Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[sixsixtwo]

 

[MikelArteta]

And "Where are the REAL men?" they'll demand, while wearing their Wonderbras, mascara and lipstick. "Why aren't there any REAL men left?" they'll whine, with their hair-extensions and acrylic nails. Utterly moronic.

North American chicks are living examples of bait-and-switch fraud-- They try to convince you that you're getting a premium product but three days after you bring her home, a screw suddenly pops-loose and she starts to give-off a high-pitched snarl. And the only way to make this nonstop grating go-away is through constant maintenance. It's high-priced p*ssy, yet it's still not quite worth it.

 

[sixsixtwo]

"I have been married five years. The first few years were very rocky. Arguments were constant and was mentally abused. Because of this, my self-esteem was lower than dirt.

I decided one day to join one of the adult chat sites. I met this wonderful man who made me feel beautiful and wanted, everything I wasn't getting at home. I talked to him about my husband and the troubles we were having. I then took it further by swapping nude pictures and videos with him. He kept wanting to meet. It was a constant question from him. He would tell me that I was the best thing he had ever known and began telling me that he would love me and take better care of me than my husband. During this time my relationship with my husband began to get better. I would spend more time with my husband and less time with "the other man" until I just walked away from that life knowing I couldn't do this to my husband anymore. I never told "the other man" I wanted to stop, I just cut it off completely with no reason. For a month straight, I would get an email everyday from "him" and ignore it. Until it was every few months then none.

Now, a year later my husband and I have an incredible marriage on amazing ground. He has no idea of the things I had done in the past. As of a week ago, out of the blue, I received a email from "him" telling me that he can't stop thinking of me and how he loves me. The emails became several a day until I couldn't just ignore it anymore, knowing having contact was bad. I told him that I'm extremely happy now. I apologized that I just fell off the earth but he needed to find someone else because I was completely done.

After that email, he has threatened to post my pictures on every website he can imagine, even through email to my husband's work. He knows of the company of which my husband works and my husband's name because of a lapse in judgment.

I have never taken nude photos of myself and won't even let my husband do so because I was never that person. Now there's not only photos but videos out there of my nude body AND my face as well. I am terrified that this now incredible marriage will end because my husband will see his wife in a light in which he never thought he'd see. I was stupid, I was wrong and regret every minute of it."

I'm (30F) fearful of nude photos being leaked to my husband (35). : relationships

 

[Nintendough]

"I have been married five years. The first few years were very rocky. Arguments were constant and was mentally abused. Because of this, my self-esteem was lower than dirt.

I decided one day to join one of the adult chat sites. I met this wonderful man who made me feel beautiful and wanted, everything I wasn't getting at home. I talked to him about my husband and the troubles we were having. I then took it further by swapping nude pictures and videos with him. He kept wanting to meet. It was a constant question from him. He would tell me that I was the best thing he had ever known and began telling me that he would love me and take better care of me than my husband. During this time my relationship with my husband began to get better. I would spend more time with my husband and less time with "the other man" until I just walked away from that life knowing I couldn't do this to my husband anymore. I never told "the other man" I wanted to stop, I just cut it off completely with no reason. For a month straight, I would get an email everyday from "him" and ignore it. Until it was every few months then none.

Now, a year later my husband and I have an incredible marriage on amazing ground. He has no idea of the things I had done in the past. As of a week ago, out of the blue, I received a email from "him" telling me that he can't stop thinking of me and how he loves me. The emails became several a day until I couldn't just ignore it anymore, knowing having contact was bad. I told him that I'm extremely happy now. I apologized that I just fell off the earth but he needed to find someone else because I was completely done.

After that email, he has threatened to post my pictures on every website he can imagine, even through email to my husband's work. He knows of the company of which my husband works and my husband's name because of a lapse in judgment.

I have never taken nude photos of myself and won't even let my husband do so because I was never that person. Now there's not only photos but videos out there of my nude body AND my face as well. I am terrified that this now incredible marriage will end because my husband will see his wife in a light in which he never thought he'd see. I was stupid, I was wrong and regret every minute of it."

I'm (30F) fearful of nude photos being leaked to my husband (35). : relationships

Thats why cats can't deal with low-self esteem women. They will jump in the bushes just to prove something to themselves with the quickness.

 

[sixsixtwo]

"My current girlfriend and I met at the beginning of last school year in the Freshmen dorms of my university. We went on a date and began "hooking up". After a week of these frequent hang outs and hookups she texted me saying she wasn't ready for a boyfriend (citing that it was freshman year, just wanted to have fun, etc.) and that she thought we could be great friends.

