Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Saysumthinfunnymike]

Virgin broad want me to tag along with her + 9-10 of her homegirls on NYE to a club. Told her I aint going nowhere with 10-11 tipsy drunk chicks. She felt a certain way and played it off. I told her how Im not gonna be that 1 nikka taking photos of the bytches and listenin to rihanna pregamming in a hotel

Told her I’d much rather hang alone barhopping alone then hitting a stripclub and then heading home

Told her we can get a hotel and split it. But told her Im not finna get a room just to sleep and not bust her guts. Thats a waste of time tbh. She can spend the night with her homegirls

This sound all wrong. I been there. I was a freshman in college and i had been choppin it up with this broad in Biology. She was after me for a minute but I didn't like that she was clearly still with her boyfriend even tho she said they split up. It had drama written all over it. But she asked me out one night so i went. I thought it'd just be us two. Nope. I get there and it's her, a girlfriend of hers and that girls' boyfriend. So now I'm stuck talkin to people I don't know and the girlfriend was there as a lifeline.

That's the part where the situations are all too familiar. If you gonna go chill with a chick, you can't have her having all these lifelines. It'd be one thing if you had a friend or two to entertain her friends but a whole group of them?

nah breh

 

[Rev Leon Lonnie Love]

fukk it Im not ashamed of myself lol. For reference, prince like



Im like 5-4ish. And dresa like a vampire. So yeah I stand out usually. I just do me. Chicks usually dig it tbh. The way I look its noy surprising I attract nothing but weird ass pretty reds. I could care less I dress how I like to and Prince is my idol and shyt

So yeah dependong on the crowd its either all eyes on me or a ghost. Im routinely the best dressed wherever I go though.

I give u my height (6'2") you give me that hairline, deal?

 

[Deafheaven]

I give u my height (6'2") you give me that hairline, deal?

Naw Im straight if I ever start going bald my pull rate will diminish I got a goofy ass head

 

[Rev Leon Lonnie Love]

Naw Im straight if I ever start going bald my pull rate will diminish I got a goofy ass head

 

[BadBoy]

fukk it Im not ashamed of myself lol. For reference, prince like


Im like 5-4ish. And dresa like a vampire. So yeah I stand out usually. I just do me. Chicks usually dig it tbh. The way I look its noy surprising I attract

where you get that jacket

 

[Cleansprite]

How many you get so far?

How many you get so far?

about a good 4 that's gonna let me hit forsure

 

[Rev Leon Lonnie Love]

just finished a bottle of wine. Bout to dress up and hit the clubs solo. aint done this in a minute. wish me luck brehs :jbsideburns:

 

[Dreamzeedream]

just finished a bottle of wine. Bout to dress up and hit the clubs solo. aint done this in a minute. wish me luck brehs :jbsideburns:

breh where u live at?. It' 1:26pm

 

[Rev Leon Lonnie Love]

breh where u live at?. It' 1:26pm

I live in a Southern African country breh its 21:40pm over here

 

[momma]

Say bruhs on a scale of 1-10 how badly did I fukk up and how big of an L is this

Girl is into me, we talk, hang out, exchange #'s, yada yada I ask her out, she says her boyfriend wouldn't be ok with that. So ok, I knew this from looking at your IG you were taken but I had to try anyways. So I slide into friend territory, we develop a pretty great/fun/semi-flirty casual friendship, so then I'm just like fukk it and ask her out again a couple weeks later. She says no again because she's taken, and then some bullshyt happens where she misinterprets my words/actions and thinks I got mad and was disrespecting her. Ignores me for a week before I hit her up and we go into this debate where I try to explain to her the miscommunications. At this point, I'm totally cool with just being friends - she's fun to talk to, a solid friend, and I enjoy her company. Platonic or not, I was just intent on being cool with her so there's no bad blood. That's 100% truth (although if sometime down the line she was single again Idk what I would do)

But shyt goes south after this debate. It ended ok, but then I basically tell her you're being a lil unfair and, in her words, told her to "fukk off". I also annoyed her a little bit with overtexting, but I didn't expect her to owe me a response to any of them because they were just jokes I was sending to try to break the tension lol. Anyways, we talk face-to-face and that ends fine and I thought things were patched up. But a week passes, and I run into her after class coincidentally near her train stop, so she thought I was following her, and then curses me out and told me to leave her the fukk alone, so I'm like ok and I apologized for everything and then left her alone. I guess she thought I was still trying to get her but I explained to her I just wanna be friends. She then says ok, but "I still need space so since you can "pretend I never existed w ease (quoting something I said to her)" then please do so". Now I have to take alternate routes from my class so I don't run into her, which is causing inconveniences. I text + message her to let her know that if she sees me I'm not creeping I'm just tryna go where I need to go, but then she unfollows me on IG, blocks me on Facebook, and I can't confirm it but she prob blocked my # too. Smh. I tried respecting her boundaries, apologizing, letting her know I'm just cool w being friends, respected her wishes, but still ate an L and lost a friend in the process

