Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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that delusional entitlement right there. girls pull that "dont hit me!" shyt when theyre starting shyt. attacking other people and being disrespectful. all of a sudden actions dont have consequences, right? :snoop:

it goes everywhere. as men, and society, we need to show that right is right and if youre out of pocket, you need to get put right back in. get a dose of reality.:wow:
 

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its really clear to see that women are the most delusional creatures on this earth. and men, we're delusional for believing them.

women are the ones who say: "you have to deal with me" "take me for what I am" "I dont need to do anything I am the prize" "what does HE bring to the table" when shes an everyday commoner or some smut with nothing going on but bills and her p*ssy. (which she rations out to different men anyways)

the big dream going on is to make you believe, that just because you are attracted to them that you have to believe that they piss out spring water and shyt out ice cream. theyre delicate angels and they are emotional creatures, so coddle them and protect them. they can create the dream, and we have to buy into it. so let them do whatever it is that they want and get the most out of it. because, shes a magical fairy girl. and with that, us allowing them to be brats, their delusion is in thinking that they dont have to ever improve, or come to grips with their possible shortcumings and honestly work on themselves. instead its all hidden and locked away until their self esteem crashes and they do something to validate themselves to someone else (friends, "society," strangers, or namely other people, and not their man)

I think its really telling that a thread based around men improving our outlook, our relationships, our life choices, and ourselves, is almost 5000 posts strong full of gems in only a few months, and women in general have the attitude of "take me at my worst"

so not only is it on us to pay for them and their way, carry the weight for their mistakes, we have to be exciting, do things for them, have more than them from our wise choices that we must "share" for them, and accept them for their faults - yet we're the only ones who have the drive and initiative to consistently work on ourselves

that alone speaks volumes about us and what we're capable of. and I mean outside of this institution and what we've been told to accept. men, remember, those mistakes and programming that we are assaulted with, it only works if you believe in it. see ultimately, it all falls on us. its our responsibility to control our game and our future, and every aspect of it from here on out. there is no, "what does she like and what would impress her" or bowing to her whims. its about taking different things in our life, making a plan, and making the pieces work for you.



the irony in all this is, that women are wayyy more insecure than men. men, how many times have you asked your girl "baby does my belly show in this shirt?" "are my jeans too tight?" "now be honest with me, honey, how did my hair look today?"

:why:

theyre the most insecure, delusional, and lying of the species. if a man lies, its only because the bullshyt level on this particular woman is so damn high, that in order for her to even pretend to like you or acknowledge you, ya have to tell her that youre a party promoter. or that youre a mover in the industry. that you KNOW people. you run the office down at the bank. that you made salesman of the year in real estate. whatever. we lie, because these women lie to themselves so much everyday that to deal with them you need to hop right in fantasy land with them. in them saying to themselves that they only deserve to have a man that has a doctorate, a man who is a successful lawyer, a wealthy athlete, or someone with high status, when all she is bringing to the table is p*ssy is .... crazy as shyt!

is it any wonder that women will delude themselves into thinking they can only settle for a rich, well off man, when they themselves aint shyt? and is it a coincidence, that these well-to-do- men, are able to afford them a life of luxury where they dont need to ever do shyt? a prince charming, indeed.

now lets be serious, and discard that disney fairy tale for a second. lets look at the actual picture. what is happening.

so a woman is hoping to have a man put up with her shyt, since she wont change or honestly work to make things better (for herself or her mate), because she wont "settle." oh, the horror or not marrying an athlete and having to choose a working man who could not provide a life of upmost comfort for her. to not have a life where she doesnt have to do anything as a princess. a life where she would have to make things work, like he has to make things work. terrible, just terrible!

now the refusal to accept "settling for lesser" is in all bytches now. and why? because they cant compete with us, so they want to take from us. they will lie to themselves about their worth just so they can have more from you. thats the lie. what the fukk. does she. bring?

