Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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It’s shytty cuz I knew it would happen too..
Basically met a female in a FB group back in September & and we really vibed over the phone/Snapchat/ all that shyt..
She lives in Texas, and I’m in Illinois....
So she came and seen me in November, had a really fun weekend and agreed to see each other again ..
She was suppose to come out here January 18th but ended up canceling and saying she’d come in March when the weather isn’t so bad... it threw me off but I said whatever ...
I noticed the vibe & amount of talking is off too, but she always says something to make me think she’s still interested so it’s not completely dead but idk it’s disappointing because I REALLY vibed with her but in the end knew this would be the likely outcome
Don't worry breh, she probably REALLY vibing with everyone else in the hood....
move on hombre
seymour cake
All Star
It’s shytty cuz I knew it would happen too..
Basically met a female in a FB group back in September & and we really vibed over the phone/Snapchat/ all that shyt..
She lives in Texas, and I’m in Illinois....
So she came and seen me in November, had a really fun weekend and agreed to see each other again ..
She was suppose to come out here January 18th but ended up canceling and saying she’d come in March when the weather isn’t so bad... it threw me off but I said whatever ...
I noticed the vibe & amount of talking is off too, but she always says something to make me think she’s still interested so it’s not completely dead but idk it’s disappointing because I REALLY vibed with her but in the end knew this would be the likely outcome
sorry to hear thatBut come on breh you should know off rip what a long distance relationship hitting for..
the first time you chilled with her you shouldve knocked it down and kept it moving. Yall live far as hell from eachother. Females dont like to sleep alone breh. You got to find you some chicago freaks 
But yea you was supposed to hit it and quit it.. Or just get money out of her and just let texas a place to travel here and there
.. It sound like you fell for her
Nintendough
#Kliq
That swerve when you messed up, but don't know where is always and will forever be a bih. 
When she go from hitting you up all hours to barely responding at all
When she go from hitting you up all hours to barely responding at all
Mister_DoItNice
Leading The Regime
Y’all keep making the same mistakes.
Poh SIti Dawn
Staying Positive, Getting Better Everyday. Holler!
Had a university of Miami shawty studying,law with a booty n that tell me she's what I need, a real one, who gonna work with me. Black woman, weird how she could see that.. I was at work, she was drunk/tipsy. I dipped out my station met her in the hallway. She grabbed my arm and walked with me to the elevator. Thought about grabbin on her but kept my restraint. Just have her a hug n went back to work.
She caught feelings cuz I let go of her hand bc someone was running down the hall and my,job hates on me for interacting with patrons
I work at a hotel btw
Do construction 5 days a week and hotel throughout the weekend.
So yeah tryna get better
Cut my dreads off, felt like it was time to be on my grown man rocafella good music shiz.
Been tryna eat healthy and workout and stop smoking
She caught feelings cuz I let go of her hand bc someone was running down the hall and my,job hates on me for interacting with patrons
I work at a hotel btw
Do construction 5 days a week and hotel throughout the weekend.
So yeah tryna get better
Cut my dreads off, felt like it was time to be on my grown man rocafella good music shiz.
Been tryna eat healthy and workout and stop smoking
Post-breakup feelings of inadequacy can be a bytch. Pretty sure my last chick cheated or was going to cheat, either way it’s been fuxking with me mentally to the point I’m not trying to get at other chicks. Not because I don’t want to but because in my mind I’m thinking they see the same person my ex lost sexual attraction for.
African Peasant
Veteran
Going through a break up. I break-up with my girl a few days ago. I initiated the break-up because for several reasons I didn't see us having a future together (Im' talking about marriage and all that stuff), so I wanted to save the both of us time. But shyt still hurt.
I'm conflicted. Despite the break-up, I really care about her, since we had a good relationship before we became lovers. So, should I say friend with her or ghost her ?
I don't know if it's a good idea to stay friends, even though I want to because I know she has issues and I want to help her.
I'm conflicted. Despite the break-up, I really care about her, since we had a good relationship before we became lovers. So, should I say friend with her or ghost her ?
I don't know if it's a good idea to stay friends, even though I want to because I know she has issues and I want to help her.
The True HD
Billionaire
1st few days I was locked making sure I got settled into work with the new commission plan on the Sales Floor, 1st day in the gym of the year and when I walked out I had to 
to the sky. The possibilities.
