Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Apex said:
dont they think ur weird/creepy tho

its also difficult if they have a friend with them, no?
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No they do not unless u come off as one.
Smile, eye contact and confidence is all u need .
Never said it's a guaranteed it works but it builds u up inside to where it comes as second nature making convos which ultimately increases your success rate.

As far as a friend goes it's always difficult with one around cuz of tendacies of them cock blocking it's less likely when not in damn club which they expect it to happen.
Dont worry bout the friend is what it comes down too it. If they run interference I just do this.
If the girl i came over to talk too still seems interested I just give her my number anyways and walk away and it's up to her what she does with it.
If the friend is just being difficult I'm more likely not to even bother try or give number cuz it be a waste cuz she will just be in her ear especially if that same girl I came to holler at seems indecisive. U need clear I'm interested in u signs so u dont want deal with the hassle of the friend be a waste of time.


Also when it happens in a club and they have friends I just dance with all the friends till I get to the girl I came over to talk too. It shows I'm a fun guy I dont discriminate either and the friends appreciate it. Makes her even more interested in u and the cock block usually goes down alot that way.

Remember no sure fire way of the cold approach but great eye contact smiling and confidence greatly helps make it easier
And not worrying bout rejection makes it easier
Cuz worse they can say is no
Doing it often makes u greater at conversations and maintaining it longer which in return more appealing

Ex. I'm sorry but she isnt here looking for love sir
Me: sorry if that's what your thinking I'm not here for that. Just wanted to compliment her on (whatever it is was that made u wanna come over) nothing more. (Refocus on the girl u came over to talk too)I wont hold u lovely ladies up here is my number. Call or txt me whenever u wanna talk again . Have a nice day
 
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This fine one at my local grocery store been eying ya boy all week. I finally complimented her on her looks and she couldn’t stop smiling. Didn’t ask for a number or none of that, Im just going to let her sulk in my compliment until I see her again :lolbron:
 
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Went for a drink yesterday with this cute little El Salvadorian chick I matched with on Tinder last Thursday. Face and body scrumptious and her personalty is good as well. Very chill, very intelligent.

We both drank a fair bit so I didn't want to try anything, she gets home and messages me saying that she had a lovely time and thought I was going to kiss her. Which she wanted.

We were supposed to meet up on Saturday for brunch and messing around, but she messaged me and said she couldn't do it as she was going to look at some more house rentals with some new housemates. I was like cool. We can rearrange for some other time no probs.

But I love when women make the suggestion. 5 mins later she messages back. She asked if I was around this evening. She said she wants me to come over to hers to watch this short animation she worked on.

I was like sure.

:takedat::shaq:


Suits me and I didn't push for it she did.
 
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Stormbreaker said:
Man I'm starting to question the usefulness of online dating. I've bumped into girls that I've seen online funny enough.

The thing is that when I get back on I definitely see a few familiar faces. I don't know if it's them or the nature of online dating. I recall going on a date with one woman and I see her back online months later.

I feel like it's just better attempting to meet women by going to a lot of events. The good thing with that is that I almost always bump into friends or colleagues which increases my social status. Definitely using the fact that I'm extroverted to my advantage.
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i feel you, but i ate large off tinder when i travelled to nigeria, met so many cool and stunning women but yeah i never use old here, you can close your account today come back 3 months later and 80% of the chicks will still be there.These women love the attention from old, love the 100 msgs a day from different dudes, love different dinners and simp comments. Good quality women are usually gone from old as soon as they sign up
 
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Atlrocafella said:
This fine one at my local grocery store been eying ya boy all week. I finally complimented her on her looks and she couldn’t stop smiling. Didn’t ask for a number or none of that, Im just going to let her sulk in my compliment until I see her again :lolbron:
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Watch she don't be working there no more next time you go back

Better do that shyt ASAP :ufdup:
 
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I was just looking through my phone today and there isn't one chick I talk to now that I did 6 months ago, its really crazy how transient women are. And my sixth sense always picks it up, those one word answers, those calls i gotta go ill call you back and they never do And I already know 6 months from now God willing if I'm still alive it will be the same ish.

I'm not mad or upset, jealous or whatever, it's just a great calming feeling that leads me to just soak every experience for what its worth.
 
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FireDwaneCasey said:
I was just looking through my phone today and there isn't one chick I talk to now that I did 6 months ago, its really crazy how transient women are. And my sixth sense always picks it up, those one word answers, those calls i gotta go ill call you back and they never do And I already know 6 months from now God willing if I'm still alive it will be the same ish.

I'm not mad or upset, jealous or whatever, it's just a great calming feeling that leads me to just soak every experience for what its worth.
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damn this is a great approach bro

will u ever find the one with these games tho
 
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Well my night went very well. Chick was very good in bed as expected. I can't help but feel satisfied but kinda dulled after some of these encounters.

I've been trying to convert a lot of these chicks to friends, as I think I'll get more value out of them from that. Sleeping with some of these chicks is too easy. Especially when they know you're in high demand
 
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VertigoKnight said:
Well my night went very well. Chick was very good in bed as expected. I can't help but feel satisfied but kinda dulled after some of these encounters.

I've been trying to convert a lot of these chicks to friends, as I think I'll get more value out of them from that. Sleeping with some of these chicks is too easy. Especially when they know you're in high demand
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Why are you in high demand u think

Also what are ur approaches like
 
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