Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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I've had the best results with CL.. I've never gotten anywhere with Plenty of Fat, BP, Tagged or any of that..

With CL:

Don't respond to profiles, make a profile & let them come to you..

Put 1 decent picture up..

Have a witty, concise profile without the typical cliche's.. None of that "Hey, I'm looking for a queen" bullshyt..


Had all types of women responding, different ages/races -- no SPAM or bots or anything..

What kinda "typical cliche's"?? :steviej: and did you post in m4w? ..or casual encounters? :shaq:
 

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What kinda "typical cliche's"?? :steviej: and did you post in m4w? ..or casual encounters? :shaq:

M4W..

Typical cliche's: Try to avoid saying any shyt like: "soulmate", "the one", "Your dream man looking for his princess" Every other nikka is saying goofy shyt like that thinking that they stand out but it's so typical..
 

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Man...you only even consider saying that after you are married for a decade+, have a couple of kids together, looking :flabbynsick:

So true but the average nikka will do/say damn near anything just to get a whiff of some p*ssy..
 

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dad and I and my oldest bro were just talking about women in the car ride home from work :ohlawd:

My dad was talking to his friend whos in Ghana on the horn and overheard us discussing our latest stories...my dad got off the phone halfway home and was like "Hey, so what is it...what are you guys discussing :troll:"

We were telling him it was about women and he said "what about em? :mjpls:"

I started off saying "theyre lunatics and we took it from there. If only we started at the beginning of the car ride we couldnt even scratch the surface. He was cosigning and saying the same shyt that we've learned, said and know. Theyre unrealistic-ness...fairy tell imaginations, and unreasonablity among other things. Man i fukking love this guy when hes like this. He thought the scales were tilted in our men's favour but I had to correct him with social networks being my main source of reason. He laughed at the shyt i was telling him about what goes on on facebook and twitter and tumblr etc and began to understand. He was attesting how texting too and this social network stuff must have the game fukked up and saying how people have lost their sense of being personal. Face to face contacting...phone calling etc etc....is what should be done and he was saying these girls must not know how these guys intentions are and they will all end up single with their demands and ideas of the game should be. :lawd: I told him that with both my girls i did it the traditonal way and STILL it was an issue. He knows all about my situation with the first girl too. Told him about it last year during the winter like 2 months after we ended it. Knows the girl and her family from church. Said to my brother one day when I was at school that shes just like her mom [who is divorced...i could only imagine what he know about the mother :damn:)

The highlight was just him telling us he knows what were going through specificially me because hes been in my exact situation. @ the U of Southampton he met a Nigerian girl who was from a rich family just like mine and was talking about the reason he first went to Nigeria (where he met my mom and had my oldest brother born) was for the sake of this girl he met. I said he has to tell us the rest of that story one day cause we had just pulled into the driveway. :whew:

Legendary shyt. This made my day.
 

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dad and I and my oldest bro were just talking about women in the car :ohlawd:

i know exactly how your feeling me and brother do that with our dad all the time ... some of the greatest conversations i ever had ... my dad sometimes says shyt that makes me go :gladbron: or :wow: nothing like a that car trip wit pops yo doesn't matter if we only in the car for 10 minutes or half hour or even longer times flies tho i enjoy every second of it i be mad when we reach our destination quicker then expected except one car ride my dad told me a story about my mom that had me like :damn: i'll never forget that story :sadbron:
 

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this seems like a good place to drop these :mjpls:

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i know exactly how your feeling me and brother do that with our dad all the time ... some of the greatest conversations i ever had ... my dad sometimes says shyt that makes me go :gladbron: or :wow: nothing like a that car trip wit pops yo doesn't matter if we only in the car for 10 minutes or half hour or even longer times flies tho i enjoy every second of it i be mad when we reach our destination quicker then expected except one car ride my dad told me a story about my mom that had me like :damn: i'll never forget that story :sadbron:
Seriously man. I dont wanna offend anyone who didnt have a father growing up though. I mean well brehs.

My dad and I are one in the same...im a mold of him in the eyes of everyone so we but heads alot cause were stubborn and arrogant. He's a quiet and stern dude. But when he gets in this mode it makes me remember why no matter what I'll love this nikka :to: for the simple fact that he made me who I am as opposed to these waste youtes out here
 

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a woman can emotionally detach and walk away from a man in an instant and not think twice. as emotional as women are many of them don't get emotionally invested in the men they deal with.

You know what....that has been said alot in this thread.

BUT, I think that only applies when a woman is being sought by other men, or feels she is still hot enough to get another man.

A 35 year old woman or whatever age (dpending on how they feel at their age) who has let all the good men go by in her life and now cant find one, has some regrets. Many of them do. They have to. Women try too hard & fantasize about wanting to be married or be in successful relationships.

