dad and I and my oldest bro were just talking about women in the car ride home from work
My dad was talking to his friend whos in Ghana on the horn and overheard us discussing our latest stories...my dad got off the phone halfway home and was like "Hey, so what is it...what are you guys discussing
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We were telling him it was about women and he said "what about em?
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I started off saying "theyre lunatics and we took it from there. If only we started at the beginning of the car ride we couldnt even scratch the surface. He was cosigning and saying the same shyt that we've learned, said and know. Theyre unrealistic-ness...fairy tell imaginations, and unreasonablity among other things. Man i fukking love this guy when hes like this. He thought the scales were tilted in our men's favour but I had to correct him with social networks being my main source of reason. He laughed at the shyt i was telling him about what goes on on facebook and twitter and tumblr etc and began to understand. He was attesting how texting too and this social network stuff must have the game fukked up and saying how people have lost their sense of being personal. Face to face contacting...phone calling etc etc....is what should be done and he was saying these girls must not know how these guys intentions are and they will all end up single with their demands and ideas of the game should be.
I told him that with both my girls i did it the traditonal way and STILL it was an issue. He knows all about my situation with the first girl too. Told him about it last year during the winter like 2 months after we ended it. Knows the girl and her family from church. Said to my brother one day when I was at school that shes just like her mom [who is divorced...i could only imagine what he know about the mother
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The highlight was just him telling us he knows what were going through specificially me because hes been in my exact situation. @ the U of Southampton he met a Nigerian girl who was from a rich family just like mine and was talking about the reason he first went to Nigeria (where he met my mom and had my oldest brother born) was for the sake of this girl he met. I said he has to tell us the rest of that story one day cause we had just pulled into the driveway.
Legendary shyt. This made my day.