Naturally, as a boy with pride, I thought "fukk that" and immediately changed my attitude towards her. I would ignore her when I saw her around campus, I would avoid her when in the dining halls together, and I would stink-eye her whenever I could. Every so often I would let her know I was still interested and wondered if she had a change of heart. Each time she denied me. The truth is I had feelings for her the whole time, I would hear about her hooking up with other guys and be very upset about it. Of course this did not stop me from hooking up with other girls but still, whenever I saw her with a guy I would be enraged. So about six months go by and shes having sex with an acquaintance of mine (the third guy shes slept with of the school year) who is a known a$$hole to girls. He ends things with her, she is upset because she looks like an idiot, she seeks out my friendship, and she then "realizes" she should have given me a chance all along. I am elated because I finally won over the girl I have been crushing on and we start dating.

After a few months of being with her and the "honeymoon" period ending. I start having thoughts about how she denied me at the beginning, and now I kinda feel like the nice guy she rebounded to after striking out with these other few guys. She claims she needed to find out what she really wanted (after all she was 18-19 at the time) at the time. And now she says shes in love with me and can't stand the thought of not dating me."

 

[sixsixtwo]

the professor

 

[Scustin Trillberlake]

"My current girlfriend and I met at the beginning of last school year in the Freshmen dorms of my university. We went on a date and began "hooking up". After a week of these frequent hang outs and hookups she texted me saying she wasn't ready for a boyfriend (citing that it was freshman year, just wanted to have fun, etc.) and that she thought we could be great friends.

Naturally, as a boy with pride, I thought "fukk that" and immediately changed my attitude towards her. I would ignore her when I saw her around campus, I would avoid her when in the dining halls together, and I would stink-eye her whenever I could. Every so often I would let her know I was still interested and wondered if she had a change of heart. Each time she denied me. The truth is I had feelings for her the whole time, I would hear about her hooking up with other guys and be very upset about it. Of course this did not stop me from hooking up with other girls but still, whenever I saw her with a guy I would be enraged. So about six months go by and shes having sex with an acquaintance of mine (the third guy shes slept with of the school year) who is a known a$$hole to girls. He ends things with her, she is upset because she looks like an idiot, she seeks out my friendship, and she then "realizes" she should have given me a chance all along. I am elated because I finally won over the girl I have been crushing on and we start dating.

After a few months of being with her and the "honeymoon" period ending. I start having thoughts about how she denied me at the beginning, and now I kinda feel like the nice guy she rebounded to after striking out with these other few guys. She claims she needed to find out what she really wanted (after all she was 18-19 at the time) at the time. And now she says shes in love with me and can't stand the thought of not dating me."

Should have thrown her in the bushes when she came running back.

 

[Illuminatos]

Men think p*ssy is free way too damn much. When I was younger I would accept men who didn't want to spend money on me and that got me no where. I changed my mindset quickly. I don't care what these bishes come in here in say, your boyfriend sounds like a selfish a$$hole. Get rid of his ass.

 

[jalamanta]

Mr Vegas Breaks Down Crying After Finding Out His Wife Cheated - YouTube

this shyt is fukking pathetic.

i mean i understand and all that but to see two grown man like that crying over some trifling hoes is not a good look, on some animal shyt i don't have respect for these guys, they act like bytches.

both of them said they were no angels themselves so why they are sobbing like they 15 years old?

and the second nikka said he took his bytch back after he saw a picture with her ass and some other dikk inside her

i promise myself i will never act like that over a female in my life

 

[Turbulent]

Stop focusing so much on what your actions and tactics. While these things are important, focusing on evolving your mindset and philosophy is more effective. you could play chess in your mind on every single move and word you tell your girl but having the right mindstate and principles will automatically calibrate those same words. your tone won't be to heavy or too light your actions will be just. the chips will fall exactly where they should. it all trickles down from your mindstate amd your code. Mind chess and overall tactics combined with a solid code/philosophy is a very powerful combo but focusing too much on mind chess will exhaust you mentally and make you feel miserable.

 

[Wild self]

Some reflections
I do agree with a lot of conclusions from those groups such as MGTOW and have found valuable information. Unfortunately, I cannot consider myself among their ranks, especially with their philosophy of avoiding women completely. I also do not feel comfortable being a participant in something called a 'manosphere'. I'm not fond of much of the behavior of modern women, but I won't allow that to push me out of the race and to join ranks with those who completely trash and avoid women and constantly engage in man praise sessions.

There is much detestable behavior among modern women, but then that can be said about men too. I've come to the realization that both parties have been brainwashed. As you see the masculinization of women, you can clearly see the feminization of men with many of the clothes men are starting to wear.

