Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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only a few aways around that.
make a fake fb page and add them and hope they accept, if you have mutual friends alot of folks just have friends of friends can view so you may be able to.
Hack their email
, install a keylogger and invite them over.but why would you need a fb page anyways? most ppl are on twitter n instagram
surrogate and filipino nanny
and thats what bothers me what you mentioned how relationships are so energy draining, time consuming and for what? sex?
relationships get so stale and boring after awhile, so mundane, lets watch a movie, lets go to dinner, lets go for a walk.
lol don't think I can do the surrogate of nanny thing and I'm not trying to be a baby daddy so I have no idea what to do.
They do get stale after a while we'd have almost nothing to talk about on the phone. I guess that's why I started to go cold. I'm talking to someone now but I think I might just mess around with older women and single moms short time until I take my trip. No real attachments needed.
The movie is a cool little movie by itself as a revenge plot but they took too much shyt out from the book and even changed the end of the story to the point where it robs it out of it's essence and meaning. as an adaptation it's pretty lame to be honest.
The book however is like a big allegory. I'll put the spoiler tags for people who haven't read it yet (for other posters: if you've just seen the movie, you probably should still wait til you have read the book before reading the spoiler)
The book was basically an allegory to me. the first act, dude is basically a naive simp who thinks that if you do the right thing and live righteously you'll live a great life. He's madly in love, promising career, etc. Now at some point, partly because of random circumstances (the letter he got on the island) but mostly cause he had the wrong type of people in his circle, he gets fukked over by life. But notice the motives for everyone's actions. and notice how everyone acted while he was gone. Finally notice that one of the main conspirator against him was his girl's friend. (sidenote: another problem with the movie is that they made Dantes' best friend and the dude who wanted his girl into the same character in the movie). Why was she friends with him when she knew he wanted her? She puts Dantes in a bad position forcing him to be cordial and friendly to a snake. She might as well have done the "he's just a friend" routine to him. She kept giving the other dude hope and attracted his wickedness onto her fiance.
So Dantes goes to prison, he's like in hell, betrayed by his best friend, betrayed by a stranger, betrayed by the system. He almost goes mad. But life goes on outside of his prison. kinda like how we could go through mental hell and stay there for years but for other people, life goes on. How long did it take for his friends to take his spot and prosper? how long did his fiancee mourn him before marrying the proverbial "just a friend" guy? but it is what it is...So meanwhile Dantes is in his prison cut out from all of this and can't see or hear passed these walls. That's the test of life. A lot of people just give up at that point and stay in their prison forever when life fukks them over. He however (thanks to his cell neighbor) builds himself. Gains vasts amounts of knowledge, learns how to fight, analyzes what really happened to him and who fukked him over, learns how to get wealth. The secret of the treasure gives him hope again. The treasure is not just the hidden treasure chest on the other island. it's also all the experience he gains from it. all the knowledge and wisdom. He is now a man of value and this gives him the courage to escape.
When he escaped, instead of going back right away to the people who betrayed him, he actually went out and lived. Built himself up and became a different man completely (both figuratively and literally). Now look at all the clout he has when he comes back and they don't recognize him. He was like a god to them. And the game was completely open to him because of his understanding of human nature. The game was in slow-motion in his eyes because of everything he saw when he went out and discovered the world. The way he commands respect, the way he treats hoes and they all understand they love it. He protects them and in turn they serve him. The display of power is immaculate. But one thing people need to realize about that book. Yes, his power partly came from the wealth. But that was only a small part of it if you ask me. His real power was his understanding of human nature, the relationships and connections he forges, the information he has on people (and they don't even know that he knows), but most of all, it's the fact that he doesn't let anyone get into his head. He masters his own emotions (the book goes into great detail about this). Before his trauma, he lived for others and thought he was owed happiness because he deserves it. When he came out, he realized that there is no such thing as "deserve" and that if he wanted happiness, he had to plan it. His friends, fiancee, the justice system, and strangers aren't responsible for his happiness and he has to command respect from them, he can't just expect it. And when he learned that is when he became the most powerful he has ever been in his life. EDIT: he reaches power when he learns to put principle above everything.