Whether they admit it or not, they're going back in their mind thinking "what if" about all the guys they passed up earlier who they now see with other women.

They might detach from a guy initially, but that memory is still there in the back of their mind and when they can't find anyone that fits the qualities they seek, they'll think about the ones they passed up who did.
 

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You know what....that has been said alot in this thread.

BUT, I think that only applies when a woman is being sought by other men, or feels she is still hot enough to get another man.

A 35 year old woman or whatever age (dpending on how they feel at their age) who has let all the good men go by in her life and now cant find one, has some regrets. Many of them do. They have to. Women try too hard & fantasize about wanting to be married or be in successful relationships.

Whether they admit it or not, they're going back in their mind thinking "what if" about all the guys they passed up earlier who they now see with other women.

They might detach from a guy initially, but that memory is still there in the back of their mind and when they can't find anyone that fits the qualities they seek, they'll think about the ones they passed up who did.

not exactly, women think differently than men, they will think about that good guy they cheated on only when they are getting cheated on, beat or being treated like crap. Notice whenever a ex contacts you if you dwell deeper she just got out of a relationship or her new man is treating her horribly.

heres like a analogy sort of like only when people are goin through a rough spot in life they start praying, going to church, start opening that dusty bible on the shelf, then when things are going good again out of thought out of mind.
 

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dad and I and my oldest bro were just talking about women in the car ride home from work :ohlawd:

My dad was talking to his friend whos in Ghana on the horn and overheard us discussing our latest stories...my dad got off the phone halfway home and was like "Hey, so what is it...what are you guys discussing :troll:"

We were telling him it was about women and he said "what about em? :mjpls:"

I started off saying "theyre lunatics and we took it from there. If only we started at the beginning of the car ride we couldnt even scratch the surface. He was cosigning and saying the same shyt that we've learned, said and know. Theyre unrealistic-ness...fairy tell imaginations, and unreasonablity among other things. Man i fukking love this guy when hes like this. He thought the scales were tilted in our men's favour but I had to correct him with social networks being my main source of reason. He laughed at the shyt i was telling him about what goes on on facebook and twitter and tumblr etc and began to understand. He was attesting how texting too and this social network stuff must have the game fukked up and saying how people have lost their sense of being personal. Face to face contacting...phone calling etc etc....is what should be done and he was saying these girls must not know how these guys intentions are and they will all end up single with their demands and ideas of the game should be. :lawd: I told him that with both my girls i did it the traditonal way and STILL it was an issue. He knows all about my situation with the first girl too. Told him about it last year during the winter like 2 months after we ended it. Knows the girl and her family from church. Said to my brother one day when I was at school that shes just like her mom [who is divorced...i could only imagine what he know about the mother :damn:)

The highlight was just him telling us he knows what were going through specificially me because hes been in my exact situation. @ the U of Southampton he met a Nigerian girl who was from a rich family just like mine and was talking about the reason he first went to Nigeria (where he met my mom and had my oldest brother born) was for the sake of this girl he met. I said he has to tell us the rest of that story one day cause we had just pulled into the driveway. :whew:

Legendary shyt. This made my day.

fathers wisdom:salute:
 

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not exactly, women think differently than men, they will think about that good guy they cheated on only when they are getting cheated on, beat or being treated like crap. Notice whenever a ex contacts you if you dwell deeper she just got out of a relationship or her new man is treating her horribly.

heres like a analogy sort of like only when people are goin through a rough spot in life they start praying, going to church, start opening that dusty bible on the shelf, then when things are going good again out of thought out of mind.

Right. But I'm saying, once they are out of options or have fallen on hard times and cant find someone.

Which is essentially same thing ur saying but just with different parameters.
 

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Right. But I'm saying, once they are out of options or have fallen on hard times and cant find someone.

Which is essentially same thing ur saying but just with different parameters.

tis true

for example 2 girls i dated a while back both kicked reincar to the curb:sadbron:, first one cheated on me with her abusive ex ran back to him few months later got a long ass fb msg how i've been on her mind, she thinks she made a mistake and if i feel like talking to contact her:childplease:, tossed that in the bushes, only to find out from her friend her bf beat her yet again, reap what you sow:russ:

chick 2 - dumped me :ehh:, like 6 months later tries adding me back to fb, wants to see me and tell me something, and that something is the guy she dated right after me was cheating on her through their whole relationship:ehh:

that sucks:ld:


and tat brings me back to what ive said prior a women can date 15 guys in her life and all treated her like doo doo stains, cheated on her used her, and that 16th guy she dated treated her good then suddenly she thinks she can get good quality guys and will toss him in teh bushes only to realize that 0.0625% isn't that great:youngsabo:

while a man on the other hand will date 15 sluts, strumpets, be cheated on and be nagged 15 times in a row and gets a decent quality low maintenance girl with his same interests and will not f it up
 
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