Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

Huellz Santana

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I think I'm reaching my wit's end with my gf. we're too different and she just doesn't get it. she starts shyt gets riled up KNOWING it's going to push me away. then when I act distant she's all sad and wants to be closer and shyt.

after an argument she sent me all these pics of us we took during the holidays. Does this chick think I'm 15? that stuff doesn't work on me :camby:

i still love her but she's flawed and will take time to get to where she needs to be. I don't think it's my responsibility to wait on her.

I feel like :ahh: just getting that off my chest btw. :whew:
 

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Coli brehs:


I was at the club on NYE in my girl’s hometown with my girl and her female friends who she just met a week earlier. We was all lit, and one of her female friends grabbed started making out with her, like right in front me. I honestly felt a type of way, I felt disrespected and felt like I couldn’t trust her. I ain’t lose my cool in the club but while we were still there I’m like go do you and ima do me, if that’s what you into. I tell her to pursue that, ima just do me. She talk to her for a lil, but the other chick ain’t really paying her no mind, she back dancing with the nikka she came in the club with. I start getting play in the club by some other chick, and I’m just vibing with her for the rest of the night. Either way nothing else noteworthy happen that night, my girl got blackout drunk and tried to fight me when she saw me talking to the other girl. Me and my girl home that night, she throwing up and all that and barely remember anything in th AM. On the ride back home the next morning I tell her I felt disrespected about that kissing shyt, idc if it’s a girl or not. I told her I don’t like being embarrassed in public by whoever I’m rolling with. And I asked if she into that gay shyt and she’s like no, and has in the past said she doesn’t like lesbian stuff, but on other days said she might be down for a threesome. After I expressed myself I kinda gave her the cold shoulder and she kept apologizing and shyt and the next day I told her I forgave her and just let it rock.

How would y’all have handled it? I don’t do that trust issues and no loyalty shyt, and I told her I have no problem letting her go be single and doing our own thing, she’s the one that wanted to make us official. She looked legit remorseful.


That’s not your girl breh and she has zero respect for you by kissing anothe girl in FRONT of you.... wtf. Sounds like you’re trying to play it cool but at the same time forgiving her. What if she kissed a guy in front of you ? Would you still forgive her ?
 

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Decided to start the year off right and be upfront and honest with any chick I'm seeing that they will not be the only one. Take some potential stress out of this.

Last year was fun in doses and I hit an all time high with the amount of women I was seeing, And had some of the craziest sex I've ever had. But it got to be a drag in the end. Emotionally and physically.

Slowly fell out of contact with or cut a lot of women. But the ones who understand are still here. Got back together with the Canadian Chinese PAAG I was on and off with. After us not talking for a month and a half. She re-initiated contact in early December. Provisionally as 'friends'.

That idea lasted less than 10 mins after me getting to her place. She poured me and her a whiskey and straddled me on her sofa so we could 'Chat'. We talked for an hour, before she took her top and bra off let me suck her titties and led me to her bedroom...

This chicks body. Especially with the tan she got from her work holiday.
:whoo::whew:

I like her. I'm going to do fair by her and not fukk her around this time. Got another chick I was seeing late last year flying in back tonight. And a new one I've been chatting with who flew in from Toronto this morning. As well as two more who are back on me. Going to be a busy weekend.+ Week

But for now everyone is open and clear to their wants and needs. We'll see if that lasts...
 

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Okay guys, I need help with this life lesson in game.

What is Alpha?
How do you be non-needy?
How do you handle the "waiting"?

I keep myself occupied, I talk to women here and there but my head just gets into this zone where boredom sets in and its this downward spiral. I have hobbies, I take martial arts classes...I'm trying no-fap and to kick porn but like...what?

How do you stay strong brehs? What is the juice or the sauce that keeps you curving girls and getting them to chase you?

What's the philosophy brehs?

Adding all this up seems very Zen. Like, stay healthy, stay strong and let them come to you.
I think I'm answering my own questions and just need to put all this into action. Just seems like a longterm game that you can't win overnight. Am I on the right path to Alpha?
 

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1st few days I was locked making sure I got settled into work with the new commission plan on the Sales Floor, 1st day in the gym of the year and when I walked out I had to :blessed: to the sky. The possibilities.