see, and in the event of waiting for that mystical rich man who will wife them, they will ration their p*ssy to men who will dog them out and many random encounters. only to find themselves in the end tied up with the worst of men out there. they have kids with men who cant stand them except for dropping in and using them for random hoing. why?

because they think that a prince charming is the only one worth "settling" for. its a lifestyle that they can hope for since, in a real one, they have to be on point, they have to hold a house down, they have to be by their man in tough times, and they have to deal with reality.

that dreamy make believe situation that they hope for, and what men to put up with, is only to compensate for the fact that they dont bring anything but entitlement and self serving attitudes to the table. men out there, go find yourself a seat at another table.

thank you, God bless. :salute:
:damn::damn:

He just snapped. I got a feeling that this fairy tale crap that women been fed to is going to meet an abrupt end at some point. And when it does, get yo:violent: ready. Cause simps will start wars on men that know bwtter just to look like Prince Charming to these ladies.
 

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:wtf: god damn....i haven't checked this thread in months. 330 pages :wtf:

I already know its piff all through here :wow:
 

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its really clear to see that women are the most delusional creatures on this earth. and men, we're delusional for believing them.

women are the ones who say: "you have to deal with me" "take me for what I am" "I dont need to do anything I am the prize" "what does HE bring to the table" when shes an everyday commoner or some smut with nothing going on but bills and her p*ssy. (which she rations out to different men anyways)

the big dream going on is to make you believe, that just because you are attracted to them that you have to believe that they piss out spring water and shyt out ice cream. theyre delicate angels and they are emotional creatures, so coddle them and protect them. they can create the dream, and we have to buy into it. so let them do whatever it is that they want and get the most out of it. because, shes a magical fairy girl. and with that, us allowing them to be brats, their delusion is in thinking that they dont have to ever improve, or come to grips with their possible shortcumings and honestly work on themselves. instead its all hidden and locked away until their self esteem crashes and they do something to validate themselves to someone else (friends, "society," strangers, or namely other people, and not their man)

I think its really telling that a thread based around men improving our outlook, our relationships, our life choices, and ourselves, is almost 5000 posts strong full of gems in only a few months, and women in general have the attitude of "take me at my worst"


so not only is it on us to pay for them and their way, carry the weight for their mistakes, we have to be exciting, do things for them, have more than them from our wise choices that we must "share" for them, and accept them for their faults - yet we're the only ones who have the drive and initiative to consistently work on ourselves

that alone speaks volumes about us and what we're capable of. and I mean outside of this institution and what we've been told to accept. men, remember, those mistakes and programming that we are assaulted with, it only works if you believe in it. see ultimately, it all falls on us. its our responsibility to control our game and our future, and every aspect of it from here on out. there is no, "what does she like and what would impress her" or bowing to her whims. its about taking different things in our life, making a plan, and making the pieces work for you.



the irony in all this is, that women are wayyy more insecure than men. men, how many times have you asked your girl "baby does my belly show in this shirt?" "are my jeans too tight?" "now be honest with me, honey, how did my hair look today?"

:why:

theyre the most insecure, delusional, and lying of the species. if a man lies, its only because the bullshyt level on this particular woman is so damn high, that in order for her to even pretend to like you or acknowledge you, ya have to tell her that youre a party promoter. or that youre a mover in the industry. that you KNOW people. you run the office down at the bank. that you made salesman of the year in real estate. whatever. we lie, because these women lie to themselves so much everyday that to deal with them you need to hop right in fantasy land with them. in them saying to themselves that they only deserve to have a man that has a doctorate, a man who is a successful lawyer, a wealthy athlete, or someone with high status, when all she is bringing to the table is p*ssy is .... crazy as shyt!

is it any wonder that women will delude themselves into thinking they can only settle for a rich, well off man, when they themselves aint shyt? and is it a coincidence, that these well-to-do- men, are able to afford them a life of luxury where they dont need to ever do shyt? a prince charming, indeed.

