Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[LandryFieldsDad]

How about this one..

I've been working overnights last few months..
2 weeks ago I get out of work Wednesday morning and I'm driving home..
I decide to get gas and pull into the gas station..
I walk up to the little booth and there's a sign in the window that says
"changing shifts" and I don't see anyone inside..

I hear a voice behind me "its probably gonna be like 15 minutes"
Turn around and I'm face to face with a really cute girl..
We make small talk for a few minutes and I get her number.

Fast fwd..to Friday night I'm in a bar w/ 2 of my boys and I see
The girl from the gas station..
I creep up behind her like "remember me?"
We get to talking and the next few hours fly by..really had a good time
I tell her I'm about to leave and she grabs me and kisses me..ok

Now on to last week we're texting back and forth..
She asks me "when can I see you again"
I say how about Saturday?
She says cool.

Saturday comes and she texts me "u still want to see me tonight?"
I say "that's the plan right?"
She says "ill let you know by 6"
Wow..totally turned off.

Next thing I know I wake up its 8:40
shyt..I grab my phone 6 missed calls 4 texts..
But...none of the calls or texts are from her.
Take a shower and go to my boys house
She texts me at 130 saying "i guess you don't wanna hang out "

Took a lot of willpower not to answer her..
Last night she sends me this text "im sorry. I like you
But it's hard for me to trust people."
Smh

 

[Ohene]

i been there mr fields

 

[Mickey Kane]

Sh*t like that annoys me.

How old is she?

 

[MikelArteta]

Already playing games and wants you to chase, but because you didn't she brings out the I really like you it's just hard to trust...trying for you to ask why, so she can tell you about all the guys who treated her horribly

 

[Turbulent]

How about this one..

I've been working overnights last few months..
2 weeks ago I get out of work Wednesday morning and I'm driving home..
I decide to get gas and pull into the gas station..
I walk up to the little booth and there's a sign in the window that says
"changing shifts" and I don't see anyone inside..

I hear a voice behind me "its probably gonna be like 15 minutes"
Turn around and I'm face to face with a really cute girl..
We make small talk for a few minutes and I get her number.

Fast fwd..to Friday night I'm in a bar w/ 2 of my boys and I see
The girl from the gas station..
I creep up behind her like "remember me?"
We get to talking and the next few hours fly by..really had a good time
I tell her I'm about to leave and she grabs me and kisses me..ok

Now on to last week we're texting back and forth..
She asks me "when can I see you again"
I say how about Saturday?
She says cool.

Saturday comes and she texts me "u still want to see me tonight?"
I say "that's the plan right?"
She says "ill let you know by 6"
Wow..totally turned off.

Next thing I know I wake up its 8:40
shyt..I grab my phone 6 missed calls 4 texts..
But...none of the calls or texts are from her.
Take a shower and go to my boys house
She texts me at 130 saying "i guess you don't wanna hang out "

Took a lot of willpower not to answer her..
Last night she sends me this text "im sorry. I like you
But it's hard for me to trust people."
Smh

lol, she's a fukking retard.

if it were me, i'd wait and see if she starts sending texts about how sorry she is and blablabla. get her emotionally invested. then i'd mold her into a good fukkbuddy and take it from there. maybe she graduates from fb to girlfriend if she plays her position well. maybe not

 

[winb83]

How about this one..

I've been working overnights last few months..
2 weeks ago I get out of work Wednesday morning and I'm driving home..
I decide to get gas and pull into the gas station..
I walk up to the little booth and there's a sign in the window that says
"changing shifts" and I don't see anyone inside..

I hear a voice behind me "its probably gonna be like 15 minutes"
Turn around and I'm face to face with a really cute girl..
We make small talk for a few minutes and I get her number.

Fast fwd..to Friday night I'm in a bar w/ 2 of my boys and I see
The girl from the gas station..
I creep up behind her like "remember me?"
We get to talking and the next few hours fly by..really had a good time
I tell her I'm about to leave and she grabs me and kisses me..ok

Now on to last week we're texting back and forth..
She asks me "when can I see you again"
I say how about Saturday?
She says cool.

Saturday comes and she texts me "u still want to see me tonight?"
I say "that's the plan right?"
She says "ill let you know by 6"
Wow..totally turned off.

Next thing I know I wake up its 8:40
shyt..I grab my phone 6 missed calls 4 texts..
But...none of the calls or texts are from her.
Take a shower and go to my boys house
She texts me at 130 saying "i guess you don't wanna hang out "

Took a lot of willpower not to answer her..
Last night she sends me this text "im sorry. I like you
But it's hard for me to trust people."
Smh

Lol @ ill let you know by 6. That's just her using you as plan b. the instant a woman gives you any crap like that and I mean that very instant you tell her "you know what nevermind I have other things I can do just call me back some other time when you're free and we'll work something out"

 

[Ohene]

this girl had a whole week to crawl back to me and it only took one night

Didnt even have a chance to hit up my 2nd string

 

[Turbulent]

the funny thing is while most men don't have the ability to walk away at a moment's notice a woman can emotionally detach and walk away from a man in an instant and not think twice. as emotional as women are many of them don't get emotionally invested in the men they deal with. they have a guy in their lives and he serves a purpose and when he refuses to serve that purpose they emotionally detach and drop him like he never meant anything to her because deep down he probably didn't.

a woman will have a man in her life and wants him to simp and if he doesn't simp anymore she drops him. a man will have a woman in his life and wanna hit it and if she doesn't put out he'll still hang around and deal with her.

