Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[twan83]

If this girl threw you the puss you wouldnt deny because youre friends. Stop bullshytting yourself.

At least be honest bout it u know
We adults here we make mistakes
If he went that far u damn right he would take the kitty kat

 

[twan83]

Not while she's in a relationship or even any short time after that though. If we're both single for a significant amount of time and she was interested in some sort of relationship then yeah, I can say I'd prolly take on that opportunity. Besides that scenario, I only see her as a friend at this point. It's a moot discussion altogether though 'cause I'm likely never gonna talk to her again

If what u say is true why did u keep asking her out knowing she got a bf
The point is this recognized what u did wrong truly and learn from it but u can’t if u trying to fool yourself tho
Everybody takes Ls even the best of us
The ones that really learn accept their mistakes not deny them breh

 

[momma]

If what u say is true why did u keep asking her out knowing she got a bf
The point is this recognized what u did wrong truly and learn from it but u can’t if u trying to fool yourself tho
Everybody takes Ls even the best of us
The ones that really learn accept their mistakes not deny them breh

Well after she turned me down the 2nd time is when I was like aight this is not happening, but I'm cool with just being friends because I genuinely like this person. I promptly deleted any notions or feelings () I might have had after that

Idk you might be right I may really just be playing myself. Hard to say right now, because truthfully I haven't had much time to process these things, I've only known this girl since like mid-October, shyt almost felt like we went through all the main stages of a relationship in a matter of 2 months w/o even being in a relationship, And at the end of it she was saying shyt like "I can't do this anymore", "I need space", "You really think I'm stupid", "I don't even know what to say", "I don't know how to feel towards you anymore", etc etc

 

[twan83]

Well after she turned me down the 2nd time is when I was like aight this is not happening, but I'm cool with just being friends because I genuinely like this person. I promptly deleted any notions or feelings () I might have had after that

Idk you might be right I may really just be playing myself. Hard to say right now, because truthfully I haven't had much time to process these things, I've only known this girl since like mid-October, shyt almost felt like we went through all the main stages of a relationship in a matter of 2 months w/o even being in a relationship, And at the end of it she was saying shyt like "I can't do this anymore", "I need space", "You really think I'm stupid", "I don't even know what to say", "I don't know how to feel towards you anymore", etc etc

If u read this reply carefully u wrote and the one bout u taking a L in your own words u will see what I was saying and @Zeu$
We ain’t trying to shyt on u breh just help u and guide this is what this thread is for
Sometimes we don’t see where we do our mistakes but another can and then we see it learn from it accept it and move past it to try not to make the same one twice

 

[ViShawn]

Women are funny. This girl I haven't talked to since October liked a status of mine offering to give up a football ticket for a game out of town I'm going to.

My mom texted me "Why is C liking your status for the ticket? Don't be baited back."

I unfollowed her and don't talk to her at all but she will like stuff of mine and for a bit would Snapchat me until I deleted it. Sorry no attention for you.

Also had this new girl at work that was a recruiter call me out in front of our colleagues at Happy Hour because I didn't recognize her at the gym without makeup.

I later joked she should buy me a drink and she said "I know your salary. You make twice as much as I do. I know your payband." Like slow your roll girl

Thing is we have a lot of female recruiters in the office so they probably know what everyone is close to making.

 

[Atlrocafella]

Say bruhs on a scale of 1-10 how badly did I fukk up and how big of an L is this

Girl is into me, we talk, hang out, exchange #'s, yada yada I ask her out, she says her boyfriend wouldn't be ok with that. So ok, I knew this from looking at your IG you were taken but I had to try anyways. So I slide into friend territory, we develop a pretty great/fun/semi-flirty casual friendship, so then I'm just like fukk it and ask her out again a couple weeks later. She says no again because she's taken, and then some bullshyt happens where she misinterprets my words/actions and thinks I got mad and was disrespecting her. Ignores me for a week before I hit her up and we go into this debate where I try to explain to her the miscommunications. At this point, I'm totally cool with just being friends - she's fun to talk to, a solid friend, and I enjoy her company. Platonic or not, I was just intent on being cool with her so there's no bad blood. That's 100% truth (although if sometime down the line she was single again Idk what I would do)

But shyt goes south after this debate. It ended ok, but then I basically tell her you're being a lil unfair and, in her words, told her to "fukk off". I also annoyed her a little bit with overtexting, but I didn't expect her to owe me a response to any of them because they were just jokes I was sending to try to break the tension lol. Anyways, we talk face-to-face and that ends fine and I thought things were patched up. But a week passes, and I run into her after class coincidentally near her train stop, so she thought I was following her, and then curses me out and told me to leave her the fukk alone, so I'm like ok and I apologized for everything and then left her alone. I guess she thought I was still trying to get her but I explained to her I just wanna be friends. She then says ok, but "I still need space so since you can "pretend I never existed w ease (quoting something I said to her)" then please do so". Now I have to take alternate routes from my class so I don't run into her, which is causing inconveniences. I text + message her to let her know that if she sees me I'm not creeping I'm just tryna go where I need to go, but then she unfollows me on IG, blocks me on Facebook, and I can't confirm it but she prob blocked my # too. Smh. I tried respecting her boundaries, apologizing, letting her know I'm just cool w being friends, respected her wishes, but still ate an L and lost a friend in the process

Basically everything @Playa_Wit_A_Passport said. Once she said she had a boyfriend, you should of kept it moving. You invited all that other shyt once you ignored that and STILL tried to pursue her on the low.

