Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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I wouldn't text again because I already tried that mode of communication. If I really felt her I'd call her later on to see if that works. And if that doesn't work then I'm done...

But I'd feel good that I tried. Showed earnest interest. Balls in her court from that point
unless yo're assuming she didn't recieve the text because of a technical issue, what is calling her going to accomplish that the text hasn't already? the ball is already in her court. in dude's situation, by telling her to text him, the ball is already in her court.he already did his part by showing he wants to keep communication open. he already showed he's interested (as he should have).
 

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that's exactly waht I'm assuming.

Dude's situation is that she's a shy type. Maybe she needs him to call. I'd call her once and then let it go.
That's what I'm saying man, she's shy as fukk. It would take several shots for her to even show she was feel in me.
 

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I like to eliminate all doubt. So that's why I reach out. If she doesn't like me like that so be it..
so If i don't get a response today i should hit her up tomorrow or so

i like to eliminate doubt as well, and bytches in my generation (90's) seem dumb as hell, if all i know she probably forgot that i told her or thought I said i'd hit her up :shaq2:
 

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funny how some wanna holler at you when they had the chance but was on that b.s. when you were down and free.

so when you reject them u feel like :blessed:
they feel like :to:
then your like :camby:
 

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i aint gonna lie this shyt bother me gonna vent briefly.

my ex grandma has contact with me too talk too the kids every so often never had serious issues with her but for the kids i was like no biggie stay in contact which she did but i always knew she favored her when we went our separate ways years ago when it happened

fast forward she called friday too wish my son happy bday and she brought up my ex (which she does at times and i respectfully told her i really don't wanna hear bout her) saying how my ex new baby looks like my daughter a little I'm like :snoop: like i really dont give a fukk honestly and telling me where she moved too with her new husband

then she proceeds too shyt on my ex mom and daughter which she never really liked which i knew so i was like :manny:

then she said this which i aint gonna lie pissed me off :mad:
her exact words.

I'm just glad that she didn't end up like her mom

I'm sitting here like oh ok well let me let you go cuz i knew i had too or i would of blew up on her on the phone and i didn't want too disrespect her let alone finding out she nearly died a few weeks ago had a heart attack with a triple bypass

but what i wanted too say was how can you say that your precious grand daughter that u say ur glad didn't end up like her mom did

she left her kids like they aint shyt and put her relationships with diff people before them haven't seen them in years nor talked too them in years and your glad
too top it off she named her daughter a name we originally had for our daughter before she was born but chose another one instead

sorry had too let that shyt out its funny how men get shytted on bout leaving the kids but the women get a free pass and its just as bad when they do it too cuz believe when this shyt happened it did affect my son
 

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what are some signs of a older chick liking you she's 38

the lady is literally half my age and we got class together. She was telling me gone take me the mall and when we text its semi flirt/playful
 

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what are some signs of a older chick liking you she's 38

the lady is literally half my age and we got class together. She was telling me gone take me the mall and when we text its semi flirt/playful

from my experience they flirt and playful but are straight too the point no games involved and tell u whats up. every one i knew spoiled me like no other. sex was great. some had a kid or 2 some didn't but most wanted too settle down which i couldn't give too them so i enjoyed the time i had with them and went bout my business and walked away when they kept pushing for something i couldn't give them cuz i was in my prime just wanting too have fun
 

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from my experience they flirt and playful but are straight too the point no games involved and tell u whats up. every one i knew spoiled me like no other. sex was great. some had a kid or 2 some didn't but most wanted too settle down which i couldn't give too them so i enjoyed the time i had with them and went bout my business and walked away when they kept pushing for something i couldn't give them cuz i was in my prime just wanting too have fun

I'm not sure about her breh

I could be looking too much into it, maybe she's just being nice. But, she talk to me as if we knew each other forever. Her son is older than me by one year, I ain't playing step daddy to a grown a nikka bigger than me either.

I just don't wanna go in fully loaded and then get shut down with quickness. I'm just looking for some signs or some tips on how to bring her feelings for me out if she have any
 

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I'm not sure about her breh

I could be looking too much into it, maybe she's just being nice. But, she talk to me as if we knew each other forever. Her son is older than me by one year, I ain't playing step daddy to a grown a nikka bigger than me either.

I just don't wanna go in fully loaded and then get shut down with quickness. I'm just looking for some signs or some tips on how to bring her feelings for me out if she have any

well if it was me and she playful and flirty. i would be like u should let me take you out sometime (simple as that and straight too the point)
i've done this numerous of times with great results and at the same time when i was told no i was like no biggie and kept it moving

a no is not the end of the world either

if u just ask too take her out sometime and she says yes then obviously she is feeling you and if she says no she just a flirty female thats all :manny:

what u got too lose nothing :yeshrug: just ask confidently and with a smile and good eye contact will do the trick
 

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well if it was me and she playful and flirty. i would be like u should let me take you out sometime (simple as that and straight too the point)
i've done this numerous of times with great results and at the same time when i was told no i was like no biggie and kept it moving

a no is not the end of the world either

if u just ask too take her out sometime and she says yes then obviously she is feeling you and if she says no she just a flirty female thats all :manny:

what u got too lose nothing :yeshrug: just ask confidently and with a smile and good eye contact will do the trick

:ohhh:

I might just do that.

:shaq: I'm on the MILF hunt.
 

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@kevm3 do you think it is possible to be a "reformed trick"? or is it impossible like a female who tries to say she is a reformed hoe :to:

It's possible to change your mentality around. Keep your money in your pockets and approach women differently without any intentions of paying.
 

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The problem I see with many of the men on this site is that they approach women and relationships with the sole purpose of trying to gain the upper hand.

Every thought they have is to try and win or get something over on the other. Control who is spending what. Control who she hangs out with...etc.

It's a sad and pathetic way to live your life and you'll never truly partner and connect with anyone that way.
They're so afraid of being perceived as weak or a simp that they'll do any stupid outdated machismo bullshyt to try to dominate a woman or avoid getting hurt.

A lot of them need to grow up.
 
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