Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[↓R↑LYB]

Im a little drunk right now, so I feel I must confess my sins. I've been babying my girl and doing some simpisn behavior. This the first time i been in this situation and I'm ashamed to say I've let the brehs down

They say if you knew better, you'd do better. I know better

I'm gonna go back to my gorilla pimp days. My ex used to tell me my pimp hand was strong and how she was scared of me. My current girl don't look at me with fear in her eyes. Ima start smutting that bytch out yo watch

 

[winb83]

Im a little drunk right now, so I feel I must confess my sins. I've been babying my girl and doing some simpisn behavior. This the first time i been in this situation and I'm ashamed to say I've let the brehs down

They say if you knew better, you'd do better. I know better

I'm gonna go back to my gorilla pimp days. My ex used to tell me my pimp hand was strong and how she was scared of me. My current girl don't look at me with fear in her eyes. Ima start smutting that bytch out yo watch

You can't really switch it up with a woman for the better. Once you fukk up you're stuck at that level forever unless you fukk up even worse. If you've been simping you already compromised yourself. Real talk by the time symptoms start showing for your behavior on her end its already too late.

 

[kevm3]

How you walked into that relationship is how you have to be. If you caught her being mysterious and distant, you have to keep that up, because once you change and become all warm and friendly, you have turned into something other than what attracted her to you in the first place and she will noticed that 'you've changed' and slowly make moves to eject.

This is why all of those pickup artist techniques are nonsense if you want something serious. As a man, one of the keys is to always put the real you forward and develop a CONSISTENCY... putting that real you out all day, every day. That way a woman can genuinely be attracted to who you are and you won't have to resort to playing games in order to keep a woman you caught by playing games. T

The problem a lot of cats have is they are out here playing the field, doing 'playa techniques' and end up catching some female while doing so and end up really liking her. The key to being a playa is being cold, distant and nonchalant, and you end up catching a woman you like while being that... and then all of a sudden you start getting to know her and really dig her and then switch up your whole personality to the real you. She liked the cold and distant you, but you're giving her the warm and friendly you because now you're in love and 'don't wanna be a player anymore.' What ends up happening is the woman ejects because you've morphed into a completely different negro. In order to have something genuine with a female, you have to put that genuine out there, because a woman can't be attracted to something that's not being advertised. You put that playa veneer out there and she gets attracted to that and all of a sudden you try to bring the 'real you' to the forefront and you're giving her something completely other than what she liked. Doesn't work like that. It's the exact same thing with negroes out there coming at a woman from the 'friend' or 'your my lil sis' category and trying to morph it into something more. You have to be you at all times and let a woman know directly what you want from her at all times. Don't change. Transformers never win.

 

[Nintendough]

Im a little drunk right now, so I feel I must confess my sins. I've been babying my girl and doing some simpisn behavior. This the first time i been in this situation and I'm ashamed to say I've let the brehs down

You would be better off just finding a new relationship. Once you start simping, anything else will most likely be met with resistance.

 

[MikelArteta]

Kev with that knowledge again, which also leads me to what you do in the beginning is what she will always remember . If you sped a lot of money, taking her out etc., buying her flowers etc that's the expectation she will have throughout the relationship, an of you don't keep it up, you will get the you changed, I wish it was like how it was in the beginning.

Many men and I was one of them back in the day start of relationships fast seeing the person every day in the beginning and once that stops poof.

 

[↓R↑LYB]

You would be better off just finding a new relationship. Once you start simping, anything else will most likely be met with resistance.

I swear some of the shyt y'all nikkas say have me thinking y'all never been with a broad before. You mean you've never had to back a bytch down and let her change her ways?

 

[winb83]

Kev with that knowledge again, which also leads me to what you do in the beginning is what she will always remember . If you sped a lot of money, taking her out etc., buying her flowers etc that's the expectation she will have throughout the relationship, an of you don't keep it up, you will get the you changed, I wish it was like how it was in the beginning.

Many men and I was one of them back in the day start of relationships fast seeing the person every day in the beginning and once that stops poof.

With simping it doesn't matter if its in the beginning once any noticeable level of simping occurs she's tossing you in the trick bag. It happens so subtly most wouldn't notice and with anything when it comes to women by the time her behavior is outwardly reflecting your negative behavior its too late to address it. That means at some point before the signs even start to show you've crossed the point of no return.

 

[MikelArteta]

I swear some of the shyt y'all nikkas say have me thinking y'all never been with a broad before. You mean you've never had to back a bytch down and let her change her ways?

People rarely change unless due to religion,
Or severely humbled. The quicker you realize this the better off you will be in life.

 

[↓R↑LYB]

People rarely change unless due to religion,
Or severely humbled. The quicker you realize this the better off you will be in life.

nikka I've done that shyt so many times I've lost count. Now I remember why I stopped posting in and reading this thread.

 

[winb83]

I swear some of the shyt y'all nikkas say have me thinking y'all never been with a broad before. You mean you've never had to back a bytch down and let her change her ways?

If you fukk up with a woman you just charge her to the game take the lesson learned and apply it to future dealings.

if you really did simp she noticed and sees you as a simp. It will come back on you later and constantly undermine you. Women lose respect for men that EVER simp which is why you NEVER EVER simp. If you do something nice for a woman make her feel like she earned or deserved it and its not considered simping.

only you know what you did but any simping is a fatal blow to a relationship.

