Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Y’all making me feel bad for asking her to be my girl in the first place.

Every time I read this thread it have me confused at every decision I make.

I really don’t want to cut ties with her because she is fine as hell and she is real chill, she’s way different than my exes and the last few girls I’ve talked to.

When you get 25, someone 17 will tell you the same thing when you drop the game on them..:pachaha:

If you think a hormonal teenager not gonna go crazy in college with nothing but freedom, your seriously mistaken..

No matter how "different"she is, she is fresh meat to the wolves..
 

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Coli brehs:


I was at the club on NYE in my girl’s hometown with my girl and her female friends who she just met a week earlier. We was all lit, and one of her female friends grabbed started making out with her, like right in front me. I honestly felt a type of way, I felt disrespected and felt like I couldn’t trust her. I ain’t lose my cool in the club but while we were still there I’m like go do you and ima do me, if that’s what you into. I tell her to pursue that, ima just do me. She talk to her for a lil, but the other chick ain’t really paying her no mind, she back dancing with the nikka she came in the club with. I start getting play in the club by some other chick, and I’m just vibing with her for the rest of the night. Either way nothing else noteworthy happen that night, my girl got blackout drunk and tried to fight me when she saw me talking to the other girl. Me and my girl home that night, she throwing up and all that and barely remember anything in th AM. On the ride back home the next morning I tell her I felt disrespected about that kissing shyt, idc if it’s a girl or not. I told her I don’t like being embarrassed in public by whoever I’m rolling with. And I asked if she into that gay shyt and she’s like no, and has in the past said she doesn’t like lesbian stuff, but on other days said she might be down for a threesome. After I expressed myself I kinda gave her the cold shoulder and she kept apologizing and shyt and the next day I told her I forgave her and just let it rock.

How would y’all have handled it? I don’t do that trust issues and no loyalty shyt, and I told her I have no problem letting her go be single and doing our own thing, she’s the one that wanted to make us official. She looked legit remorseful.

Key words...

Black out drunk...:patrice:

She not into the lesbian stuff but down for a 3some..So she likes women only when another man is around..:leon:
 

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Aye this female liked this random photo I got on FB


Posted it like 2 weeks ago, she never likes any of my shyt .. so I’m like hmmmm


I liked one of hers



Should I jump in her inbox
 

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Coli brehs:


I was at the club on NYE in my girl’s hometown with my girl and her female friends who she just met a week earlier. We was all lit, and one of her female friends grabbed started making out with her, like right in front me. I honestly felt a type of way, I felt disrespected and felt like I couldn’t trust her. I ain’t lose my cool in the club but while we were still there I’m like go do you and ima do me, if that’s what you into. I tell her to pursue that, ima just do me. She talk to her for a lil, but the other chick ain’t really paying her no mind, she back dancing with the nikka she came in the club with. I start getting play in the club by some other chick, and I’m just vibing with her for the rest of the night. Either way nothing else noteworthy happen that night, my girl got blackout drunk and tried to fight me when she saw me talking to the other girl. Me and my girl home that night, she throwing up and all that and barely remember anything in th AM. On the ride back home the next morning I tell her I felt disrespected about that kissing shyt, idc if it’s a girl or not. I told her I don’t like being embarrassed in public by whoever I’m rolling with. And I asked if she into that gay shyt and she’s like no, and has in the past said she doesn’t like lesbian stuff, but on other days said she might be down for a threesome. After I expressed myself I kinda gave her the cold shoulder and she kept apologizing and shyt and the next day I told her I forgave her and just let it rock.

How would y’all have handled it? I don’t do that trust issues and no loyalty shyt, and I told her I have no problem letting her go be single and doing our own thing, she’s the one that wanted to make us official. She looked legit remorseful.

You let her get over on you.
 

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What you mean?

She sold you a story and you bought it; hook, line, and sinker. Now she has you feeling good by offering up a threesome making you think you got it like that. That’s not hate either. Your gut told you one thing but you allowed yourself to be swayed by her words. Words from a woman mean nothing, her actions do.

I’m really big on disrespect just like you are. Reading what you wrote made me mad just picturing it. To me, she earned a demotion and there won’t be any serious feeling there anymore. I’m not saying that’s what you should do because I don’t know her. BUT that’s how I would deal with a situation like this.
 

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He means she ran an okey doke

She met these friends a week prior...

I missed that part...

Does she have any friends?

Is she one of those small city girls?:patrice:
She from the BX. She met them from a friend of friend when they linked up a week earlier. We both stationed in VA and She invited me to NYC to spend NYE with her and meet her fam.

She sold you a story and you bought it; hook, line, and sinker. Now she has you feeling good by offering up a threesome making you think you got it like that. That’s not hate either. Your gut told you one thing but you allowed yourself to be swayed by her words. Words from a woman mean nothing, her actions do.

I’m really big on disrespect just like you are. Reading what you wrote made me mad just picturing it. To me, she earned a demotion and there won’t be any serious feeling there anymore. I’m not saying that’s what you should do because I don’t know her. BUT that’s how I would deal with a situation like this.
Yeah you might be right. My intuition wasn’t having it. But from how I seen them interact it do come off as she didn’t know em long. We have talked about it in 3sums and all that in the past. She told me she’s done it before but she’s not into it like that, (I’m not really interested in them either), but if she was to do it with me it would have to be with a Latina (my girl and the other chick is Latina):mjpls:, I’m black.
 

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She from the BX. She met them from a friend of friend when they linked up a week earlier. We both stationed in VA and She invited me to NYC to spend NYE with her and meet her fam.


Yeah you might be right. My intuition wasn’t having it. But from how I seen them interact it do come off as she didn’t know em long. We have talked about it in 3sums and all that in the past. She told me she’s done it before but she’s not into it like that, (I’m not really interested in them either), but if she was to do it with me it would have to be with a Latina (my girl and the other chick is Latina):mjpls:, I’m black.

She from the bronx:dead:.....



Fam...hit the eject button if you not ready for the fukkery :ufdup:...

You gonna have to do a Rehab plan if you even entertain her in a serious manner..:patrice:
 

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Facts.
Especially if you been in a relationship for a long time..i found out my bytch was cheating on me like that.. shyt just felt funny.. It got to a point i just started pressing her like crazy and she finally broke down and said she did.. Like really broke down..

But its like your soul is giving you warnings that she aint right..you just got to pay attention to the signs and never go against ya intuition.

It’s shytty cuz I knew it would happen too..

Basically met a female in a FB group back in September & and we really vibed over the phone/Snapchat/ all that shyt..

She lives in Texas, and I’m in Illinois....

So she came and seen me in November, had a really fun weekend and agreed to see each other again ..


She was suppose to come out here January 18th but ended up canceling and saying she’d come in March when the weather isn’t so bad... it threw me off but I said whatever ...

I noticed the vibe & amount of talking is off too, but she always says something to make me think she’s still interested so it’s not completely dead but idk it’s disappointing because I REALLY vibed with her but in the end knew this would be the likely outcome :mjcry:
 
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