Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
- Thread starter Rominati
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Excuse me
Hi how are u?
After that is free flowing
Basically say what I meant to say that made me come over in the first place just with great eye contact, a smile and with confidence
Whether it was for me to just compliment her and walk away or get her number or ask how her day has been dont matter
My whole point is if I got her to smile dont matter if I got the digits or not cuz when I do try I'll get it most of the time cuz of the calmness and how safe or approachable I am too them.
Once your comfortable with random women with convo it's usually game set match most of the time
Vinny Lupton
Superstar
bushes
if she really wanted to see you she woulda been saw you
Means she fell sorry for u and gave u number out of pity most of the time imo or just a ego booster for her that u want too.
Either way it's a L
Having said that if she ever responds and wants too.
Knowing me cuz I ain't shyt she be number 1 on list for hit and quit for wasting my cell phone space tho
what if they're the ones who texted first tho for the convo
also had a cool convo not just a dry one
Dont mean shyt
Its simple
If a female truly want u she will always make time for u and keep in contact
They live on their phones
Its y I said hit and quit status cuz she wasting space on your phone for better suitors
Vinny Lupton
Superstar
Ive had plenty of bytches approach me first and it still dont go anywhere
This why you gotta talk to multiple girls sometimes. But like 9 at a time. You'll figure out the levels. When a woman is feeling u u will know and wont have to question it on here. Bush this ho
It means you move on, your time is to valuable for games
Rich Spirit
#LeveledUp
I’d wait about 2 days.
Straw Hat Luffy
Veteran
I talked to her after because I wanted to scold her on how its rude to make a rendezvous, and then disregard it as if everything is okay.Was supposed to hang with a female friend. The plan was to hang out around 3. She messages me and says lets go now around 2:30. I tell her in 30 mins because I was getting ready. I message her when I am ready and she says shes at a friends crib and will be for a hour or two.
I canceled the hang out sess. Shes all defensive now like, " you dont want to hang with me?"
Could have just asked me is it cool if we move our hanging out back instead of just automatically leaving me hanging for another hour or two.
shyt told me she dont respect my valuable time.sorry cut off
She apologized. The next day we set a agreeable time. And what do you know, she showed up on the dot.
This not even a female thing because its a life choice. If you dislike how you are treated by others, but allow it, those type of things will continue to happen.
would u block em from all social media and stuff
Squirtle
Supreme Chancellor
I want some insight on a situation. I meet one girl, from the jump its clear she likes me, I don't like her like that but I entertain it I guess you could say. We talk 24/7, go out, etc, but I never made any moves to take it to the next level. I meet her best friend, who I actually like and want to get with, start talking to her 24/7, we go out, etc etc. I'm still talking to the original girl but I am friend zoning her hard. Although I am talking to both girls I never mention them to each other. After a few dates the best friend gets a little distant. 
In a panic I tell her how I feel and she tell she doesn't want to be more than friends 
. Now we don't even talk. Someone explain to me what happened?
In a panic I tell her how I feel and she tell she doesn't want to be more than friends . Now we don't even talk. Someone explain to me what happened?
CrossBones
Louder than words
Now hold on hold on, she was FT me that night cause we were hanging that afternoon
She explained everything and i was just like
See i finally figured out how to keep my emotions in check
I got feelings for her but im not gonna let it affect my mental
I’ll let yall know how it went down
I'm going tell you from my experience, when you are starting fresh with a woman, pay attention to how she treats you. That shyt she's doing has put her in a specific box as of this moment. Judging from what I've seen, she is sidepiece material at best. Right now since you are new, you mean little to nothing for her. Just don't forget where you started at with her and don't even say you like her until you start going out and fukking her. There is nothing to like as of yet. In fact, because of this early behavior, I'd recommend keep her at an arms distance so to speak. Women who play games with mens' time are the type of girls to play all sorts of games with the men they're with as well. For her, you are not much more than an OPPORTUNITY and nothing else. So you have to see her as the same.
This is a very similar position you're in that I wanted to speak on about sidepieces. When you're in a roster, or you're running a roster, you find out quick that emotions have NO PLACE in the business. Never get petty or try to control her. That has no place in the game and it will actually get in the way of what you're trying to do. Patience pays off more often than not. In fact, you're better off not showing any emotion what so ever towards her shyt tests because it's nothing serious with her. It shows her that you're "cool" and even more than that, it says that you won't be controlled by her bullshyt. Soon that becomes the 20/80 thing where she only sees a little bit of you and imagines the other 80 to be better than that or even still that you are what she wants. Once she starts nitpicking or playing games with her other man because she's bored, your number will likely be called. Being a side dude means you play your position. You can be on stand by because there are no emotions tied up with her. And these days being a side dude is almost like being a starter, because you're roughly in the same place. You're just in queue
Take all that like shyt out the window on checking her, controlling her, or any of that shyt at this point. This isn't the time for it once you realize how she's treating you and she's not even your girl. Because believe it or not, flaking on you, not answering texts for a long time, and generally disregarding you are pretty much only shyt tests she's giving you. Understand that they are trying to manipulate you to see how you act. Her attraction level is so-so, therefor you do not come on strong at this point. You have to stop trying and cease giving a fukk and let it be with her after you've established contact (showing interest is important) and have asked her out (initiative). After that it's on her to come back to you. Trying too hard when she's playing you off to the side generally results in her catching you in your emotions and her looking at you as weak.
You see what she's doing is going through with it with another guy, or balancing men, etc and she is trying to see if you can wait your turn. That's all that game is. I wouldn't buy too much into her bullshyt act once you get to know her, and if you want to tag her and bag her, go ahead. Keep your emotions out of it and you'll be one step ahead of her games. Then once she is in line and cooperating, you start to check her, although chances are she is just into games and the best thing to do is to be cold to them. ALWAYS stay in check and don't play yourself out over these broads. If she is feeling you, there really isn't much work you have to do, so keep that in mind. She will give it to you if you are open and not needy.
CrossBones
Louder than words
I want some insight on a situation. I meet one girl, from the jump its clear she likes me, I don't like her like that but I entertain it I guess you could say. We talk 24/7, go out, etc, but I never made any moves to take it to the next level. I meet her best friend, who I actually like and want to get with, start talking to her 24/7, we go out, etc etc. I'm still talking to the original girl but I am friend zoning her hard. Although I am talking to both girls I never mention them to each other. After a few dates the best friend gets a little distant.
You sent mixed signals to the original girl. She caught feelings and once she saw you with her friend so she didn't appreciate her emotions being played with. You said you were with the first girl 24/7, and that means A LOT to them. You have to understand that time is the woman's most valued thing. She wants your time. They want your attention. Since she lost it, she is mad at her friend for getting all your time and whatever, so she was probably was told to fall back with you. Solving this involves you talking to the first girl about things, and trying to straighten it out with girl number two. You have yourself in a sitcom like situation here and you got to mediate this thing.
Conversely, you could just fall back. In time the other girl may hit you up on some "How you been" shyt and you can start again. The other one might too.
Nope, I just wouldn't deal with them anymore. Let them see you be happy doing you.