Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[philmonroe]

That was from that women like more article 662 posted. This is why I can't really muster the energy to really get after these women. I don't really have the desire to have to constantly watch my back and be concerned about what she may doing and whether her sweet and demure personality is a front or is she a different person when I'm not around.



This evolutionary programming trash they are pushing is pretty much, "I don't want to act like an adult and be responsible for my actions so I will blame it on my biological programming." It's the modern way of saying the devil made them do it. lol@women are programmed to retain a quality mate while men are programmed to sleep with as many women as possible. what kind of nonsense is that?

So true I don't believe that whole its evolution stuff. It might be based in that a little but as grown adults both men/women can control themselves not to do things like cheating. The avg person isn't going around swinging and killing everybody that gets on your nerves and if we were straight up animals that would be commonplace but its not. We can think but when it comes to sex/things you want people make all kinds of justifications for doing it.

 

[Reality]

quick rules of thumb that are remarkably useful:

1. never treat a woman seriously if she's a big fan of marilyn monroe

2. never treat a woman seriously if she's a big fan of sylvia plath

 

[jadillac]

Ya'll is my dudes foreal, but we gotta talk about how dangerous and close minded women can be. Dudes in my hood get killed for that p*ssy breh, no p*ssy is worth your life.
Lets start a discussion on that, .

Skip to :25 secs. Pac talks the real. He cusses alot, but he's right, there's a difference between b*tches and women.

Pac: "We men need to stop giving (women) all the attention, that's why nikkas is dyin...when these hoes get horny, nikkas die. Hoes get horny, nikkas die!"

 

[kevm3]

So true I don't believe that whole its evolution stuff. It might be based in that a little but as grown adults both men/women can control themselves not to do things like cheating. The avg person isn't going around swinging and killing everybody that gets on your nerves and if we were straight up animals that would be commonplace but its not. We can think but when it comes to sex/things you want people make all kinds of justifications for doing it.

That's exactly it. Animals hurl feces, eat feces and engage in a host of other abominable acts, but you'd never those sorts of behaviors justified as acceptable because 'it occurs in the animal kingdom.' People simply do not want to own up to just a lack of desire to control their sexual urges and instead blame it on some biological programming or some such nonsense. People cheat and all of the such of their own volition... of their own free will... just as they choose to remain loyal.

 

[jadillac]

I just find much more relaxation dealing with activities I enjoy like working out or playing a game or just walking than worrying about what the women are doing. In this country, you have to do too much to procure the attention of a woman and way too much to keep it. My attitude these days is if the woman for me comes, she comes. In the meanwhile I'm going to be enjoying each day and appreciating it.

I literally laughed out loud when I read that part. It sounds absurd......but I TOTALLY AGREE! And it shows how simple things SHOULD be in relationships. You would really rather just go walking around somewhere than to deal with these trifiling women.

A peaceful walk by yourself with nothing on ur mind but whats at hand >>>>> worrying about whether or not ur woman is where she says she is, or how you can impress her next to keep her occupied.

 

[SumBlackguyz]

If you're marriage isnt like this, then you lost

 

[jadillac]

So true I don't believe that whole its evolution stuff. It might be based in that a little but as grown adults both men/women can control themselves not to do things like cheating. The avg person isn't going around swinging and killing everybody that gets on your nerves and if we were straight up animals that would be commonplace but its not. We can think but when it comes to sex/things you want people make all kinds of justifications for doing it.

People can be stupid.

When you believe in something, you more than likely begin to base your actions around it.

So you read about how "men are programmed to be unfaithful....blah, blah blah"
You then begin to believe in that so you act as such.

It like teh last girl I was with, she was really REALLY into her "sign". Every day she posts something about her being a Gemini and about what was happening with her sign that day.
If you believe what that stuff tells yo about yourself, you'll eventually begin to mold yourself towards those behaviors/characteristics that it says you should be. If your sign tells you "you're feeling sexy today moreso especially than others b/c of blah blah blah", then if you really into that stuff you're gonna believe it and act on it.

This is the same with movies/TV shows and that's why I've said before in here that women like to believe they are like these characters they see in "Sex & The City", etc.

Peopel like to take away personal accountability and responsibility from themselves.

 

[Malta]

That's exactly it. Animals hurl feces, eat feces and engage in a host of other abominable acts, but you'd never those sorts of behaviors justified as acceptable because 'it occurs in the animal kingdom.' People simply do not want to own up to just a lack of desire to control their sexual urges and instead blame it on some biological programming or some such nonsense. People cheat and all of the such of their own volition... of their own free will... just as they choose to remain loyal.

Word, when I tell people I have never cheated they treat me like I'm some sort of wise sage or a wizard. I think most people use whatever excuse they can come up with "Oh I was drunk!", but at the core it's just because people feel they deserve more, they feel they are owed the best things in life even when they have something good already. Me personally, I have been given life, my family and the world, that's enough for me so that craving and urge for more ain't here

 

[Liquid]

Terrible, but not too far from the truth.

 

[kevm3]

I literally laughed out loud when I read that part. It sounds absurd......but I TOTALLY AGREE! And it shows how simple things SHOULD be in relationships. You would really rather just go walking around somewhere than to deal with these trifiling women.

A peaceful walk by yourself with nothing on ur mind but whats at hand >>>>> worrying about whether or not ur woman is where she says she is, or how you can impress her next to keep her occupied.

Exactly. Relationships really shouldn't be complicated at all. The fact that we have nearly 300 pages of material on how to 'deal' with women attests to the problem at hand. As men, we've been trying to compensate and out-strategize the utter insanity that has taken hold of male-female relationships. It really should just come down to two people who are utterly respectful of each other coming together to build something and rewarding each other's loyalty with loyalty in return.

In reality though, it's as if we're attempting to capture and domesticate some sort of wild animal. Hard to catch, and you may get a little bit of decent behavior when caught, but one slip up and you're hyena food. I really don't want to have to do all kinds of smooth routines and be this super mysterious warrior/ceo in order to get some decent behavior out of a woman... and the problem is that once you 'got her', it feels like you're always having to watch your back, lest you say the wrong thing and 'she loses her respect for you' and peels off in the dust. I don't want to have to 'check her' when she brings up these wack tests, nor do I want to have to instruct and discipline her in order for her to bring basic respectful behavior to a relationship like not having 1 million 'brothers', 'cousins', and friends. These women be having more brothers than the million man march.

Man I just don't to deal with it all, so I just focus on finding contentment in other areas of life.

 

[kevm3]

 

[MikelArteta]

Why I always say the least you say the better, I never say anything or text flood

 

[MikelArteta]

This was just posted on my FB, made me nauseous..

This is a 23 year old single mom with 2 kids from 2 different dudes..

Simps are pathetic

 

[biggiefan4lyfe]

bytches aint **** but hoes & tricks

 

[JillScottsHunny]

Lol @ "Tater Face".