Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Asked her to be ya gf after the first fukk?:dwillhuh:
I did it before, if that changes anything. She instigated it all with telling me she loved me and stuff

I was wondering the same thing. I keep forgetting the age gap between some of us in this thread. I had a whole paragraph typed out but said fukk it let the young homie figure it out.
That bih gonna get ran through at Clemson. Let it go.
She's not that kind of person
 

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She's not that kind of person



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They all that type of person brehbreh. What makes you think she on some new style? It will happen and she will call it a mistake and try and have it both ways. fukk all that, let her spread her legs and fly brehbreh. Freshman year ain't the time to be trying to have an LTR. I wish I could reach through the webz and slap some sense into the back of your head.
 

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smashed this chick for the first time last night brehs


Asked her to be my girlfriend too:wow:


Only thing that sucks is she is already accepted to go to Clemson and I’m going to be staying in Georgia going to GA state and we are both seniors:mjcry:

I connect with her like no one else before brehs, I’m just gonna try to enjoy it now and figure shyt out later
I did it before, if that changes anything. She instigated it all with telling me she loved me and stuff



She's not that kind of person
breh, i feel you. A lot of us do cause we've been your age before. I'm not even gonna say that you're wrong. Cause who really knows. All i'm going to say is that the part that i put in red, just remember that you will meet PLENTY of people in your life. for decades and decades. Again, i'm not saying you can't build with her at all. As long as you don't put all your self-worth and soul in that girl. Like you said, it's best to enjoy it but i would add to keep your mind open to both possibility of it not working out AND the possibility of it working out.

Also, if you want some advice, it seems to me like you're more into her than she is into you. Seems like you asked her to be your girl before and she said anything else but a clear yes.careful with that breh.
 

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I did it before, if that changes anything. She instigated it all with telling me she loved me and stuff



She's not that kind of person

Bro, because you are young and I always wished I had someone old enough to put me onto game when I was your age, I'll tell you this now.

This girl is NOT going to be yours once she leaves. ESPECIALLY since you asked her to be your gf after having sex. You may think she's not like that but when she gets to college she's going to be captivated by the new nikkas in her life, especially the ones that have status (frat dudes and athletes).

I've seen the sweetest innocent girls get ran through in college. Just keep it on a friends with benefits basis because you'll be setting yourself up otherwise. And if you're going to college, do yourself a favor and join a fraternity that actually has some clout if you're worried about getting hoes. Seriously.
 

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How do you tell if a chick is strictly friendzone or body language is saying something else? Most of the signs scream friend zone which is fine for me. Don't wanna date somebody at the job. She likes this white boy at our job and even went to his office before the Christmas break to start small talk. She hasnt had a boyfriend in 4 years. As far as us, she trusts me. Like she tells me all types of her secrets (like if I was snitch I could destroy her rep type stuff). The only thing that throws me though is she hangs around me ALOT. Even when I'm out the office she'll find out where I'm at and hang around me. Now, it could be that's she bored. Sometimes, we'll stay after work because we're talking, teasing each other. Not intentionally, we just get caught up. I told her she's my "frienemy" once just on some playing stuff. She didn't like that AT ALL. "Don't call me your enemy. I'm your friend". I told her we're frienemy because we'll play argue then get cool again. But she was 1000 not having it and got real serious. I actually felt bad because and I've only known her since September. She said I'm her only friend at the job and got real insecure when she find out I might be leaving the job this year once I graduate. Is this strictly just friends? Or something else to it?
 

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How do you tell if a chick is strictly in The friend zone

Listen if you haven’t let a chick know what’s up and all y’all do is playful banter than your, Definitely in the friend zone.

As far as you saying you got dirt on her that could ruin her reputation I’ll say this:

Don’t let the fact that this girl got you in your feels sometimes turn you into a gossipy nikka. As a man you have to be above all the little work/ school gossip
 

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Listen if you haven’t let a chick know what’s up and all y’all do is playful banter than your, Definitely in the friend zone.

As far as you saying you got dirt on her that could ruin her reputation I’ll say this:

Don’t let the fact that this girl got you in your feels sometimes turn you into a gossipy nikka. As a man you have to be above all the little work/ school gossip
Naw, I wouldn't do that to her. Just surprised she's that open since we don't know each other that well. Glad it's just friend zone though.
 

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Bro, because you are young and I always wished I had someone old enough to put me onto game when I was your age, I'll tell you this now.

This girl is NOT going to be yours once she leaves. ESPECIALLY since you asked her to be your gf after having sex. You may think she's not like that but when she gets to college she's going to be captivated by the new nikkas in her life, especially the ones that have status (frat dudes and athletes).

I've seen the sweetest innocent girls get ran through in college. Just keep it on a friends with benefits basis because you'll be setting yourself up otherwise. And if you're going to college, do yourself a favor and join a fraternity that actually has some clout if you're worried about getting hoes. Seriously.

yep and honestly as a man there's no rush to ask a girl to be your girlfriend. Woman will always bring up the so what are we
 
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