Breh stay friends with her..meet up when yall home for the holidays,etc.
Yall both starting a new period of yall life..gonna be away from home and around way more people, and more people to connect with. LTR ain't the way to go..
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Yall both starting a new period of yall life..gonna be away from home and around way more people, and more people to connect with. LTR ain't the way to go..
Goon for hire
All Star
Y’all making me feel bad for asking her to be my girl in the first place.
Every time I read this thread it have me confused at every decision I make.
I really don’t want to cut ties with her because she is fine as hell and she is real chill, she’s way different than my exes and the last few girls I’ve talked to.
Every time I read this thread it have me confused at every decision I make.
I really don’t want to cut ties with her because she is fine as hell and she is real chill, she’s way different than my exes and the last few girls I’ve talked to.
Lord Bison
Superstar
You're putting this chick on way to high of a pedestal. Aint nothing wrong with really digging a chick, but she will smell the fact that you like her more than she likes you and will start the process of screwing you over. You're putting all your eggs into this one basket and that's usually a 100% guarantee to blow up in your face.
VertigoKnight
Veteran
Don't think you have to cut ties with her. Just know that if she's going off to Uni she may very well start seeing someone else.
Just prep yourself for that eventuality. But enjoy yourself for now.
YOGEBEAR09
RAM Gang. Horns up
You should. Who asks a girl to be their girlfriend right after fukking especially fukking for the first time
why preferably in person?
doing it in person makes it more cruel. sure, if the person asks to see u in person, i see no reason not to give them that. but to say its preferable to break up with someone in person is a way of thinking that strikes me as not having thought things through properly.
u see her in person, break up with her. she cries and begs. but ur not changing your mind. u leave her in tears. she feels humiliated. sure, things are just as bad if done over the phone. but the personal face to face touch adds a devilish edge to it that i think is completely unnecessary.
breakups are always difficult. but doing it in person takes it to another level that i think most people arent ready for. imagine that. u call her to tell her, hey can we meet for a few minutes. i wanna talk to you. u meet up with her and u drop that on her thinking u a boss. nah breh.
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Nuke Dukem
Da Bears
Is it just me or can others just feel when the vibe flips with a female...
Like she’ll be saying the same shyt she’s been saying sorta, but the vibe is off & u can feel like she ain’t fukkin with you like she was...
or am I crazy
Like she’ll be saying the same shyt she’s been saying sorta, but the vibe is off & u can feel like she ain’t fukkin with you like she was...
or am I crazy
Clark Griswold
Banned
That’s the difference between you and I. Ending a relationship in person and watching her cry, beg, and plead isn’t cruel to me because I’m immune to all of that shyt, and I prefer clarity if I don’t wanna fukk with you anymore. It’s not my problem that this grown azz woman wants to cry like a little girl, that’s on her. Plus if she’s in her feelings like that I know I have her wrapped around my finger and the more I make her squirm the more I can get from her. That’s just how I play bro.
Reality
Make your own luck.
Have a low key serious problem...will vent here.
After a long term relationship, I straight up cannot fukk w/ condoms. And it's leading to some fukking stupid behavior.
Was smashing a random biddie pulled from the club on NYE. Started with a condom at first, but shyt was terrible. Asked her if I could go raw and she let me
. It's some straight up demonic shyt...can't help myself when in that zone. Not the first time I've done it either - know I'm playing with fire but I am honestly not even interested in sex w/ condoms at this point. Nor do I want to get in a relationship just to be able to smash raw. SMH.
After a long term relationship, I straight up cannot fukk w/ condoms. And it's leading to some fukking stupid behavior.
Was smashing a random biddie pulled from the club on NYE. Started with a condom at first, but shyt was terrible. Asked her if I could go raw and she let me
. It's some straight up demonic shyt...can't help myself when in that zone. Not the first time I've done it either - know I'm playing with fire but I am honestly not even interested in sex w/ condoms at this point. Nor do I want to get in a relationship just to be able to smash raw. SMH.
Clark Griswold
Banned
You better strap up and control your sexual impulses or you gonna be some random thot’s baby daddy. 
Saysumthinfunnymike
VOTE!!!
Is it just me or can others just feel when the vibe flips with a female...