Add to that all the other relationship gems in the other side stories of the book, the way he treats people which just commands respect, the moral dilemmas the characters often face, the lessons and examples of how our own ego often fukks with our judgement, the metaphors and allegories, the views on God and universal laws, and above all it's honesty. There are often romantic parts or even slightly melodramatic tones in parts of the book but the author almost always makes a comment to show that it's often just posturing on the character's part. it's like an internal hypocrisy we all have without realizing it (and sometimes even Dantes is guilty of it in the book). in the end, we're all manipulators to some extent even when we think we're acting selflessly.
So Dantes goes to prison, he's like in hell, betrayed by his best friend, betrayed by a stranger, betrayed by the system. He almost goes mad. But life goes on outside of his prison. kinda like how we could go through mental hell and stay there for years but for other people, life goes on. How long did it take for his friends to take his spot and prosper? how long did his fiancee mourn him before marrying the proverbial "just a friend" guy? but it is what it is...So meanwhile Dantes is in his prison cut out from all of this and can't see or hear passed these walls. That's the test of life. A lot of people just give up at that point and stay in their prison forever when life fukks them over. He however (thanks to his cell neighbor) builds himself. Gains vasts amounts of knowledge, learns how to fight, analyzes what really happened to him and who fukked him over, learns how to get wealth. The secret of the treasure gives him hope again. The treasure is not just the hidden treasure chest on the other island. it's also all the experience he gains from it. all the knowledge and wisdom. He is now a man of value and this gives him the courage to escape.
When he escaped, instead of going back right away to the people who betrayed him, he actually went out and lived. Built himself up and became a different man completely (both figuratively and literally). Now look at all the clout he has when he comes back and they don't recognize him. He was like a god to them. And the game was completely open to him because of his understanding of human nature. The game was in slow-motion in his eyes because of everything he saw when he went out and discovered the world. The way he commands respect, the way he treats hoes and they all understand they love it. He protects them and in turn they serve him. The display of power is immaculate. But one thing people need to realize about that book. Yes, his power partly came from the wealth. But that was only a small part of it if you ask me. His real power was his understanding of human nature, the relationships and connections he forges, the information he has on people (and they don't even know that he knows), but most of all, it's the fact that he doesn't let anyone get into his head. He masters his own emotions (the book goes into great detail about this). Before his trauma, he lived for others and thought he was owed happiness because he deserves it. When he came out, he realized that there is no such thing as "deserve" and that if he wanted happiness, he had to plan it. His friends, fiancee, the justice system, and strangers aren't responsible for his happiness and he has to command respect from them, he can't just expect it. And when he learned that is when he became the most powerful he has ever been in his life. EDIT: he reaches power when he learns to put principle above everything.
Add to that all the other relationship gems in the other side stories of the book, the way he treats people which just commands respect, the moral dilemmas the characters often face, the lessons and examples of how our own ego often fukks with our judgement, the metaphors and allegories, the views on God and universal laws, and above all it's honesty. There are often romantic parts or even slightly melodramatic tones in parts of the book but the author almost always makes a comment to show that it's often just posturing on the character's part. it's like an internal hypocrisy we all have without realizing it (and sometimes even Dantes is guilty of it in the book). in the end, we're all manipulators to some extent even when we think we're acting selflessly.
probably one of the greatest fiction books i've ever read. (and the writing style is crazy. dude could have EASILY been the GOAT rapper)
EDIT: I could actually go on and on about this book because of all the stories within stories and the nuances and symbolism each story has...
Lil' Kartwheel
The Chicken Box Man
For those literary heads that really wanna read up on some 'game", read the Great Gatsby as well. It's literally a book on the dangers of simping and tricking recklessly for the validation of a woman.
Dope story as well.
Dope story as well.
most definitely will check this out when i can.
gameover82
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Saw the hood version movie of the book and it had me like
on how these dudes was acting over these chicks
heard stuff from this dude....sounds pretty good.
Saw the hood version movie of the book and it had me like
I remember buying that trash on bootleg, damn that movie was corny as a fukk!
But the book is awesome..
