Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[YBE]

For those literary heads that really wanna read up on some 'game", read the Great Gatsby as well. It's literally a book on the dangers of simping and tricking recklessly for the validation of a woman.

Dope story as well.

I won't front....in my simp days, that book resonated with me alot. I think alot of dudes in this thread can probably relate to losing "the girl" & being inspired to improve themselves to try to win her affections again. Its kinda when you think about it.....the shyt men do for women. Gatsby built a fortune, talking 50, 60 million dollars here....all for some ditzy nurse from 10 years ago who didn't even love him like that


As a simp teen, I thought it was romantic. Watching that shyt as a grown man tho.....its fukkin hilarious Who wrote that bullshyt I watched the one with Robert Redford a few weeks back & almost cut that shyt off. Hand me $50,000,000 tomorrow and a resort for a house. I wish I would be sulking around town. Get fukking real. Daisy wouldve got tossed in the shrubs

 

[Ohene]

got this set up for dinner on wednesday

I must say though, I have never been in a situation where I'm going out with a girl that i dont know too much about...like just a casual date you know?

Met her a year ago at school while she visited a friend but she doesnt give her number to dudes at parties she said. Saw her this summer when I was taking a snack break from work at a smoothie store "Booster Juice"...chopped it up a little bit and got the number. I didnt talk to her too much after getting it cause shes a very busy girl and would take long to reply but I randomly decided to ask her out for the fuggofit. Any tips to make sure I dont make a fool? I'm guessing asking that shyt is the first wrong step. Just gonna take it lightly, catch up and be myself; let her do most of the talking . Not really looking for anything.


random thought...i know its remembrance day but smh at these Raps jerseys

 

[Oye]

Since this is now a life in general thread anyone do volunteer work?

 

[Wild self]

got this set up for dinner on wednesday

I must say though, I have never been in a situation where I'm going out with a girl that i dont know too much about...like just a casual date you know?

Met her a year ago at school while she visited a friend but she doesnt give her number to dudes at parties she said. Saw her this summer when I was taking a snack break from work at a smoothie store "Booster Juice"...chopped it up a little bit and got the number. I didnt talk to her too much after getting it cause shes a very busy girl and would take long to reply but I randomly decided to ask her out for the fuggofit. Any tips to make sure I dont make a fool? I'm guessing asking that shyt is the first wrong step. Just gonna take it lightly, catch up and be myself; let her do most of the talking . Not really looking for anything.


random thought...i know its remembrance day but smh at these Raps jerseys

If I were you, don't take her out to dinner or a movie. Take her out to bowling, playing on the pool table, or something interactive that is legitimately fun.

 

[Ohene]

If I were you, don't take her out to dinner or a movie. Take her out to bowling, playing on the pool table, or something interactive that is legitimately fun.

suggestion taken, shouldnt be hard cause itll be in Downtown toronto. Ima chef something up.

@His_Excellence_Reincar suggest some spots in Toronto

 

[MikelArteta]

suggestion taken, shouldnt be hard cause itll be in Downtown toronto. Ima chef something up.

@His_Excellence_Reincar suggest some spots in Toronto

whats your budget breh?

The Ballroom Bowl |

 

[Wild self]

suggestion taken, shouldnt be hard cause itll be in Downtown toronto. Ima chef something up.

@His_Excellence_Reincar suggest some spots in Toronto

When you do something like that, don't hold back (ie. win a match of bowling against her) and crack on her like ya sister. And carry some alcohol with ya and make her drink it. She'll spill out a bunch of shyt if you are having fun and not take it as a big deal.

 

[MikelArteta]

actually do this breh

snakes and lattes

its my hidden spot, bloor and bathurst

chicks always eat it up, its a cafe but with every board game you can ever think of, its right across from honest ed's

Snakes & Lattes

its cheap 5 bucks per person just make a reservation

 

[Ohene]

whats your budget breh?