Like she’ll be saying the same shyt she’s been saying sorta, but the vibe is off & u can feel like she ain’t fukkin with you like she was...
or am I crazy
No, you aren't crazy that shyt is pretty easy to spot. Some women are great at lying but something will always tip you off. Maybe their attitude is a bit different, maybe they aren't ecstatic to see you and spend time with you as they once was, but usually it's easier to spot how they act when it come to the text game.
That's the secret and it'd be so easy for them to hide it but they fukk up. When they are into you they be texting all the time and they never take a while to get back. When they got an issue that's when it starts being an hour or more and they still ain't text. Then come the lies. "I was busy with.."
Nope. They are never too busy. These hoes are glued to their phones. It's because they are spending that energy elsewhere so time for them to go
seymour cake
All Star
Facts.Is it just me or can others just feel when the vibe flips with a female...
Like she’ll be saying the same shyt she’s been saying sorta, but the vibe is off & u can feel like she ain’t fukkin with you like she was...
or am I crazy
Especially if you been in a relationship for a long time..i found out my bytch was cheating on me like that.. shyt just felt funny.. It got to a point i just started pressing her like crazy and she finally broke down and said she did.. Like really broke down..
But its like your soul is giving you warnings that she aint right..you just got to pay attention to the signs and never go against ya intuition.
Rev Leon Lonnie Love
damned mine eyes, DAMNED mine eyes!!
:mjcrycap: i know that feeling
Coli brehs:
I was at the club on NYE in my girl’s hometown with my girl and her female friends who she just met a week earlier. We was all lit, and one of her female friends grabbed started making out with her, like right in front me. I honestly felt a type of way, I felt disrespected and felt like I couldn’t trust her. I ain’t lose my cool in the club but while we were still there I’m like go do you and ima do me, if that’s what you into. I tell her to pursue that, ima just do me. She talk to her for a lil, but the other chick ain’t really paying her no mind, she back dancing with the nikka she came in the club with. I start getting play in the club by some other chick, and I’m just vibing with her for the rest of the night. Either way nothing else noteworthy happen that night, my girl got blackout drunk and tried to fight me when she saw me talking to the other girl. Me and my girl home that night, she throwing up and all that and barely remember anything in th AM. On the ride back home the next morning I tell her I felt disrespected about that kissing shyt, idc if it’s a girl or not. I told her I don’t like being embarrassed in public by whoever I’m rolling with. And I asked if she into that gay shyt and she’s like no, and has in the past said she doesn’t like lesbian stuff, but on other days said she might be down for a threesome. After I expressed myself I kinda gave her the cold shoulder and she kept apologizing and shyt and the next day I told her I forgave her and just let it rock.
How would y’all have handled it? I don’t do that trust issues and no loyalty shyt, and I told her I have no problem letting her go be single and doing our own thing, she’s the one that wanted to make us official. She looked legit remorseful.
I was at the club on NYE in my girl’s hometown with my girl and her female friends who she just met a week earlier. We was all lit, and one of her female friends grabbed started making out with her, like right in front me. I honestly felt a type of way, I felt disrespected and felt like I couldn’t trust her. I ain’t lose my cool in the club but while we were still there I’m like go do you and ima do me, if that’s what you into. I tell her to pursue that, ima just do me. She talk to her for a lil, but the other chick ain’t really paying her no mind, she back dancing with the nikka she came in the club with. I start getting play in the club by some other chick, and I’m just vibing with her for the rest of the night. Either way nothing else noteworthy happen that night, my girl got blackout drunk and tried to fight me when she saw me talking to the other girl. Me and my girl home that night, she throwing up and all that and barely remember anything in th AM. On the ride back home the next morning I tell her I felt disrespected about that kissing shyt, idc if it’s a girl or not. I told her I don’t like being embarrassed in public by whoever I’m rolling with. And I asked if she into that gay shyt and she’s like no, and has in the past said she doesn’t like lesbian stuff, but on other days said she might be down for a threesome. After I expressed myself I kinda gave her the cold shoulder and she kept apologizing and shyt and the next day I told her I forgave her and just let it rock.
How would y’all have handled it? I don’t do that trust issues and no loyalty shyt, and I told her I have no problem letting her go be single and doing our own thing, she’s the one that wanted to make us official. She looked legit remorseful.