The grit, the adreline, the endorphins... man the gym is the ultimate place to tap in naturally to that next level thought system that improves your day to day actions which move you at a faster pace to your goals, if you're consistent. Never a time I leave the gym after putting in my all, and wanna just fukk off and not be productive. The aesthetics is another thing.... but the self improvement path it embodies translates into every area of your life if you let it. It's all about discipline.
Doesn't matter if you're skinny or fat, or you're in shape. What's not sharpened will dull. But you have to start at some point, no matter your knowledge level. A personal trainer is optional, my recommendation is if you have a fit homie who visits the gym, ask them to go with them. Not only will it make you more comfortable with the environment, everyone should use a spotter for heavier lifts, which with consistency you should be doin at some point
Let's get to it brehs. If you indoors be reading, meditating, learning a language, working on potential or current business ideas, or eating some healthy foods, otherwise if you're out be dominating the workplace, hitting the gym, networking with business partners, building your brand, or making a play for some cash. Bottom line, productive and progressive things. If you're macking, be bold and go after what you want, while knowing you're worth and never sweating the pursuit. If it isn't paying you, no interaction with a woman should intimidate you. You have nothing to lose, put the ego aside. If in 10 days you think she might remember you, in 10 years she won't. Shoot.
Laziness, procrastination, and idleness have no place in our lives but to make us waste away, so get on your grind and in due time you'll shine. If you on it, stay on it and continue to rise. Never be complacent, there's always a higher level. Play the back, lay low if you're not where you wanna be realize it's all based on prior actions. Readjust accordingly, the same actions yield the same results so if you keep doing what you've been doing you know what to expect. Switch it up, step outside your comfort zone, and look for new opportunities. Never be afraid to ask for help, no one man is an island no matter how some pretend to be. You need a network or partners to get rich. Few rise without connections. It's money, power, and respect out here. Get yours my brehs, no time for excuses or regrets.
to the sky. The possibilities.The grit, the adreline, the endorphins... man the gym is the ultimate place to tap in naturally to that next level thought system that improves your day to day actions which move you at a faster pace to your goals, if you're consistent. Never a time I leave the gym after putting in my all, and wanna just fukk off and not be productive. The aesthetics is another thing.... but the self improvement path it embodies translates into every area of your life if you let it. It's all about discipline.
Doesn't matter if you're skinny or fat, or you're in shape. What's not sharpened will dull. But you have to start at some point, no matter your knowledge level. A personal trainer is optional, my recommendation is if you have a fit homie who visits the gym, ask them to go with them. Not only will it make you more comfortable with the environment, everyone should use a spotter for heavier lifts, which with consistency you should be doin at some point
Let's get to it brehs. If you indoors be reading, meditating, learning a language, working on potential or current business ideas, or eating some healthy foods, otherwise if you're out be dominating the workplace, hitting the gym, networking with business partners, building your brand, or making a play for some cash. Bottom line, productive and progressive things. If you're macking, be bold and go after what you want, while knowing you're worth and never sweating the pursuit. If it isn't paying you, no interaction with a woman should intimidate you. You have nothing to lose, put the ego aside. If in 10 days you think she might remember you, in 10 years she won't. Shoot.
Laziness, procrastination, and idleness have no place in our lives but to make us waste away, so get on your grind and in due time you'll shine. If you on it, stay on it and continue to rise. Never be complacent, there's always a higher level. Play the back, lay low if you're not where you wanna be realize it's all based on prior actions. Readjust accordingly, the same actions yield the same results so if you keep doing what you've been doing you know what to expect. Switch it up, step outside your comfort zone, and look for new opportunities. Never be afraid to ask for help, no one man is an island no matter how some pretend to be. You need a network or partners to get rich. Few rise without connections. It's money, power, and respect out here. Get yours my brehs, no time for excuses or regrets.
Lord Bison
Superstar
I'm kind tho brehThe best way to do that is to not have a heart in the first place.
letti cook
Superstar
coli smilies are a god send for brehs like myself with weak texting game...these girls eat that shyt up
Lord Bison
Superstar
I used to be too. Until women beat the kindness out of me. I used to be the kind of guy who was happy to hold the door open for a woman. Nowadays, unless she's elderly or disabled she can use her two functioning limbs to open the door herself.
Somebody told me never let another person change who you are because of what they did to you. I'm trying to hold on to my good natureI used to be too. Until women beat the kindness out of me. I used to be the kind of guy who was happy to hold the door open for a woman. Nowadays, unless she's elderly or disabled she can use her two functioning limbs to open the door herself.