How do you tell if a chick is strictly friendzone or body language is saying something else? Most of the signs scream friend zone which is fine for me. Don't wanna date somebody at the job. She likes this white boy at our job and even went to his office before the Christmas break to start small talk. She hasnt had a boyfriend in 4 years. As far as us, she trusts me. Like she tells me all types of her secrets (like if I was snitch I could destroy her rep type stuff). The only thing that throws me though is she hangs around me ALOT. Even when I'm out the office she'll find out where I'm at and hang around me. Now, it could be that's she bored. Sometimes, we'll stay after work because we're talking, teasing each other. Not intentionally, we just get caught up. I told her she's my "frienemy" once just on some playing stuff. She didn't like that AT ALL. "Don't call me your enemy. I'm your friend". I told her we're frienemy because we'll play argue then get cool again. But she was 1000 not having it and got real serious. I actually felt bad because and I've only known her since September. She said I'm her only friend at the job and got real insecure when she find out I might be leaving the job this year once I graduate. Is this strictly just friends? Or something else to it?