Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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CrossBones said:
You sent mixed signals to the original girl. She caught feelings and once she saw you with her friend so she didn't appreciate her emotions being played with. You said you were with the first girl 24/7, and that means A LOT to them. You have to understand that time is the woman's most valued thing. She wants your time. They want your attention. Since she lost it, she is mad at her friend for getting all your time and whatever, so she was probably was told to fall back with you. Solving this involves you talking to the first girl about things, and trying to straighten it out with girl number two. You have yourself in a sitcom like situation here and you got to mediate this thing.

Conversely, you could just fall back. In time the other girl may hit you up on some "How you been" shyt and you can start again. The other one might too.
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That was exactly my theory too, I just wanted confirmation. Situations like these are funny on those sitcoms but they suck in real life. To this day I still never made anything clear with the first girl, girl #2 (best friend) told me she would keep what happened between us, I've yet to hear anything from girl #1 (the original) and she still blows up my phone everyday, inviting me over and stuff. I appreciate your advice and I agree with you about straighten things out. I just feel like I waited too long and that window has closed. I have been hoping one day I would just get a text saying that shes talking to another guy or something so she can forget about me.
 
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I want some insight on a situation. I meet one girl, from the jump its clear she likes me, I don't like her like that but I entertain it I guess you could say. We talk 24/7, go out, etc, but I never made any moves to take it to the next level. I meet her best friend, who I actually like and want to get with, start talking to her 24/7, we go out, etc etc. I'm still talking to the original girl but I am friend zoning her hard. Although I am talking to both girls I never mention them to each other. After a few dates the best friend gets a little distant. :lupe: In a panic I tell her how I feel and she tell she doesn't want to be more than friends :to:. Now we don't even talk. Someone explain to me what happened?
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you were too indecisive and both of them picked up on it. Next time, pick one and lock in on the target. Dont try to juggle two women who are friends UNLESS you have already fukked one of them and the other is suddenly throwing the p*ssy at you. its over breh, take your L and keep it moving
 
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What do you brehs think of your friends flirting and shooting their shot at bytches that you used to casually fukk but are no longer talking to? :jbhmm:

I have a suspicion that one of my brehs I live with is talking to this other chick I been fukking but cut off last month (she didnt want us to stop, but her drama turned me off of her so i cut her loose). She regularly visits our place since one of her female friends lives with us. This weekend they were being extra friendly to each other while I walked in on all three of them chilling in our kitchen. She obviously tried to have an attitute towards me but I kept shyt civil and actually joined their convo. I could tell she wasnt comfortable with me being there and she kept walking in and out. Their body language around and my gut feeling says them two might be talking on the low (or maybe already fukking).

Now i dont mind nikkas im not friends with fukking my old hoes, but I cant respect a nikka who calls me his boy going after my old hoes. Shyt looks funny in the light to me, even if she pretty much threw the p*ssy to him (im 100% sure her intentions are to spite me for cutting her ass off), but a friend of mine cant be that lazy to mack n just settle with my sloppy seconds :picard:. The nikka is a legit 8/10 on a normal day and admittedly waaay better looking than me and hoes ALWAYS be checking him out.

If I find that they plotting behind my back I might have to cut this nikka off too and stop being friends even though we live in the same place. :stopitslime:

What would y'all do in a situation like this???:patrice:
 
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you were too indecisive and both of them picked up on it. Next time, pick one and lock in on the target. Dont try to juggle two women who are friends UNLESS you have already fukked one of them and the other is suddenly throwing the p*ssy at you. its over breh, take your L and keep it moving
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It's not over yet.
 
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YBG613 said:
After all that has been said and done, its gonna be hard for you not to come off to them as a desperate dude who refuses to accept his L. but if you wanna try some more, then do it. goodluck :yeshrug:
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Them? I clearly stated I'm only interested in one, and the one I am not interested still blows my phone every day not sure how that makes me come off as desperate.
 
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Dreamzeedream said:
:francis: one thing about this rejection shyt it wakes you up.You can either level up and step yo game or sit around feeling sorry for yourself. The choice is yours
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yep, it be like that. As much I cold approach frequently during the daytime with moderate success, there are times where I have so many back-to-back misses that fukk up my modod and have me feeling all flabby n sick like :mjhairline:. IN those situations, I just let those emotions simmer and take a few days off approaching to recharge my confidence then come back on some:takedat::shaq: :myman: mode.
 
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YBG613 said:
What do you brehs think of your friends flirting and shooting their shot at bytches that you used to casually fukk but are no longer talking to? :jbhmm:

I have a suspicion that one of my brehs I live with is talking to this other chick I been fukking but cut off last month (she didnt want us to stop, but her drama turned me off of her so i cut her loose). She regularly visits our place since one of her female friends lives with us. This weekend they were being extra friendly to each other while I walked in on all three of them chilling in our kitchen. She obviously tried to have an attitute towards me but I kept shyt civil and actually joined their convo. I could tell she wasnt comfortable with me being there and she kept walking in and out. Their body language around and my gut feeling says them two might be talking on the low (or maybe already fukking).

Now i dont mind nikkas im not friends with fukking my old hoes, but I cant respect a nikka who calls me his boy going after my old hoes. Shyt looks funny in the light to me, even if she pretty much threw the p*ssy to him (im 100% sure her intentions are to spite me for cutting her ass off), but a friend of mine cant be that lazy to mack n just settle with my sloppy seconds :picard:. The nikka is a legit 8/10 on a normal day and admittedly waaay better looking than me and hoes ALWAYS be checking him out.

If I find that they plotting behind my back I might have to cut this nikka off too and stop being friends even though we live in the same place. :stopitslime:

What would y'all do in a situation like this???:patrice:
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damn so y'all just gon skip over this huh :stopitslime::francis:
 
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