Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[kevm3]

You forgot to talk about the negro you see reflecting in the monitor when you wrote that essay chastizing others about writing essays... you forgot the know it all negro who sees the thread title 'gems on dealing with women' and still comes in to tell everybody just how much he knows and why we shouldn't be discussing the topic at hand. If you read them essays, you would see nobody is in here talking about pimp hands and sleeping with 100 different hoes. If you know it all and you aren't here to discuss the issue at hand, why are you here?

I guess Evander Holyfield ain't no real dude since he got to keep on boxing despite showing obvious signs of brain damage just so he can pay off all them baby mommas... same with Terrell Owens trying to find another team to play for. Antonio Cromartie and his 6 to 8 babymommas. Don't want to pay that child support? Go to jail. Same with Mike Tyson and 2pac getting sent to jail by women that lied on him. If only they were comfortable with themselves, they would have had control over them broads. I guess all them fellas that get shipped to Iraq or Afghanistan because they are in the army and their wives hit the club the VERY NEXT DAY... they ain't real men. They are corny too.

 

[Schmoove]

KevM is the GOAT SOHH/Coli poster

 

[Sharp]

You forgot to talk about the negro you see reflecting in the monitor when you wrote that essay chastizing others about writing essays... you forgot the know it all negro who sees the thread title 'gems on dealing with women' and still comes in to tell everybody just how much he knows and why we shouldn't be discussing the topic at hand. If you read them essays, you would see nobody is in here talking about pimp hands and sleeping with 100 different hoes. If you know it all and you aren't here to discuss the issue at hand, why are you here?

I guess Evander Holyfield ain't no real dude since he got to keep on boxing despite showing obvious signs of brain damage just so he can pay off all them baby mommas... same with Terrell Owens trying to find another team to play for. Antonio Cromartie and his 6 to 8 babymommas. Don't want to pay that child support? Go to jail. Same with Mike Tyson and 2pac getting sent to jail by women that lied on him. If only they were comfortable with themselves, they would have had control over them broads. I guess all them fellas that get shipped to Iraq or Afghanistan because they are in the army and their wives hit the club the VERY NEXT DAY... they ain't real men. They are corny too.

Word.

They really think this thread is about fukking as many hoes as you can.

They really think this thread is about bashing women.

Cheap pick up lines, how to manipulate, and how to degrade

The main premise of this thread is establishing standards and principles to adhere by so that you steer clear of the bullshyt, keeping the bad women out of your life, and maximizing your time dealing with the right type of woman.

There's no where in this thread where we say treat all women like bytches, hoes, and sluts.

Yes, we discourage marriage alot, but that's because of the financial, social, and emotion penalties that you will occur if it fails as a man because of how the system is designed. If you do it, then that's good for you, but at least you're educated on it in case things get hectic.

We are all for long-term relationships and treating a woman like a queen if she deserves it.

But what's most important is self respect as a man. Knowing that you have options, that you don't have to deal with any type of garbage a woman sends your way because society teaches you that you must keep your woman happy.

Simping is caused by the fear of losing a woman that probably doesn't even respect you because of your simping.

Self respect + Confidence + Education + Self Worth= GEMS Thread

 

[kevm3]

I swear some of the shyt y'all nikkas say have me thinking y'all never been with a broad before. You mean you've never had to back a bytch down and let her change her ways?

You weren't talking about backing down HER ways. You said you are changing YOUR ways, which you felt was getting too simpish. There is a big distinction between that. It all depends on the level of simpish activities you've engaged in with her, how accustomed she is to that simping and how she has been responding.

There's a certain line that you just got to sense that if you crossed that there's no coming back from. If she's been getting distant, then it's a done deal. If you only did it for a little while but you laid it down right when you first stepped in the relationship, you might be able to salvage that. You can misstep here and there, but you can't step in the door doing the wrong things and you can't jump off the cliff of simpdom and then come back hardcore. If you made a misstep then get back on your game. If it's the other too, you'll save yourself some time by moving on. You know your personal situation better than all of us, so do what you feel you need to do.

 

[kevm3]

Word.

They really think this thread is about fukking as many hoes as you can.

They really think this thread is about bashing women.