 

[Rev Leon Lonnie Love]

Say bruhs on a scale of 1-10 how badly did I fukk up and how big of an L is this

Girl is into me, we talk, hang out, exchange #'s, yada yada I ask her out, she says her boyfriend wouldn't be ok with that. So ok, I knew this from looking at your IG you were taken but I had to try anyways. So I slide into friend territory, we develop a pretty great/fun/semi-flirty casual friendship, so then I'm just like fukk it and ask her out again a couple weeks later. She says no again because she's taken, and then some bullshyt happens where she misinterprets my words/actions and thinks I got mad and was disrespecting her. Ignores me for a week before I hit her up and we go into this debate where I try to explain to her the miscommunications. At this point, I'm totally cool with just being friends - she's fun to talk to, a solid friend, and I enjoy her company. Platonic or not, I was just intent on being cool with her so there's no bad blood. That's 100% truth (although if sometime down the line she was single again Idk what I would do)

But shyt goes south after this debate. It ended ok, but then I basically tell her you're being a lil unfair and, in her words, told her to "fukk off". I also annoyed her a little bit with overtexting, but I didn't expect her to owe me a response to any of them because they were just jokes I was sending to try to break the tension lol. Anyways, we talk face-to-face and that ends fine and I thought things were patched up. But a week passes, and I run into her after class coincidentally near her train stop, so she thought I was following her, and then curses me out and told me to leave her the fukk alone, so I'm like ok and I apologized for everything and then left her alone. I guess she thought I was still trying to get her but I explained to her I just wanna be friends. She then says ok, but "I still need space so since you can "pretend I never existed w ease (quoting something I said to her)" then please do so". Now I have to take alternate routes from my class so I don't run into her, which is causing inconveniences. I text + message her to let her know that if she sees me I'm not creeping I'm just tryna go where I need to go, but then she unfollows me on IG, blocks me on Facebook, and I can't confirm it but she prob blocked my # too. Smh. I tried respecting her boundaries, apologizing, letting her know I'm just cool w being friends, respected her wishes, but still ate an L and lost a friend in the process

making my fukk ups a few pages back look like nothin

 

[momma]

Basically everything @Playa_Wit_A_Passport said. Once she said she had a boyfriend, you should of kept it moving. You invited all that other shyt once you ignored that and STILL tried to pursue her on the low.

See my point of contention with that was I asked her out within the first week of meeting her, so the fact that she turned me down was not only kinda expected but also maybe desired - she's not hoeing around and looking for a new relationship while still in one, and definitely not with a guy she just met. I mean in that situation, would you stop talking to this girl completely or just fall back and hold no expectations but still keep it friendly?

 

[BadBoy]

How’s i go about fukking this single mother ... she only like 26

 

[NeilCartwright]

I just moved to a majority white city in south Texas. Its 60% Latino, and most of em are built like a bag of potatoesI got stationed out here for 2.5 years, im in the military.

To make it worse i was previously in Atlanta where its hella women, and i was eating good. I was young, at an HBCU, with a check. I actually had to leave the city when i was dealing w/this chick from Spelman. 24, trying to be a teacher, and she graduates this wintershes good with kids and all that. Just when i was trying to get out the game, and settle down with a chick from ATL the military pulls this shii on me. Even got me thinking what did i do to get exiled out here.

What are my options? I can either start fcking with the few good looking latinas out here, on my Ghost and Angie shii, or wait it out and try and find a black woman out here

 

[ViShawn]

I just moved to a majority white city in south Texas. Its 60% Latino, and most of em are built like a bag of potatoesI got stationed out here for 2.5 years, im in the military.

To make it worse i was previously in Atlanta where its hella women, and i was eating good. I was young, at an HBCU, with a check. I actually had to leave the city when i was dealing w/this chick from Spelman. 24, trying to be a teacher, and she graduates this wintershes good with kids and all that. Just when i was trying to get out the game, and settle down with a chick from ATL the military pulls this shii on me. Even got me thinking what did i do to get exiled out here.

What are my options? I can either start fcking with the few good looking latinas out here, on my Ghost and Angie shii, or wait it out and try and find a black woman out here

Where in Texas? I'm guessing San Antonio because I did the same thing and I came from Atlanta too.

West side of San Antonio has more black people and Universal City if I recall correctly.

 

[NeilCartwright]

Where in Texas? I'm guessing San Antonio because I did the same thing and I came from Atlanta too.

West side of San Antonio has more black people and Universal City if I recall correctly.

Nah mane, i could deal with San Antonio bc at least its a metro area.

Im in Corpus Christi

 

[Surreal]

How’s i go about fukking this single mother ... she only like 26

Buy her some chicken with a side order of whatever vice she's into

 

[Turbulent]

I mean in that situation, would you stop talking to this girl completely or just fall back and hold no expectations but still keep it friendly?

this.

but even if you still wanted to play the game which is the wrong choice, the next best thing would have been to wait for her to make the move since you already made yours and she rejected you. the ball was in her court. you kept overreaching which is why you got in trouble. you're still not taking responsibility for your actions so you're bound to repeat the same mistakes. if you keep it up, you'll end up in jail with a restraining order or even beat up.

 

[Turbulent]

How’s i go about fukking this single mother ... she only like 26

by first changing your mindset.

she's the one who should be asking how she goes about sleeping with you.