The grit, the adreline, the endorphins... man the gym is the ultimate place to tap in naturally to that next level thought system that improves your day to day actions which move you at a faster pace to your goals, if you're consistent. Never a time I leave the gym after putting in my all, and wanna just fukk off and not be productive. The aesthetics is another thing.... but the self improvement path it embodies translates into every area of your life if you let it. It's all about discipline.

Doesn't matter if you're skinny or fat, or you're in shape. What's not sharpened will dull. But you have to start at some point, no matter your knowledge level. A personal trainer is optional, my recommendation is if you have a fit homie who visits the gym, ask them to go with them. Not only will it make you more comfortable with the environment, everyone should use a spotter for heavier lifts, which with consistency you should be doin at some point :ufdup:

Let's get to it brehs. If you indoors be reading, meditating, learning a language, working on potential or current business ideas, or eating some healthy foods, otherwise if you're out be dominating the workplace, hitting the gym, networking with business partners, building your brand, or making a play for some cash. Bottom line, productive and progressive things. If you're macking, be bold and go after what you want, while knowing you're worth and never sweating the pursuit. If it isn't paying you, no interaction with a woman should intimidate you. You have nothing to lose, put the ego aside. If in 10 days you think she might remember you, in 10 years she won't. Shoot.

Laziness, procrastination, and idleness have no place in our lives but to make us waste away, so get on your grind and in due time you'll shine. If you on it, stay on it and continue to rise. Never be complacent, there's always a higher level. Play the back, lay low if you're not where you wanna be realize it's all based on prior actions. Readjust accordingly, the same actions yield the same results so if you keep doing what you've been doing you know what to expect. Switch it up, step outside your comfort zone, and look for new opportunities. Never be afraid to ask for help, no one man is an island no matter how some pretend to be. You need a network or partners to get rich. Few rise without connections. It's money, power, and respect out here. Get yours my brehs, no time for excuses or regrets.
This post made me feel good. Just even to see that :blessed: smiley.

And you preaching all real spit, make me wanna get up right,now :hubie:

My construction job is like 8 hours of lifting and speed walking and hammering but I still try to get in the thang. Gonna hit my run. Then lift, meditate, say my prayers again and read n be ready for work
 

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Okay guys, I need help with this life lesson in game.

What is Alpha?
How do you be non-needy?
How do you handle the "waiting"?

I keep myself occupied, I talk to women here and there but my head just gets into this zone where boredom sets in and its this downward spiral. I have hobbies, I take martial arts classes...I'm trying no-fap and to kick porn but like...what?

How do you stay strong brehs? What is the juice or the sauce that keeps you curving girls and getting them to chase you?

What's the philosophy brehs?

Adding all this up seems very Zen. Like, stay healthy, stay strong and let them come to you.
I think I'm answering my own questions and just need to put all this into action. Just seems like a longterm game that you can't win overnight. Am I on the right path to Alpha?
Breh you just gotta be yourself and work within your parameters as you continue to expand them. Its just life
 

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Okay guys, I need help with this life lesson in game.

What is Alpha?
How do you be non-needy?
How do you handle the "waiting"?

I keep myself occupied, I talk to women here and there but my head just gets into this zone where boredom sets in and its this downward spiral. I have hobbies, I take martial arts classes...I'm trying no-fap and to kick porn but like...what?

How do you stay strong brehs? What is the juice or the sauce that keeps you curving girls and getting them to chase you?

What's the philosophy brehs?

Adding all this up seems very Zen. Like, stay healthy, stay strong and let them come to you.
I think I'm answering my own questions and just need to put all this into action. Just seems like a longterm game that you can't win overnight. Am I on the right path to Alpha?


Forget all that alpha /beta ish
Just do you breh


What have me strength through the years is that there will always be another woman if I want.

Instead of treating woman like your a third string senior qb on a d3 team knowing this is it + kissing ass, sucking up willing to do anything for a chance, having to prove yourself over and over again. You come with the mindset that your friggin Aaron Rodgers if your cut today you'll find another team tomorrow, you dont kiss ass, you don't suck up, you seek approval from no one.


There's so many women out there for the most part they ain't special, I've been with hot girls and thought oh no can't lose them, then guess what I got with drop dead gorgeous woman and I thought the same :heh:.

Just stick to your code and your values.
 

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Yo brehs why when you first meet a woman they wanna know what and where you work?They randomly ask rather then convo flows in the direction of occupation.
Yea, when they ask about occupation i be as vague as possible and move on to the next subject
 
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