Cheap pick up lines, how to manipulate, and how to degrade

The main premise of this thread is establishing standards and principles to adhere by so that you steer clear of the bullshyt, keeping the bad women out of your life, and maximizing your time dealing with the right type of woman.

There's no where in this thread where we say treat all women like bytches, hoes, and sluts.

Yes, we discourage marriage alot, but that's because of the financial, social, and emotion penalties that you will occur if it fails as a man because of how the system is designed. If you do it, then that's good for you, but at least you're educated on it in case things get hectic.

We are all for long-term relationships and treating a woman like a queen if she deserves it.

But what's most important is self respect as a man. Knowing that you have options, that you don't have to deal with any type of garbage a woman sends your way because society teaches you that you must keep your woman happy.

Simping is caused by the fear of losing a woman that probably doesn't even respect you because of your simping.

Self respect + Confidence + Education + Self Worth= GEMS Thread

Man that's how you can tell someone hasn't read the thread. They be coming in here talking down and then regurgitating some advice that's already been said numerous times while railing against something that nobody is even doing. Same thing Thou did. We said be confident in yourself numerous times, said be you instead of the man you think women want you to be, be the man you need to be and so on and so forth. Not a single thing was said about being superpimp and manipulating women with tips and tactics. What baffles me is why you got so many folks getting mad at a discussion we're having.

 

[MikelArteta]

The problem you nikkas have is that you're not comfortable with yourselves, period. That's why you on here typing essays on any and every possible situation you might ever face in dealing with a woman and what to do when it happens. shyt's pathetic. Go live life b. I see 2 types in here. 1, The Cat that wanna be on this my pimp hand is way strong I'm fukking a new woman every week shyt, even though he has no actual traits that would even begin to help him support that lifestyle. And 2, the cat who just wants to get a chick to be with period on some real shyt but keep going after the wrong ones so he comes on the coli and rants about women with fake warnings bout what they do, when really the problem is easily solves by checking himself and his values first.

Any Black man that can't get a Black woman that is down for him is either a cornball/loser or a nikka that's too immature and stuck on some man v woman shyt to give his end of the bargain in the midst of all his demands for his girl.

In this day and age it takes nothing to get sex from a woman.

I can create a online dating profile right now and in 1-2 days meet a chick and be in her guts.

The premise of this thread has nothing to do with that

 

[MikelArteta]

The problem you nikkas have is that you're not comfortable with yourselves, period. That's why you on here typing essays on any and every possible situation you might ever face in dealing with a woman and what to do when it happens. shyt's pathetic. Go live life b. I see 2 types in here. 1, The Cat that wanna be on this my pimp hand is way strong I'm fukking a new woman every week shyt, even though he has no actual traits that would even begin to help him support that lifestyle. And 2, the cat who just wants to get a chick to be with period on some real shyt but keep going after the wrong ones so he comes on the coli and rants about women with fake warnings bout what they do, when really the problem is easily solves by checking himself and his values first.

Any Black man that can't get a Black woman that is down for him is either a cornball/loser or a nikka that's too immature and stuck on some man v woman shyt to give his end of the bargain in the midst of all his demands for his girl.

Man that's how you can tell someone hasn't read the thread. They be coming in here talking down and then regurgitating some advice that's already been said numerous times while railing against something that nobody is even doing. Same thing Thou did. We said be confident in yourself numerous times, said be you instead of the man you think women want you to be, be the man you need to be and so on and so forth. Not a single thing was said about being superpimp and manipulating women with tips and tactics. What baffles me is why you got so many folks getting mad at a discussion we're having.

When you don't follow the pc cliches, and dot fall into manipulation tactics and are not a slave to puzzy it bothers them.

A free man is a emasculated man, mangina, simp, and chicks worse nightmare.

Women hate it that men have smartened up and can't be controlled by vagina .

 

[MrFantastic]

Question for the brethen

How do you feel about your girl wearing jewlery or rocking presents that past bf got her? For example you may say hey thats a nice watch where u get it? She oh ex bf bought it... Now its a nice watch and she wears it from time to time..

Do you let it ride? Or you address it?

 

[Sharp]

Question for the brethen

How do you feel about your girl wearing jewlery or rocking presents that past bf got her? For example you may say hey thats a nice watch where u get it? She oh ex bf bought it... Now its a nice watch and she wears it from time to time..

