Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[MikelArteta]

Question for the brethen

How do you feel about your girl wearing jewlery or rocking presents that past bf got her? For example you may say hey thats a nice watch where u get it? She oh ex bf bought it... Now its a nice watch and she wears it from time to time..

Do you let it ride? Or you address it?

ah first two quick points

thats fine by me, but alot of chicks will say mention it over and over again, and now she may be expecting you to spend that type of fmoney on her, or to try and compare you to ex. my ex bf got me this watch, what are you going to get me

it makes me wonder why she would even mention it in the first place, my ex fiance bought me a psp, a ipod, a gold ring, drew my mom a picture that my om framed for 200 bucks and is hanging in the kitchen but i don't or have not mentioned it to any girls i dated after or was in a relationship is.

now unto your situation
i see in your case your like hey a nice watch etc where did you get it, you have to be carefully analyze her response imo, maybe she is wearing it as a memento to always remember him by, to me questions like that are better nnot asked

 

[MikelArteta]

It's not mind control, it's restoring the natural balance of men and female relationships.

We are not equals, and that thinking is the problem. Both men and women have roles to play in relationships, and when these roles are altered is when problems occur.

A woman being submissive is all throughout the bible, so if you're against that, then you're against the will of God. That is how it was intended to be. Man loves and protects his woman, and woman respects and submits to her man.

amen, even if you are not religious, the bible offers straight gems on dealing with women and marriage in general, if more people adhere to the principles that God set forth in the bible,



Proverbs 30:20

This is the way of an adulteress: she eats and wipes her mouth and says, “I have done no wrong.”

how many women cheat, commit infidelity, and yet still act like they do no wrong?

Proverbs 21:19

It is better to live in a desert land than with a quarrelsome and fretful woman.

how many men in horrible relationships know exactly what the good word is talking about



Proverbs 11:22

Like a gold ring in a pig's snout is a beautiful woman without discretion.

A gold ring is beautiful. A gold ring is valuable. A gold ring is precious. A gold ring can have influence, adornment, charm, and can represent authority, marriage, and wealth.


To take something with such precious value and put it into the snout of a pig, is to defile that beautiful thing. It degrades the ring. It would be to treat a precious thing of high value as if it were worthless.


That is what a beautiful woman with no discretion is like. She is takes her dignity and value and beauty (especially that inner beauty), and she throws it away. She degrades her own body. She disowns her own moral character. She dishonors her own personal worth. She sells her precious treasure for a rotten bucket of slop.

Ezekiel 16:15
But you trusted in your beauty and played the whore because of your renown and lavished your whorings on any passerby; your beauty became his.

stop sleeping around women, thinking every guy wants you because your beautiful


2 Corinthians 6:14

Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers. For what partnership has righteousness with lawlessness? Or what fellowship has light with darkness?

stop trying to save and date ho's

 

[TheFemalePerspective]

It's not mind control, it's restoring the natural balance of men and female relationships.

We are not equals, and that thinking is the problem. Both men and women have roles to play in relationships, and when these roles are altered is when problems occur.

A woman being submissive is all throughout the bible, so if you're against that, then you're against the will of God. That is how it was intended to be. Man loves and protects his woman, and woman respects and submits to her man.

Firstly, men and women ARE Equal! Just because they play different roles doesn't make one inferior to the other, it just means God has blessed men and women in different departments. Secondly, I have no problem with a man being the head of the household, I have problems with the ''rules'' and ''manpulation'' techniques you encourage throughout this thread. Oh, and since we're on the topic of ''roles'', if you believe in what the bible says why are you so against a man being the SOLE provider? I've seen you mention numerous times that a woman should be an equal contributer to the finance department in a relationship. Hmmm so you're FOR traditional roles, but only when they suit you? But when it comes to money.. you switch up the game, eh? To me it seems that the only person you want to be #winning is YOU.

From what I've read so far (I'll admit, I haven't read it all) you teach men.. to love thyself & to always put themselves first. Your game is SELFISH. That's not love at all. Constantly playing a game with another human being to come out on top is childish! You should be teaching these youngins' that when they ''smell'' game, they should look/walk away! You shouldn't be teaching them how to be the best in the game, because at the end of the day.. it's still a game.. and at the end of a game it's always GAME OVER. The game never goes on forever, but real love is eternal! I don't care if that sounded corney, it's the truth! lol.

Guys trust and believe there are females out there who don't play games. It's your job to find the ones that don't. Or you can take this route and play a game your whole life. But isn't that tiring? Isn't it sad.. knowing you can never keep it one hundred with a female because you're afraid she might see you as weak? WTF. This is just crazy! Focus on finding somebody you want.. and you don't have to put on a mask for her to fall in love with you.