now lets be serious, and discard that disney fairy tale for a second. lets look at the actual picture. what is happening.

so a woman is hoping to have a man put up with her shyt, since she wont change or honestly work to make things better (for herself or her mate), because she wont "settle." oh, the horror or not marrying an athlete and having to choose a working man who could not provide a life of upmost comfort for her. to not have a life where she doesnt have to do anything as a princess. a life where she would have to make things work, like he has to make things work. terrible, just terrible!

now the refusal to accept "settling for lesser" is in all bytches now. and why? because they cant compete with us, so they want to take from us. they will lie to themselves about their worth just so they can have more from you. thats the lie. what the fukk. does she. bring?

see, and in the event of waiting for that mystical rich man who will wife them, they will ration their p*ssy to men who will dog them out and many random encounters. only to find themselves in the end tied up with the worst of men out there. they have kids with men who cant stand them except for dropping in and using them for random hoing. why?

because they think that a prince charming is the only one worth "settling" for. its a lifestyle that they can hope for since, in a real one, they have to be on point, they have to hold a house down, they have to be by their man in tough times, and they have to deal with reality.

that dreamy make believe situation that they hope for, and what men to put up with, is only to compensate for the fact that they dont bring anything but entitlement and self serving attitudes to the table. men out there, go find yourself a seat at another table.

thank you, God bless. :salute:

I'd use a smiley but none express the level of appreciation for this post. Didnt explain that part of the story but it relates to whats going on with me and the Nigerian so much (bolded)
 
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:damn::damn:

He just snapped. I got a feeling that this fairy tale crap that women been fed to is going to meet an abrupt end at some point.

yeah the us census bureau recently released a report on marriages which showed that marriages are now declining at a rate of 5% every year. theyve extrapolated that at this rate marriages will hit 0% by about 2030

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i know a girl who has a son right now who is 5 and it dawned on me very quickly that by the time little man is grown, given this data, he will enter adulthood in the no marriage era (2025-2035) he'll be 18-28 in that time frame. it made me sad as hell because he doeasnt have his father in his life and there wont really be any examples our society can make available to him of what a healthy functional relationship actually looks like ever in his entire life. think about that.
 

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@CrossBones did you just join the coli? post on sohh? whats your story man?

Im coli. I had tried to register on sohh but that shytty ass site never approved of my account. garbage :scusthov:

as for me, Im cleaning house. I got things Im handling right now that will get me straight and completely on point. its important for a man to be about himself, for that when shyt falls apart you always have you. my friend turned on me, my business partners folded, had some small beef pop off, my girl is all off point and misguided. I need a certain caliber around me. so thats what Im seeking.
 
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yeah the us census bureau recently released a report on marriages which showed that marriages are now declining at a rate of 5% every year. theyve extrapolated that at this rate marriages will hit 0% by about 2030

javadi20110826145653950.jpg


i know a girl who has a son right now who is 5 and it dawned on me very quickly that by the time little man is grown, given this data, he will enter adulthood in the no marriage era (2025-2035) he'll be 18-28 in that time frame. it made me sad as hell because he doeasnt have his father in his life and there wont really be any examples our society can make available to him of what a healthy functional relationship actually looks like ever in his entire life. think about that.

Imagine a society where no one is married and mothers and grandmas don't know how to cook a meal? :ohmy:

shyt is gonna get real, really quick. Basic relationships, not just sexual, are gonna go to the bushes. Then we gonna see the most primitive of people running shyt.
 

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since women dont want to be traditional women anymore, and want men to "man up" and handle their past issues, its no wonder it wont work. who is the man that wants to marry an imposter man that changes her attitude and life when the wind blows? all shes getting in exchange is a big monetary reward and a badge that says "single mother" or "independant woman." theres no real consequence perceived for her destroying what was meant to be their lives. she is seen as the victim. without a doubt, theres no value in that. none.
 