Do you let it ride? Or you address it?

I mean it's hers. I'm not gonna trip over it, but if she keeps making it a point to mention that he got it for her, then it's a problem.

In fact. She should only mention it to me once if any at all.

I mean, I'm not gonna be telling my girl what my ex got me. Say it was a gift and keep it moving. There's always an alterior motive when a chick mentions her ex.

 

[My neck and my back]

Im a little drunk right now, so I feel I must confess my sins. I've been babying my girl and doing some simpisn behavior. This the first time i been in this situation and I'm ashamed to say I've let the brehs down

They say if you knew better, you'd do better. I know better

I'm gonna go back to my gorilla pimp days. My ex used to tell me my pimp hand was strong and how she was scared of me. My current girl don't look at me with fear in her eyes. Ima start smutting that bytch out yo watch

i told you, nikka!

 

[MrFantastic]

I mean it's hers. I'm not gonna trip over it, but if she keeps making it a point to mention that he got it for her, then it's a problem.

In fact. She should only mention it to me once if any at all.

I mean, I'm not gonna be telling my girl what my ex got me. Say it was a gift and keep it moving. There's always an alterior motive when a chick mentions her ex.

I agree...

 

[kevm3]

I agree with Sharp. If she's over here reminiscing about her ex and bringing him up all the time, yeah it's a problem, but if you asked where she got that watch from and she said my ex got it for me and that was that, then that ain't no huge deal.

 

[TheFemalePerspective]

Word.

They really think this thread is about fukking as many hoes as you can.

They really think this thread is about bashing women.

Cheap pick up lines, how to manipulate, and how to degrade

The main premise of this thread is establishing standards and principles to adhere by so that you steer clear of the bullshyt, keeping the bad women out of your life, and maximizing your time dealing with the right type of woman.

There's no where in this thread where we say treat all women like bytches, hoes, and sluts.

Yes, we discourage marriage alot, but that's because of the financial, social, and emotion penalties that you will occur if it fails as a man because of how the system is designed. If you do it, then that's good for you, but at least you're educated on it in case things get hectic.

We are all for long-term relationships and treating a woman like a queen if she deserves it.

But what's most important is self respect as a man. Knowing that you have options, that you don't have to deal with any type of garbage a woman sends your way because society teaches you that you must keep your woman happy.

Simping is caused by the fear of losing a woman that probably doesn't even respect you because of your simping.

Self respect + Confidence + Education + Self Worth= GEMS Thread

That's because it is!

You don't want a woman to fear you, you want her to respect you and acknowledge the repercussions of her ever disrespecting you in the relationship, which is ending the relationship.

Once you start simping, it will be hard for you to get back in control of the relationship. Although it's not impossible, she will challenge you because she doesn't respect your authority as a man. Like everybody else, I would tell you to cut her loose and start a clean slate with somebody else, but if you want to keep this girl, here are some suggestions (though I recommend against it)

1) Learn to say no.

2) Learn to stick to your initial decisions and never apologize

3) Prepare to fight her for control of the relationship. She let her have it for so long that she doesn't know how to be submissive. She'll see this as changing on her and she'll end up leaving you for it anyway.

4) Lessen her value in your life. Start dating other women while you're trying to retrain her. Put her back in competition mode. This may or may not work in your favor. She might just do the same thing since she doesn't respect you as an authority figure anyway, and if your goal was to keep her, you'll know be relegated to a roster.

5) Be prepared to leave. It's really not gonna work out unless like Kev said you remain a simp. lol

I can't be bothered to go back pages to quote you but there are enough posts that encourage MIND CONTROL and manipulative behaviour to try and subdue females.

 

[Ohene]

She dropping knowledge

 

[Sharp]

That's because it is!




I can't be bothered to go back pages to quote you but there are enough posts that encourage MIND CONTROL and manipulative behaviour to try and subdue females.

It's not mind control, it's restoring the natural balance of men and female relationships.

We are not equals, and that thinking is the problem. Both men and women have roles to play in relationships, and when these roles are altered is when problems occur.

A woman being submissive is all throughout the bible, so if you're against that, then you're against the will of God. That is how it was intended to be. Man loves and protects his woman, and woman respects and submits to her man.