 

[Captain Crunch]

amen, even if you are not religious, the bible offers straight gems on dealing with women and marriage in general, if more people adhere to the principles that God set forth in the bible,

stop trying to save and date ho's

It really does say something like that in the Bible?

 

[MikelArteta]

It really does say something like that in the Bible?

not in those exact words lol

but it does says dont be in light and messing with darkness, don't cast your pearls before swines (Don't waste your advice, intelligence, good words (basically, anything you could provide of value) on those who are too naive or ignorant to appreciate it.)

 

[Sharp]

Firstly, men and women ARE Equal! Just because they play different roles doesn't make one inferior to the other, it just means God has blessed men and women in different departments. Secondly, I have no problem with a man being the head of the household, I have problems with the ''rules'' and ''manpulation'' techniques you encourage throughout this thread. Oh, and since we're on the topic of ''roles'', if you believe in what the bible says why are you so against a man being the SOLE provider? I've seen you mention numerous times that a woman should be an equal contributer to the finance department in a relationship. Hmmm so you're FOR traditional roles, but only when they suit you? But when it comes to money.. you switch up the game, eh? To me it seems that the only person you want to be #winning is YOU.

From what I've read so far (I'll admit, I haven't read it all) you teach men.. to love thyself & to always put themselves first. Your game is SELFISH. That's not love at all. Constantly playing a game with another human being to come out on top is childish! You should be teaching these youngins' that when they ''smell'' game, they should look/walk away! You shouldn't be teaching them how to be the best in the game, because at the end of the day.. it's still a game.. and at the end of a game it's always GAME OVER. The game never goes on forever, but real love is eternal! I don't care if that sounded corney, it's the truth! lol.

Guys trust and believe there are females out there who don't play games. It's your job to find the ones that don't. Or you can take this route and play a game your whole life. But isn't that tiring? Isn't it sad.. knowing you can never keep it one hundred with a female because you're afraid she might see you as weak? WTF. This is just crazy! Focus on finding somebody you want.. and you don't have to put on a mask for her to fall in love with you.

You got me confused with another poster sweetie.

You do realize I've been married right? So how exactly am I afraid to commit or playing a game? It's not selfish to protect yourself, it's human nature.

Females might fall in love more times than men, but we as men fall in love harder, and when we do, we are susceptible to all types of bullshyt, heartbreak and disappointment.

Nobody is against falling in love. We are against simping. I'm trying to make sure that when my brothers do find a woman that they want to be with, that she truly deserves it. And to always make sure that emotion never overrides logic.

If you're a good woman that knows how to love and respect a man, then a real man will recognize your worth. It's really that simple. But as a woman, you know that woman are manipulative, so I'm here to keep my brothers armed with that knowledge.

Don't be mad at me, be mad at the game.

 

[kevm3]

So expecting women to actually bring something to the table and actually act like a woman is mind control? Women love screaming 'man up' or men need to do this and that, but they ain't doing anything to live up to being a woman.

Speaking of mind control, you want to know what mind control is? The numerous females that come around trying to use the name-calling routine when men aren't acting how they want. You know who are masters of mind control? That's right, women... from denying men sex in order to get something they want to the constant ridiculing routine to the redefining of roles. Women want to play and act like men in one breath, but when they have to face man repercussions, they want to hide behind the traditional woman role.

It's about men and women being equal, but women don't want to pay their half of dates. They don't want to have to defend themselves or jump in on a fight. They want a man to make them feel safe and take control unless it's something she disagrees with, and then all of a sudden he is too controlling. They don't want to marry men who make less money than them. They don't want to sign a prenuptial if the man is making significantly more than them, but if the roles were reversed, they wouldn't even consider marrying the man.

You know why we say put women in competition mode? The amount of flaking a woman does in this day and age is unbelievable and we're only returning the favor. How many women who got a man still keep their 'male homies', brothers' and other men around? Oh yeah, what happens when a man tells his woman to get rid of the 'male homies', aka negroes who are just hanging around looking for their chance to hit? "You're insecure!" I guess that ain't mind control.

A lot of these women act like they want this 50/50 super sweet guy who gives them everything they want and agrees with them, but they NEVER respond to it. It's evident in the fact that there are quite a few men who stay agreeing with women and cosigning them left and right on this very board, but the women are never paying them any mind. They keep finding their way in this thread... pretty much confirming the EXACT thing we've been talking about. Women love being around a man they can't control.

 

[Captain Crunch]

So expecting women to actually bring something to the table and actually act like a woman is mind control? Women love screaming 'man up' or men need to do this and that, but they ain't doing anything to live up to being a woman.