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since women dont want to be traditional women anymore, and want men to "man up" and handle their past issues, its no wonder it wont work. who is the man that wants to marry an imposter man that changes her attitude and life when the wind blows? without a doubt, theres no value in that. none.

See I had a traditional woman which makes moving on difficult. It's hard to go from having a submissive pleasant woman to one that is about fashion and all other sorts of meaningless bullshyt.
 

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if theyre not out shooting in the gym with you, and want to act like they deserve what you got while you have to put up with the little bit shes offering, its time to get gone. a real woman will prove her worth and work towards it as much as you do.

marriage isnt meant for this entitled, delusional woman shyt. and it shouldnt be
 

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See I had a traditional woman which makes moving on difficult. It's hard to go from having a submissive pleasant woman to one that is about fashion and all other sorts of meaningless bullshyt.

mayne, everytime I hear about your story its something new because I honestly didnt have the whole picture at first. Im thinking its one thing when its really another. see I really dont know the full thing.

but just know that if you end up placing yourself in a position where youre going to be compromised as a man, and you have a bad gut feeling about the whole shyt, youre doing something wrong. sometimes things just go bad and you have to charge it to the game. I wish I could help more, but I really dont grasp the whole thing

I think your best chance is to know what you want, have a clear picture in your mind, and find it wherever you may find it. overseas, in your town, through a mutual friend .... or whatever. its really going to come down to having your shyt straight, being satisfied as a man with integrity, and your situation not being fukked up and compromising you, ya feel me?
 

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mayne, everytime I hear about your story its something new because I honestly didnt have the whole picture at first. Im thinking its one thing when its really another. see I really dont know the full thing.

but just know that if you end up placing yourself in a position where youre going to be compromised as a man, and you have a bad gut feeling about the whole shyt, youre doing something wrong. sometimes things just go bad and you have to charge it to the game. I wish I could help more, but I really dont grasp the whole thing

I think your best chance is to know what you want, have a clear picture in your mind, and find it wherever you may find it. overseas, in your town, thr
ough a mutual friend .... or whatever. its really going to come down to having your shyt straight, being satisfied as a man with integrity, and your situation not being fukked up and compromising you, ya feel me?


See Malta painted it out a way that it wasn't entirely true. I am the one that messed things up and the neglect on my part was very real. I started getting too caught up in looks even though she's a solid 7. She went through a lot of ignoring on my part cause I was truly unsure about marriage didn't want to right now bit the future sure.

I have integrity which is exactly why I'm not caving in and calling her but at the same time I'm now in the same boat as everyone else. Good women are hard to find and losing one does sting badly when you get back out there and see all these wretched females in the game.
 
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i was reading this thread and i wasnt about to post it here but it got to the point that i had to.

guys will literally kill themselves over a woman, and in fact it's pretty common

thread about men killing themselves over women. everybody needs to read this thread its required reading

Years ago, I was at home, alone. My shrew of a wife at the time (who my therapist, previously our couples' counsellor, later said was "abusive as fukk") was travelling for work, and my immediate family were all out of town. I was desperate. I was trapped in a sexless marriage with a woman who constantly pressured me, belittled me in front of others and once threatened me with a knife. I was so stricken with oneitis yet at the same time "The One" was making my life a living hell. I had such strong views about marriage and being loyal, committed, etc. My wife had been abused as a child, so that was my "excuse" for her treatment of me.

I felt like it would just be so horrible of me to leave her. I didn't want to face all the judgement I would receive (mostly from myself) for leaving her. But I didn't want to suffer any more. On top of that, I was working for some absolute a$$holes. I just wanted it to end.

I hopped in the car and drove to my parents' house, the house I grew up in until I moved into that bytch-c*nt's apartment before we bought a house together that we couldn't afford. I got my father's hunting rifle and loaded a single round. To this day, I can still remember the metallic taste of the barrel.
 
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