Contrary to popular opinion, I am not angry at all or bitter at having been cheated on. In fact, I am very thankful for the experience. Firstly, thankful to God that my eyes were opened before my life was vastly affected, and secondly, to the women for making me reevaluate myself. I've come to the very important realization that many of my problems with women came from the 'feminized' approach that I've taken with women in times past, and yes, a lot of it came from societal conditioning. For some strange reason, very few in our generation of men were taught how to deal with women or much else in reality. We were pretty much taught to go to school, get the grades, and everything else will take care of itself. Past that, many were shunted off to sports practices or sat down in front of a television and told to behave. Missing were those lessons of manhood and even those rites of manhood that those tribal societies foisted upon the youth before calling them men. Very little masculine knowledge was verbally passed on, and thus, the boys of our generation were taught a false masculinity by the government and media.

This lack of knowledge is extremely evident in the constant frustrations men are having today with women. Many young men have been sat in front of the televsion as alluded to earlier. Instead of dad teaching these young men how to interact with women, a young man is privy to a host of 'programming' via the boob tube. These shows are called programming for a reason. Just as much as these shows are there to entertain, they are also there to instruct, whether overtly or covertly. Young men have been taught by these shows and by their parents that being a sort of gentleman who defers to women in all aspects is the way to go. Instead of a 'leading man' being produced, as God intended, we instead get a deferring, pandering, submissive and emasculated man.

Young men seeing this pandering behavior on television, begin to test it out in real life.
Unlike the outcomes in the movies and television shows in which the pandering man is rewarded, he tries it out in real life and is left scratching his head over and over upon finding out that this sort of behavior is never rewarded. In old societies, men were the hunters and women were the gatherers. Men were the lead and women were the support. However, in modern society, this was switched. Men were taught via media to be a 'sensitive man', and soon we get a host of nice guys who act as they do because that is all they've seen... and most of it came from television. God created man to desire woman and woman to desire man. A nice guy, however, is essentially a woman in a man's skin. His essence is playing the role of supporter and follower. Instead of boldly leading, he constantly defers to the woman in his decision-making, and even will change his core essence in order to please the woman. Instead of boldly dealing with a woman, his approach is more akin to a gentle and measured caress. Instead of directing and teaching a woman, he instead listens to her problems and verbally supports her. There is not an ounce of strength in his approach. His femininity is evident in his verbal expressions. "I was there for her. I listened to her. I supported her. how could she leave me?" "What do you want to do baby? It's whatever you want. It's whatever you like." He has, in essence, taken on the role of a woman when dealing with women, and as such, women will treat him as a woman, aka put in a friend category. These so-called bad boys are much more bold and do not succumb to a woman's attempt to change him, and thus he is rewarded for exuding his masculinity.

Women have been equally brainwashed, as you often see on these shows women wondering why they don't have a man, and upon asking for their qualifying credentials, they outline MASCULINE qualities. They will talk about their job, their education, etc. The goal of jobs is to provide. Hunting and providing is the man's job. Is it no surprise that a man has little interest in tying down a 'career woman', whose essential nature is an emulation of masculine characteristics? You see this masculinity further emulated by the drinking, cursing, tattoos, and utter lack of natural affection and support from the women of today. These modern women exhibit an unnatural boldness in an attempt to emulate men until they actually face repercussions from a man and quickly learn that it is not their given nature to act like a man. Is it no surprise that men are not wifing these women who exude masculine energy?

In essence, the core problem comes from the flipping of gender spirituality. The man has been given the female spirit and the female has been given the masculine spirit in today's society, and this is the derivation of the chaos, discord and confusion we have between genders today.

Part 2 coming later.

This can make a lot of men and feminists commit suicide. Powerful info is being posted here; as great as any book.

 

[CaughtInTWebb]

Man this thread is gold......any advice yall can give to a married man? I ask this to everyone, just like to hear what people say.....

 

[sixsixtwo]

Man this thread is gold......any advice yall can give to a married man? I ask this to everyone, just like to hear what people say.....

Married Man Sex Life | How to have the marriage you thought you were going to have. By which I mean doing it like rabbits.

 

[The War Report]

damn mr vegas

I'm surprised he didn't do something as stupid as kill her.

 

[Sharp]

Dear Sharp:

I've been with my wife for 6 years. We have two children together plus two from marriage. For the last year or so we have had sex about 10 times. I expressed my concerns and she makes up some poor excuse that contradicts the last one. I am an Athletic Trainer, and I work around a lot of attractive women who are interested in me.I'm to the point of cheating or using sex as a weapon. Either one is an act of being unfaithful. What is your advice?