I would say so, but that depends on how you define friend
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I would say so, but that depends on how you define friend
NeilCartwright
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I can't do nothing about the location, I'm stuck out here for 3 years. The question is what can I do
@momma I used to be a complete simp and a herb at times as well. Nowadays I'm in a wonderful relationship with a quality woman, who loves and respects me as the man I am... I shyt you not, this thread has been one of the major keys for me bossing up to really embracing myself as a truly am - which in turn has automatically stopped me from doing all sorts of weak shyt 
(such as the shyt you posted 
)
So buckle up, young breh, and keep an honest and open mind here. You're in for quite a journey into your own mind... as well as an abundance of punani.
@True Blue Moon would you please do the honors, and hit this young breh up with that shyt he might not wanna hear, but what he NEEDS to hear
(such as the shyt you posted )So buckle up, young breh, and keep an honest and open mind here. You're in for quite a journey into your own mind... as well as an abundance of punani.
@True Blue Moon would you please do the honors, and hit this young breh up with that shyt he might not wanna hear, but what he NEEDS to hear
@momma I used to be a complete simp and a herb at times as well. Nowadays I'm in a wonderful relationship with a quality woman, who loves and respects me as the man I am... I shyt you not, this thread has been one of the major keys for me bossing up to really embracing myself as a truly am - which in turn has automatically stopped me from doing all sorts of weak shyt
So buckle up, young breh, and keep an honest and open mind here. You're in for quite a journey into your own mind... as well as an abundance of punani.
I appreciate it. Unfortunately I don't have time for hoeing around anymore, and being annoyingly detached / too cool for school with girls who I really liked and were into me as well only left me with regrets. I do appreciate the anon therapy from the people in this thread
International Playa
Playa with a Passport
It's a lot of shyt to take in, a lot of shyt to re-evaluate. I suggest you just take some time to reflect alone without trying to get with a new one. Don't dwell on it but at least try to answer those earlier questions. Just chill and take a breather for a second. I think it's something that goes deeper than bytches. You mentioned a few times you can get obsessive maybe look into that. We're all going hard on you cause you might get into serious trouble with her or the next one if you don't change something. I just hope you realize getting a girl or keeping a friendship/connection with someone is never that serious especially if they don't want the same or are acting weird. Even if it's your fault or ifbyou did/said something. You apologize once and if they start acting funny, let them figure it out on their own. They might come back after a minute, they might not. If their actions don't match their words, meaning if they talk that friends shyt but act differently, don't try to get an explanation, let them go until they start acting right. Getting closure is overrated. It's like saying you need a logical reason as to why someone does not want to be with you. You want to know if it stems from a misunderstanding that you could fix or if it's something that can't be helped. Again it boils down to wanting to control. I figure if it's a misunderstanding and she's not willing to try to understand, it wasn't meant to be. I create my own closure from it. I don't need her for closure.
Anyway, I'm rambling on but bottom line is, don't put yourself in situations where you could get arrested breh. Not over a bytch at least.
Happy to hear that you are prospering with a wonderful woman my brethren@momma I used to be a complete simp and a herb at times as well. Nowadays I'm in a wonderful relationship with a quality woman, who loves and respects me as the man I am... I shyt you not, this thread has been one of the major keys for me bossing up to really embracing myself as a truly am - which in turn has automatically stopped me from doing all sorts of weak shyt
So buckle up, young breh, and keep an honest and open mind here. You're in for quite a journey into your own mind... as well as an abundance of punani.
@True Blue Moon would you please do the honors, and hit this young breh up with that shyt he might not wanna hear, but what he NEEDS to hear
, I’m hoping by this time next year I’ll be in the same position.
First date scrapage with a chick you dont wsnt long term is a conundrum 
Already talking about lets meet again
Already talking about lets meet again
True Blue Moon
Superstar
@momma I used to be a complete simp and a herb at times as well. Nowadays I'm in a wonderful relationship with a quality woman, who loves and respects me as the man I am... I shyt you not, this thread has been one of the major keys for me bossing up to really embracing myself as a truly am - which in turn has automatically stopped me from doing all sorts of weak shyt
So buckle up, young breh, and keep an honest and open mind here. You're in for quite a journey into your own mind... as well as an abundance of punani.
@True Blue Moon would you please do the honors, and hit this young breh up with that shyt he might not wanna hear, but what he NEEDS to hear
I need to bookmark this and come back to it so I can give a proper response because this one is a doozy
Hopefully breh sticks around and embraces the journey
I should have stayed outta the gym
I can't handle this attention
Get these first world problems outta here
Life is like a box of chocolatesMy outlook on women being sunnier won't build a 6-pack or 4 inches on my chest and 2 inches on my arms, henceforth increase attention
I experienced the same shyt today
Scrapage = carnal activity?First date scrapage with a chick you dont wsnt long term is a conundrum
Already talking about lets meet again
fukking b lol.Scrapage = carnal activity?
brehs how has dating changed for you in your thirties good or bad?
i've been single in my thirties for the first time as of may and i remember being a young scarf boy and hearing oldheads talking about just wait till your 30 it gets easier, just work on yourself, your career
and
i've been single in my thirties for the first time as of may and i remember being a young scarf boy and hearing oldheads talking about just wait till your 30 it gets easier, just work on yourself, your career
and
I don't know if I care to know the reason why she wouldn't wanna be with me (either in a relationship or just as friends). I've gone through similar situations where male friends pissed me the fukk off some way and I figure its the same thing. And really I didn't expect her to drop her man for some guy she just met. My thing about closure is I just don't want any kind of relationship/friendship in my life to end on bad terms or where certain tensions were unresolved, that's all. And yeah I think I understand maintaining some sort of friendship/connection isn't that serious, but idk maybe its my obsessive nature and maybe I'm just overly sensitive and get caught up in my feelings when a situation turns sour and a person resents me for whatever reason.
Also I think I reflect alone too much lol. I'm sure that's what breeds my tendency to overthink and consequently obsess about things. I got a couple other girls I been talking to, I might ask one of them out over winter break if I feel like it. You don't think I should do that?