CrossBones
Louder than words
its really clear to see that women are the most delusional creatures on this earth. and men, we're delusional for believing them.
women are the ones who say: "you have to deal with me" "take me for what I am" "I dont need to do anything I am the prize" "what does HE bring to the table" when shes an everyday commoner or some smut with nothing going on but bills and her p*ssy. (which she rations out to different men anyways)
the big dream going on is to make you believe, that just because you are attracted to them that you have to believe that they piss out spring water and shyt out ice cream. theyre delicate angels and they are emotional creatures, so coddle them and protect them. they can create the dream, and we have to buy into it. so let them do whatever it is that they want and get the most out of it. because, shes a magical fairy girl. and with that, us allowing them to be brats, their delusion is in thinking that they dont have to ever improve, or come to grips with their possible shortcumings and honestly work on themselves. instead its all hidden and locked away until their self esteem crashes and they do something to validate themselves to someone else (friends, "society," strangers, or namely other people, and not their man)
I think its really telling that a thread based around men improving our outlook, our relationships, our life choices, and ourselves, is almost 5000 posts strong full of gems in only a few months, and women in general have the attitude of "take me at my worst"
so not only is it on us to pay for them and their way, carry the weight for their mistakes, we have to be exciting, do things for them, have more than them from our wise choices that we must "share" for them, and accept them for their faults - yet we're the only ones who have the drive and initiative to consistently work on ourselves
that alone speaks volumes about us and what we're capable of. and I mean outside of this institution and what we've been told to accept. men, remember, those mistakes and programming that we are assaulted with, it only works if you believe in it. see ultimately, it all falls on us. its our responsibility to control our game and our future, and every aspect of it from here on out. there is no, "what does she like and what would impress her" or bowing to her whims. its about taking different things in our life, making a plan, and making the pieces work for you.
the irony in all this is, that women are wayyy more insecure than men. men, how many times have you asked your girl "baby does my belly show in this shirt?" "are my jeans too tight?" "now be honest with me, honey, how did my hair look today?"
theyre the most insecure, delusional, and lying of the species. if a man lies, its only because the bullshyt level on this particular woman is so damn high, that in order for her to even pretend to like you or acknowledge you, ya have to tell her that youre a party promoter. or that youre a mover in the industry. that you KNOW people. you run the office down at the bank. that you made salesman of the year in real estate. whatever. we lie, because these women lie to themselves so much everyday that to deal with them you need to hop right in fantasy land with them. in them saying to themselves that they only deserve to have a man that has a doctorate, a man who is a successful lawyer, a wealthy athlete, or someone with high status, when all she is bringing to the table is p*ssy is .... crazy as shyt!
is it any wonder that women will delude themselves into thinking they can only settle for a rich, well off man, when they themselves aint shyt? and is it a coincidence, that these well-to-do- men, are able to afford them a life of luxury where they dont need to ever do shyt? a prince charming, indeed.
now lets be serious, and discard that disney fairy tale for a second. lets look at the actual picture. what is happening.
so a woman is hoping to have a man put up with her shyt, since she wont change or honestly work to make things better (for herself or her mate), because she wont "settle." oh, the horror or not marrying an athlete and having to choose a working man who could not provide a life of upmost comfort for her. to not have a life where she doesnt have to do anything as a princess. a life where she would have to make things work, like he has to make things work. terrible, just terrible!
now the refusal to accept "settling for lesser" is in all bytches now. and why? because they cant compete with us, so they want to take from us. they will lie to themselves about their worth just so they can have more from you. thats the lie. what the fukk. does she. bring?
see, and in the event of waiting for that mystical rich man who will wife them, they will ration their p*ssy to men who will dog them out and many random encounters. only to find themselves in the end tied up with the worst of men out there. they have kids with men who cant stand them except for dropping in and using them for random hoing. why?
because they think that a prince charming is the only one worth "settling" for. its a lifestyle that they can hope for since, in a real one, they have to be on point, they have to hold a house down, they have to be by their man in tough times, and they have to deal with reality.
that dreamy make believe situation that they hope for, and what men to put up with, is only to compensate for the fact that they dont bring anything but entitlement and self serving attitudes to the table. men out there, go find yourself a seat at another table.
thank you, God bless.