 

[Nintendough]

I swear some of the shyt y'all nikkas say have me thinking y'all never been with a broad before. You mean you've never had to back a bytch down and let her change her ways?

Why would you even bother?

 

[Sharp]

Im a little drunk right now, so I feel I must confess my sins. I've been babying my girl and doing some simpisn behavior. This the first time i been in this situation and I'm ashamed to say I've let the brehs down

They say if you knew better, you'd do better. I know better

I'm gonna go back to my gorilla pimp days. My ex used to tell me my pimp hand was strong and how she was scared of me. My current girl don't look at me with fear in her eyes. Ima start smutting that bytch out yo watch

I swear some of the shyt y'all nikkas say have me thinking y'all never been with a broad before. You mean you've never had to back a bytch down and let her change her ways?

You don't want a woman to fear you, you want her to respect you and acknowledge the repercussions of her ever disrespecting you in the relationship, which is ending the relationship.

Once you start simping, it will be hard for you to get back in control of the relationship. Although it's not impossible, she will challenge you because she doesn't respect your authority as a man. Like everybody else, I would tell you to cut her loose and start a clean slate with somebody else, but if you want to keep this girl, here are some suggestions (though I recommend against it)

1) Learn to say no.

2) Learn to stick to your initial decisions and never apologize

3) Prepare to fight her for control of the relationship. She let her have it for so long that she doesn't know how to be submissive. She'll see this as changing on her and she'll end up leaving you for it anyway.

4) Lessen her value in your life. Start dating other women while you're trying to retrain her. Put her back in competition mode. This may or may not work in your favor. She might just do the same thing since she doesn't respect you as an authority figure anyway, and if your goal was to keep her, you'll know be relegated to a roster.

5) Be prepared to leave. It's really not gonna work out unless like Kev said you remain a simp. lol

 

[winb83]

You don't want a woman to fear you, you want her to respect you and acknowledge the repercussions of her ever disrespecting you in the relationship, which is ending the relationship.

Once you start simping, it will be hard for you to get back in control of the relationship. Although it's not impossible, she will challenge you because she doesn't respect your authority as a man. Like everybody else, I would tell you to cut her loose and start a clean slate with somebody else, but if you want to keep this girl, here are some suggestions (though I recommend against it)

1) Learn to say no.

2) Learn to stick to your initial decisions and never apologize

3) Prepare to fight her for control of the relationship. She let her have it for so long that she doesn't know how to be submissive. She'll see this as changing on her and she'll end up leaving you for it anyway.

4) Lessen her value in your life. Start dating other women while you're trying to retrain her. Put her back in competition mode. This may or may not work in your favor. She might just do the same thing since she doesn't respect you as an authority figure anyway, and if your goal was to keep her, you'll know be relegated to a roster.

5) Be prepared to leave. It's really not gonna work out unless like Kev said you remain a simp. lol

The fight to reverse simping is almost never worth the effort and return. #1 there's no guarantee it will work and in fact it usually doesn't #2 even if you're successful the amount of effort it will take to win could net you several new women to replace the one.

 

[theGoldmangod]

The problem you nikkas have is that you're not comfortable with yourselves, period. That's why you on here typing essays on any and every possible situation you might ever face in dealing with a woman and what to do when it happens. shyt's pathetic. Go live life b. I see 2 types in here. 1, The Cat that wanna be on this my pimp hand is way strong I'm fukking a new woman every week shyt, even though he has no actual traits that would even begin to help him support that lifestyle. And 2, the cat who just wants to get a chick to be with period on some real shyt but keep going after the wrong ones so he comes on the coli and rants about women with fake warnings bout what they do, when really the problem is easily solves by checking himself and his values first.

Any Black man that can't get a Black woman that is down for him is either a cornball/loser or a nikka that's too immature and stuck on some man v woman shyt to give his end of the bargain in the midst of all his demands for his girl.

 

[Sharp]

The problem you nikkas have is that you're not comfortable with yourselves, period. That's why you on here typing essays on any and every possible situation you might ever face in dealing with a woman and what to do when it happens. shyt's pathetic. Go live life b. I see 2 types in here. 1, The Cat that wanna be on this my pimp hand is way strong I'm fukking a new woman every week shyt, even though he has no actual traits that would even begin to help him support that lifestyle. And 2, the cat who just wants to get a chick to be with period on some real shyt but keep going after the wrong ones so he comes on the coli and rants about women with fake warnings bout what they do, when really the problem is easily solves by checking himself and his values first.

Any Black man that can't get a Black woman that is down for him is either a cornball/loser or a nikka that's too immature and stuck on some man v woman shyt to give his end of the bargain in the midst of all his demands for his girl.

Another person who hasn't read this thread. The whole thread is about valuing yourself, having integrity and principles to guide you in life.

Seriously, what was the purpose of your rant? To make yourself seem better than us? You're more than welcome to build with us, but first you need to relax and get all of that negativity out of your system.

Nobody in this thread was bothering you. You could have easily chose like the others who don't share our sentiments to not even get involved and bypass this thread. So I ask, why are you so upset with us?

I can read between the lines of your post, and let me tell you that many of those points have been mentioned in this thread.

The way a message is delivered is just as important as the message itself, and you just alienated a whole crowd who might not care for anything else you have to say.

With that being said, it probably doesn't make sense for you to even continuing posting in this thread if you feel the way you do.