Speaking of mind control, you want to know what mind control is? The numerous females that come around trying to use the name-calling routine when men aren't acting how they want. You know who are masters of mind control? That's right, women... from denying men sex in order to get something they want to the constant ridiculing routine to the redefining of roles. Women want to play and act like men in one breath, but when they have to face man repercussions, they want to hide behind the traditional woman role.

It's about men and women being equal, but women don't want to pay their half of dates. They don't want to have to defend themselves or jump in on a fight. They want a man to make them feel safe and take control unless it's something she disagrees with, and then all of a sudden he is too controlling. They don't want to marry men who make less money than them. They don't want to sign a prenuptial if the man is making significantly more than them, but if the roles were reversed, they wouldn't even consider marrying the man.

You know why we say put women in competition mode? The amount of flaking a woman does in this day and age is unbelievable and we're only returning the favor. How many women who got a man still keep their 'male homies', brothers' and other men around? Oh yeah, what happens when a man tells his woman to get rid of the 'male homies', aka negroes who are just hanging around looking for their chance to hit? "You're insecure!" I guess that ain't mind control.

A lot of these women act like they want this 50/50 super sweet guy who gives them everything they want and agrees with them, but they NEVER respond to it. It's evident in the fact that there are quite a few men who stay agreeing with women and cosigning them left and right on this very board, but the women are never paying them any mind. They keep finding their way in this thread... pretty much confirming the EXACT thing we've been talking about. Women love being around a man they can't control.

This is true.
But let's be honest, TFP is clearly trolling, and it's ridiculous to take her posts in this thread seriously.

 

[winb83]

The problem you nikkas have is that you're not comfortable with yourselves, period. That's why you on here typing essays on any and every possible situation you might ever face in dealing with a woman and what to do when it happens. shyt's pathetic. Go live life b. I see 2 types in here. 1, The Cat that wanna be on this my pimp hand is way strong I'm fukking a new woman every week shyt, even though he has no actual traits that would even begin to help him support that lifestyle. And 2, the cat who just wants to get a chick to be with period on some real shyt but keep going after the wrong ones so he comes on the coli and rants about women with fake warnings bout what they do, when really the problem is easily solves by checking himself and his values first.

Any Black man that can't get a Black woman that is down for him is either a cornball/loser or a nikka that's too immature and stuck on some man v woman shyt to give his end of the bargain in the midst of all his demands for his girl.

thanks for your valuable analysis it was much needed and appreciated now we can close this thread stop trading knowledge and experience and instead try to live our lives by mimicking you.

 

[winb83]

Question for the brethen

How do you feel about your girl wearing jewlery or rocking presents that past bf got her? For example you may say hey thats a nice watch where u get it? She oh ex bf bought it... Now its a nice watch and she wears it from time to time..

Do you let it ride? Or you address it?

shyt strikes me as a red flag. In my experience almost nothing a woman does is as simple as the surface level meaning. Wearing something from an ex could mean she's not completely over him. It's probably something you should mention to her like if you're with me now why you wearing something some other dude gave you?

 

[Rocket Scientist]

The wearing something from your ex thing is a tricky situation. Lets your ex gf bought you clothes.Just because you broke up with her,doesnt mean you stop wearing the clothing.Clothing you have to let slide,but if she is wearing jewelry then she might be over him.You can only wear clothes throughout a season (winter,spring etc) but jewelry is OPTIONAL. She may pass it off as "oh an ex bought this for me" but watch how many times she wears those earrings,bracelet or watch.

 

[Fellatio]

Feminist websites try make women feel insecure from all angles so that they rely on their products and courses and make them money. I hope these mistreated unspoilt western women finally escape those evil oppressive men who went to war and STILL put their bodies on the line for the people they respect to this day. A real Bulldyke will be able to find some sexism in what i just said. Female to Male false rape accusations, another form of misogony... of course

 

[T-K-G]

The wearing something from your ex thing is a tricky situation. Lets your ex gf bought you clothes.Just because you broke up with her,doesnt mean you stop wearing the clothing.Clothing you have to let slide,but if she is wearing jewelry then she might be over him.You can only wear clothes throughout a season (winter,spring etc) but jewelry is OPTIONAL. She may pass it off as "oh an ex bought this for me" but watch how many times she wears those earrings,bracelet or watch.

iono there are some instances where the person genuinely just likes the jewelry so they wear it alot. I got a dope ass watch from a girl like 2 years ago that i still wear and if a girl asks i let em know and i know some girls who are like that too, they just like the shyt.

 

[Schmoove]

Let's be real... Any carry-over items from an ex = carry-over SPIRITS from an ex.

If y'all don't believe in spiritual ties (whether good or evil), you better get your mind right.

 

[T-K-G]

Let's be real... Any carry-over items from an ex = carry-over SPIRITS from an ex.

If y'all don't believe in spiritual ties (whether good or evil), you better get your mind right.