the key to solve that one is in the bold. if you're trying to get her to put out, get her to simp like they get us to simp. that way you keep her mind and by extension her body.

a woman is with you because she thinks she can't do better. but she hides it with confidence. if she thinks you know she feels that way she'll get very insecure and her emotional state will change. she'll start simping you. to have a successful relationship all you have to do is get her to simp without you ODing on the powertrip you get. go too far and she'll either start acting a little too crazy and it becomes a nuisance OR she'll focus all her energy to find your vulnerabilities and attack them until she can get YOU to simp. and once that happens, she'll simp you less and try to find another man cause she "solved" you. all this is not even done consciously on their part.

to recap: the best way to deal with a woman is to make sure they're ALWAYS slightly simping you. no matter how much time you've been with her (a few months or 20 years). you can never stop. i like your concept but one nuance or spin i'd add to it is:

a man could get his woman to simp a little and be happy with her and keep her in his life. some men will abuse the power and some won't. but they could still love the girl.

a woman on the other hand actually tries to get her man to simp and once he does, she becomes unhappy and looks for another man because she doesn't feel good about it. she can't be happy in that type of relationship (that's one lesson i learned the hard way...)

 

[sixsixtwo]

I [22M] don't know if I should break up with my girlfriend [24F] or give her a second chance after something horrible I found on her phone. : relationships

 

[patscorpio]

Craigslist? That site is in my area. A young man got chopped up in a garage by trying to date from craigslist. shyt is dead now.

im just glad the few craigslist encounters i did no wild shyt like that ever happened

 

[MrFantastic]

How about this one..

I've been working overnights last few months..
2 weeks ago I get out of work Wednesday morning and I'm driving home..
I decide to get gas and pull into the gas station..
I walk up to the little booth and there's a sign in the window that says
"changing shifts" and I don't see anyone inside..

I hear a voice behind me "its probably gonna be like 15 minutes"
Turn around and I'm face to face with a really cute girl..
We make small talk for a few minutes and I get her number.

Fast fwd..to Friday night I'm in a bar w/ 2 of my boys and I see
The girl from the gas station..
I creep up behind her like "remember me?"
We get to talking and the next few hours fly by..really had a good time
I tell her I'm about to leave and she grabs me and kisses me..ok

Now on to last week we're texting back and forth..
She asks me "when can I see you again"
I say how about Saturday?
She says cool.

Saturday comes and she texts me "u still want to see me tonight?"
I say "that's the plan right?"
She says "ill let you know by 6"
Wow..totally turned off.

Next thing I know I wake up its 8:40
shyt..I grab my phone 6 missed calls 4 texts..
But...none of the calls or texts are from her.
Take a shower and go to my boys house
She texts me at 130 saying "i guess you don't wanna hang out "

Took a lot of willpower not to answer her..
Last night she sends me this text "im sorry. I like you
But it's hard for me to trust people."
Smh

This is why I stop making plans on the weekend with women until We are really close. Been there breh...

 

[sixsixtwo]

"My SO makes about double what I make and he has no student loans, while I have three. He asked me to sign a prenup that says if we divorce I won't be able to take any of his money.

I understand that he's looking out for his finances, but I was hurt when he asked me to sign a prenup. I feel like he values his money more than he values our relationship and that he doesn't trust me.

After thinking about it I have decided I will not sign a prenup. If he doesn't trust me not to fleece him for his money then he shouldn't be marrying me. However, I will agree to never get married on paper. We can call ourselves married, go through the ceremony, wear rings, etc. But we will not register with the state as married. Then, if we were to split, there would be no messy divorce. We could just walk away, him with his money and me with mine."

Read more: Guys, if you were marrying a girl and she didn't want to sign a prenup, would you agree to this compromise? : MensRights

 

[Wild self]

This is why I stop making plans on the weekend with women until We are really close. Been there breh...

You getting it. Make dates with new women on Tues-Thurs nights.

 

[sixsixtwo]

Think men are the unfaithful sex? A study shows WOMEN are the biggest cheats - they're just better at lying about it | Mail Online

 

[winb83]

"My SO makes about double what I make and he has no student loans, while I have three. He asked me to sign a prenup that says if we divorce I won't be able to take any of his money.

I understand that he's looking out for his finances, but I was hurt when he asked me to sign a prenup. I feel like he values his money more than he values our relationship and that he doesn't trust me.

After thinking about it I have decided I will not sign a prenup. If he doesn't trust me not to fleece him for his money then he shouldn't be marrying me. However, I will agree to never get married on paper. We can call ourselves married, go through the ceremony, wear rings, etc. But we will not register with the state as married. Then, if we were to split, there would be no messy divorce. We could just walk away, him with his money and me with mine."

Read more: Guys, if you were marrying a girl and she didn't want to sign a prenup, would you agree to this compromise? : MensRights

this is the kinds situation where you need the ability to just walk away from the woman.

this woman is saying she's hurt that he asked her to sign a prenup? she's hurt because she feels if they get a divorce she should be entitled to his shyt? she is so self absorbed she can't even see it from his perspective. being prepared for failure is not the same thing as planning to fail.

this is the kinda woman where you just woke up and the house is on fire you get the hell outta there right now. you don't go looking for any stuff or try to save anything else other than yourself.

people's emotions get involved in this sort of thing and they make emotional decisions. usually compromises in favor of their emotions. i am a firm believer that your emotions should not come into play into major decisions you make in life. your emotions do not care about what's in your best interest or your well being all they are is single minded and driven by the primal need to satisfy themselves and that satisfaction may but typically is not in your best interest. many times that satisfaction is both short term and short sighted and comes at your own expense.