 

[Deafheaven]

where you get that jacket

Prety sure h n m. Its actually a cardigan

 

[International Playa]

Say bruhs on a scale of 1-10 how badly did I fukk up and how big of an L is this

Girl is into me, we talk, hang out, exchange #'s, yada yada I ask her out, she says her boyfriend wouldn't be ok with that. So ok, I knew this from looking at your IG you were taken but I had to try anyways. So I slide into friend territory, we develop a pretty great/fun/semi-flirty casual friendship, so then I'm just like fukk it and ask her out again a couple weeks later. She says no again because she's taken, and then some bullshyt happens where she misinterprets my words/actions and thinks I got mad and was disrespecting her. Ignores me for a week before I hit her up and we go into this debate where I try to explain to her the miscommunications. At this point, I'm totally cool with just being friends - she's fun to talk to, a solid friend, and I enjoy her company. Platonic or not, I was just intent on being cool with her so there's no bad blood. That's 100% truth (although if sometime down the line she was single again Idk what I would do)

But shyt goes south after this debate. It ended ok, but then I basically tell her you're being a lil unfair and, in her words, told her to "fukk off". I also annoyed her a little bit with overtexting, but I didn't expect her to owe me a response to any of them because they were just jokes I was sending to try to break the tension lol. Anyways, we talk face-to-face and that ends fine and I thought things were patched up. But a week passes, and I run into her after class coincidentally near her train stop, so she thought I was following her, and then curses me out and told me to leave her the fukk alone, so I'm like ok and I apologized for everything and then left her alone. I guess she thought I was still trying to get her but I explained to her I just wanna be friends. She then says ok, but "I still need space so since you can "pretend I never existed w ease (quoting something I said to her)" then please do so". Now I have to take alternate routes from my class so I don't run into her, which is causing inconveniences. I text + message her to let her know that if she sees me I'm not creeping I'm just tryna go where I need to go, but then she unfollows me on IG, blocks me on Facebook, and I can't confirm it but she prob blocked my # too. Smh. I tried respecting her boundaries, apologizing, letting her know I'm just cool w being friends, respected her wishes, but still ate an L and lost a friend in the process

You shoulda stopped talking to her when she immediatly told you that. You are in school, plenty of single girls breh.

 

[momma]

You shoulda stopped talking to her when she immediatly told you that. You are in school, plenty of single girls breh.

Well I didn't stop talking to her because A. she is easily a 10/10 and someone who I "vibed" and had a lot in common with. I find it hard to put in the effort/care unless its a girl I really like and find myself compatible with (if I'm not just looking for a hookup) And those really don't come around all that often B. she gave me a different excuse first before coming clean about her boyfriend, mind you I asked her out within the first week of meeting her so I wanted to play it out more and see what would happen. I would have been more patient but the problem with school is you don't see a person anymore after the semester ends, and a semester only about 3 months

Whatever

 

[International Playa]

Well I didn't stop talking to her because A. she is easily a 10/10 and someone who I "vibed" and had a lot in common with. I find it hard to put in the effort/care unless its a girl I really like and find myself compatible with (if I'm not just looking for a hookup) And those really don't come around all that often B. she gave me a different excuse first before coming clean about her boyfriend, mind you I asked her out within the first week of meeting her so I wanted to play it out more

You clearly a young breh, you caught a case of oneitis with this girl. She told you, she got a boyfriend & you dont wanna let go. You wanna learn the hard way, when the boyfriend beats you up or puts a bullet in your head.

In your lifetime, you gonna meet plenty of women you vibe with. The average man sleeps with 9 women in their lifetime. There is plenty of women you gonna deal with young breh, let this one go.

You are in school, hundreds of single women in your school are probably desparate for a boyfriend.

 

[momma]

You clearly a young breh, you caught a case of oneitis with this girl. She told you, she got a boyfriend & you dont wanna let go. You wanna learn the hard way, when the boyfriend beats you up or puts a bullet in your head.

In your lifetime, you gonna meet plenty of women you vibe with. The average man sleeps with 9 women in their lifetime. There is plenty of women you gonna deal with young breh, let this one go.

Idk I'd be cool except some variation of this seems to happen to me every semester. I meet a girl who looks great and I genuinely find interesting and really like and she likes me back and I get caught up, but she's taken. I mean there's always other girls I'm "talking" to but I don't really like 'em like that.