women are the ones who say: "you have to deal with me" "take me for what I am" "I dont need to do anything I am the prize" "what does HE bring to the table" when shes an everyday commoner or some smut with nothing going on but bills and her p*ssy. (which she rations out to different men anyways)
the big dream going on is to make you believe, that just because you are attracted to them that you have to believe that they piss out spring water and shyt out ice cream. theyre delicate angels and they are emotional creatures, so coddle them and protect them. they can create the dream, and we have to buy into it. so let them do whatever it is that they want and get the most out of it. because, shes a magical fairy girl. and with that, us allowing them to be brats, their delusion is in thinking that they dont have to ever improve, or come to grips with their possible shortcumings and honestly work on themselves. instead its all hidden and locked away until their self esteem crashes and they do something to validate themselves to someone else (friends, "society," strangers, or namely other people, and not their man)
I think its really telling that a thread based around men improving our outlook, our relationships, our life choices, and ourselves, is almost 5000 posts strong full of gems in only a few months, and women in general have the attitude of "take me at my worst"
so not only is it on us to pay for them and their way, carry the weight for their mistakes, we have to be exciting, do things for them, have more than them from our wise choices that we must "share" for them, and accept them for their faults - yet we're the only ones who have the drive and initiative to consistently work on ourselves
that alone speaks volumes about us and what we're capable of. and I mean outside of this institution and what we've been told to accept. men, remember, those mistakes and programming that we are assaulted with, it only works if you believe in it. see ultimately, it all falls on us. its our responsibility to control our game and our future, and every aspect of it from here on out. there is no, "what does she like and what would impress her" or bowing to her whims. its about taking different things in our life, making a plan, and making the pieces work for you.
the irony in all this is, that women are wayyy more insecure than men. men, how many times have you asked your girl "baby does my belly show in this shirt?" "are my jeans too tight?" "now be honest with me, honey, how did my hair look today?"
theyre the most insecure, delusional, and lying of the species. if a man lies, its only because the bullshyt level on this particular woman is so damn high, that in order for her to even pretend to like you or acknowledge you, ya have to tell her that youre a party promoter. or that youre a mover in the industry. that you KNOW people. you run the office down at the bank. that you made salesman of the year in real estate. whatever. we lie, because these women lie to themselves so much everyday that to deal with them you need to hop right in fantasy land with them. in them saying to themselves that they only deserve to have a man that has a doctorate, a man who is a successful lawyer, a wealthy athlete, or someone with high status, when all she is bringing to the table is p*ssy is .... crazy as shyt!
is it any wonder that women will delude themselves into thinking they can only settle for a rich, well off man, when they themselves aint shyt? and is it a coincidence, that these well-to-do- men, are able to afford them a life of luxury where they dont need to ever do shyt? a prince charming, indeed.
now lets be serious, and discard that disney fairy tale for a second. lets look at the actual picture. what is happening.
so a woman is hoping to have a man put up with her shyt, since she wont change or honestly work to make things better (for herself or her mate), because she wont "settle." oh, the horror or not marrying an athlete and having to choose a working man who could not provide a life of upmost comfort for her. to not have a life where she doesnt have to do anything as a princess. a life where she would have to make things work, like he has to make things work. terrible, just terrible!
now the refusal to accept "settling for lesser" is in all bytches now. and why? because they cant compete with us, so they want to take from us. they will lie to themselves about their worth just so they can have more from you. thats the lie. what the fukk. does she. bring?
see, and in the event of waiting for that mystical rich man who will wife them, they will ration their p*ssy to men who will dog them out and many random encounters. only to find themselves in the end tied up with the worst of men out there. they have kids with men who cant stand them except for dropping in and using them for random hoing. why?
because they think that a prince charming is the only one worth "settling" for. its a lifestyle that they can hope for since, in a real one, they have to be on point, they have to hold a house down, they have to be by their man in tough times, and they have to deal with reality.
that dreamy make believe situation that they hope for, and what men to put up with, is only to compensate for the fact that they dont bring anything but entitlement and self serving attitudes to the table. men out there, go find yourself a seat at another table.
thank you, God bless.
" but that bytch was crazy as shyt