The Ballroom Bowl |

When you do something like that, don't hold back (ie. win a match of bowling against her) and crack on her like ya sister. And carry some alcohol with ya and make her drink it. She'll spill out a bunch of shyt if you are having fun and not take it as a big deal.

lol I must say brehs I've never been Bowling. shyt thatll probably make it an even better experience so I am seriously considering it. As for the budget...my paycheck is on Thursday so I'll have bank the very next day. The budget is limitless but at the same time I aint trying to stunt. Id be okay putting down $50-80 depending on how much I enjoy the food and activity it as well. And right after I pay about 900 for last years tuition I'll be done with school related debt. This Wednesday is gonna be a preliminary celebration brehs.

 

[MikelArteta]

snakes & lattes breh

be as cheap as possible

 

[Turbulent]

got this set up for dinner on wednesday

I must say though, I have never been in a situation where I'm going out with a girl that i dont know too much about...like just a casual date you know?

Met her a year ago at school while she visited a friend but she doesnt give her number to dudes at parties she said. Saw her this summer when I was taking a snack break from work at a smoothie store "Booster Juice"...chopped it up a little bit and got the number. I didnt talk to her too much after getting it cause shes a very busy girl and would take long to reply but I randomly decided to ask her out for the fuggofit. Any tips to make sure I dont make a fool? I'm guessing asking that shyt is the first wrong step. Just gonna take it lightly, catch up and be myself; let her do most of the talking . Not really looking for anything.


random thought...i know its remembrance day but smh at these Raps jerseys

my tip would be to figure out what it is you want from her exactly. and be honest with yourself. If you want to fukk, go with that purpose. if you want to get to know her more, go with that state of mind. but you have to keep it real with yourself and be in-tune with what it is you want from life and from her. Having a purpose and being tactful yet sincere will keep your head straight. and whatever your purpose is, be ready to charge it to the game if it doesn't work out the way you want it to. also keep in mind your purpose might change during the course of that one date. If that's what happens, recognize that change within yourself remain honest with yourself. and with her. the birthplace of your words and action must be your state of mind.

if you go in with a confused state of mind and have no purpose (like you seem right now), your words and actions will be confused and unsure as well.

 

[Ohene]

actually do this breh

snakes and lattes

its my hidden spot, bloor and bathurst

chicks always eat it up, its a cafe but with every board game you can ever think of, its right across from honest ed's

Snakes & Lattes

its cheap 5 bucks per person just make a reservation

just saw that on a google search breh. Its nice huh? Ill definitely consider it. I asked if she has any food objections and she said none at all but Italian and Sushi are favourites. Might toss that preference in the bushes though

 

[MikelArteta]

just saw that on a google search breh. Its nice huh? Ill definitely consider it. I asked if she has any food objections and she said none at all but Italian and Sushi are favourites. Might toss that preference in the bushes though

women eat it up breh last time i went i played jenga for like 2 hours with a chick

cost 5 bucks per person, then i went back to her spot

 

[Ohene]

my tip would be to figure out what it is you want from her exactly. and be honest with yourself. If you want to fukk, go with that purpose. if you want to get to know her more, go with that state of mind. but you have to keep it real with yourself and be in-tune with what it is you want from life and from her. Having a purpose and being tactful yet sincere will keep your head straight. and whatever your purpose is, be ready to charge it to the game if it doesn't work out the way you want it to. also keep in mind your purpose might change while during the course of that one date. If that's what happens, recognize that change within yourself remain honest with yourself. and with her. the birthplace of your words and action must be your state of mind.

if you go in with a confused state of mind and have no purpose (like you seem right now), your words and actions will be confused and unsure as well.

Very good advice. I would say my mindset right now is to just go and get to know what kinda girl she is. I dont know her enough to say I want more and I am beginning to think I really should just play the field given my youth and the Nigerian girl situation. A senior manager at work (same one i show the coli) even said this is the age to do so and hopefully find what it is you want and dont want from a significant other...to also gain the experience on how to deal with relationships.

So summary...I'm exploring my options and going with the intention to get to know the girl better and decide what role I want to assign her (if any). Role #1 , girl who I'm trying to fukk. Role #2 , more than that in an effort to gain relationship experience and perhaps even succeed with. Role #3 , bushes. Cant front though, if I catch a certain vibe I'm liable to stay at her place that night. Only issue is I'd have work the next morning. How's that sound? Too broad and flip floppy or....?

 

[Slaimon Khan Shah]

Have good manners around women.