Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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I'm not sure about her breh

I could be looking too much into it, maybe she's just being nice. But, she talk to me as if we knew each other forever. Her son is older than me by one year, I ain't playing step daddy to a grown a nikka bigger than me either.

I just don't wanna go in fully loaded and then get shut down with quickness. I'm just looking for some signs or some tips on how to bring her feelings for me out if she have any[quoteNikk

nikka gonna be giving the stepson curfews and shyt
 

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Here's another aspect that doesn't directly deal with women, but every man needs to know. YOU are directly responsible for your happiness. Make sure you don't have hate in your heart because that will apply a buzzsaw right to your happiness. One of the ways that you will diminish your happiness is to hang around a bunch of unhappy people, because moods and philosophies are infectious. You keep hanging around and you will begin to adopt their mindsets. Something important to keep in mind is that you might not like how a lot of modern women act, but never hate women. Just recognize what any particular woman you're dealing with is and treat her accordingly. If she doesn't have the proper characteristics for something positive, don't deal with her. Remember, YOU are responsible for your happiness and no one else and it's you who choose who you invite in your presence or not.
 

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gonna vent about some dumb shyt that happened last night :snoop: had a date that was going fine until the very end, we were bar-hopping towards her place, the last stop we made she ran into some friends and one of these alpha bros started hitting on her and told me "i dont think its gonnna work out between you two" i gave him the :rudy: and asked if she wanted to leave but she said no :flabbynsick: we kissed and i bounced. i dont know if i should bother reaching out again, shyt left a bad taste in my mouth but i know i shouldnt care that much
 

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gonna vent about some dumb shyt that happened last night :snoop: had a date that was going fine until the very end, we were bar-hopping towards her place, the last stop we made she ran into some friends and one of these alpha bros started hitting on her and told me "i dont think its gonnna work out between you two" i gave him the :rudy: and asked if she wanted to leave but she said no :flabbynsick: we kissed and i bounced. i dont know if i should bother reaching out again, shyt left a bad taste in my mouth but i know i shouldnt care that much
was this the first or 2nd date?
 

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was this the first or 2nd date?

2nd, but the first was about a month ago, i never followed up and she just reached out to me last week. i basically quit the dating scene when classes started in september so i dont have any other options right now either, which is making things worse
 

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2nd, but the first was about a month ago, i never followed up and she just reached out to me last week. i basically quit the dating scene when classes started in september so i dont have any other options right now either, which is making things worse
I'm like you brush

do you regret not reaching out to her first after the first date?

you should still throw her to the bushes for that disrespect but a month gap in between dates is a long time, was she trying to get a free meal?
 

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I'm like you brush

do you regret not reaching out to her first after the first date?

you should still throw her to the bushes for that disrespect but a month gap in between dates is a long time, was she trying to get a free meal?

i regretted it but it wasnt a big deal, i had pretty much forgotten about her by the time she contacted me, i have too much other shyt going on

she's in investment banking and makes six figures, do women like that try to get free meals out of students :heh:

she reached out to me for the first date too and seemed into me, but i guess that could have changed as the night went on
 

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i regretted it but it wasnt a big deal, i had pretty much forgotten about her by the time she contacted me, i have too much other shyt going on

she's in investment banking and makes six figures, do women like that try to get free meals out of students

she reached out to me for the first date too and seemed into me, but i guess that could have changed as the night went on
:whoo: I wouldn't let that go so easily but it would be hard
 

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Thoughts on giving your GIRL (not chick you're fukking or tryna bag, but someone you're in a relationship with) money? Mine asked me for some bread the other day and I didn't know how to feel about it because chicks have never outright have asked me for bread before. I let her hold it because for the most part she cooperates with your boy and it was a nominal amount, but I don't want her to think this is world vision and I'm about to sponsor her activities.
 

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Thoughts on giving your GIRL (not chick you're fukking or tryna bag, but someone you're in a relationship with) money? Mine asked me for some bread the other day and I didn't know how to feel about it because chicks have never outright have asked me for bread before. I let her hold it because for the most part she cooperates with your boy and it was a nominal amount, but I don't want her to think this is world vision and I'm about to sponsor her activities.


If yall in a serious relationship, an you know she would give or have given yoy money when you needed it or ask then i dont see a problem with it
 

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Thoughts on giving your GIRL (not chick you're fukking or tryna bag, but someone you're in a relationship with) money? Mine asked me for some bread the other day and I didn't know how to feel about it because chicks have never outright have asked me for bread before. I let her hold it because for the most part she cooperates with your boy and it was a nominal amount, but I don't want her to think this is world vision and I'm about to sponsor her activities.
you do it if it feels right.
 

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@Astroslik If you wanna text ole girl again then go ahead. If she ignores your text then you know what to do. She could be just busy and forgot or shy. No need to let uncertainties plague your mind. A lot of negroes pushing that foolish pride shtick on you. It's not that serious. text her if YOU want to.
 

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@Astroslik If you wanna text ole girl again then go ahead. If she ignores your text then you know what to do. She could be just busy and forgot or shy. No need to let uncertainties plague your mind. A lot of negroes pushing that foolish pride shtick on you. It's not that serious. text her if YOU want to.
what i'm kicking isn't about pride and ego at all. it's about logic. if you tell a chick to text you and if she is feeling you, she will text you. if a chick is not feeling you, texting her will not convince her to feel you.
 

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what i'm kicking isn't about pride and ego at all. it's about logic. if you tell a chick to text you and if she is feeling you, she will text you. if a chick is not feeling you, texting her will not convince her to feel you.
:whoo: Honestly breh I owe an apology to you(even though I wasn't trying to come at you disrespectfully). I don't even know how I didn't read that he asked her to text him. I just thought she didn't respond to one of his texts in time. But to be fair I've been in situations where I've asked a girl to text me and couldn't or rather didn't(but did much later on). How much time has passed since this went down? He shouldn't be so caught up on one chick to begin with though. Options is the keyword @Astroslik.
 
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