whole point is if I got her to smile dont matter if I got the digits or not cuz when I do try I'll get it most of the time cuz of the calmness and how safe or approachable I am too them.
Once your comfortable with random women with convo it's usually game set match most of the time

dont they think ur weird/creepy tho

its also difficult if they have a friend with them, no?

 

[ViShawn]

Man I'm starting to question the usefulness of online dating. I've bumped into girls that I've seen online funny enough.

The thing is that when I get back on I definitely see a few familiar faces. I don't know if it's them or the nature of online dating. I recall going on a date with one woman and I see her back online months later.

I feel like it's just better attempting to meet women by going to a lot of events. The good thing with that is that I almost always bump into friends or colleagues which increases my social status. Definitely using the fact that I'm extroverted to my advantage.