Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Astroslik]

Just went on a date yesterday with this girl at my school yesterday brehs, it went well we got food and went bowling. No awkward silences and we made long eye contact and i caught her touching my arms a couple times. I hugged her at the end and kissed her on the cheek (usually i go in the for the kill but she's a rare shy religious type). I told her to text me after we left but i haven't received a text since that night and it's almost 4pm I should've just said i was going to text her instead of me telling her to text me.

Nevertheless, I'm thinking about texting her and letting her know i had a good time last night. Is this a good idea or should i wait for the text?

 

[Turbulent]

Just went on a date yesterday with this girl at my school yesterday brehs, it went well we got food and went bowling. No awkward silences and we made long eye contact and i caught her touching my arms a couple times. I hugged her at the end and kissed her on the cheek (usually i go in the for the kill but she's a rare shy religious type). I told her to text me after we left but i haven't received a text since that night and it's almost 4pm I should've just said i was going to text her instead of me telling her to text me.

Nevertheless, I'm thinking about texting her and letting her know i had a good time last night. Is this a good idea or should i wait for the text?

why hould you have said that instead?

 

[Astroslik]

why hould you have said that instead?

So i could've had her waiting and had the ball in my hand on when to tell her. Another reason why i didn't go in for the kiss is because she was feeling a little sick all week but i know she would've been down

 

[360dagod]

Just went on a date yesterday with this girl at my school yesterday brehs, it went well we got food and went bowling. No awkward silences and we made long eye contact and i caught her touching my arms a couple times. I hugged her at the end and kissed her on the cheek (usually i go in the for the kill but she's a rare shy religious type). I told her to text me after we left but i haven't received a text since that night and it's almost 4pm I should've just said i was going to text her instead of me telling her to text me.

Nevertheless, I'm thinking about texting her and letting her know i had a good time last night. Is this a good idea or should i wait for the text?

Be patient

 

[Turbulent]

So i could've had her waiting and had the ball in my hand on when to tell her. Another reason why i didn't go in for the kiss is because she was feeling a little sick all week but i know she would've been down

it doesn't really matter in the big scheme of things. cause you would have text her and she would have either played the vague reply/hot cold approach game OR simply not reply back and you'd be at the same spot you're in now. The bottom line is that if she was feeling you like that she would have sent you a text. Only thing i would have done different is give her a time to text you. "text me tomorrow evening". clear instructions. I make it easy for her to demonstrate she wants to follow me. the way you said it, maybe she's wondering when exactly she should text you to not seem thirsty. or maybe she's just not interested. or maybe she's busy. or maybe...get my point? you're left wondering about maybe. next time give them clear instructions and you give them an easy option to show she wants to ride with you (or show she wants to get off the ride, either way you respect it).

if i were you i wouldn't text her and just charge it to the game. maybe she'll text in a few days, maybe not...

 

[Astroslik]

it doesn't really matter in the big scheme of things. cause you would have text her and she would have either played the vague reply/hot cold approach game OR simply not reply back and you'd be at the same spot you're in now. The bottom line is that if she was feeling you like that she would have sent you a text. Only thing i would have done different is give her a time to text you. "text me tomorrow evening". clear instructions. I make it easy for her to demonstrate she wants to follow me. the way you said it, maybe she's wondering when exactly she should text you to not seem thirsty. or maybe she's just not interested. or maybe she's busy. or maybe...get my point? you're left wondering about maybe. next time give them clear instructions and you give them an easy option to show she wants to ride with you (or show she wants to get off the ride, either way you respect it).

if i were you i wouldn't text her and just charge it to the game. maybe she'll text in a few days, maybe not...

Should i throw her to the bushes so soon? She is very shy so she probably wants me to make the move, but you're right i should've said a definite timetable. But she's a submissive shy type

 

[Rich Spirit]

Just went on a date yesterday with this girl at my school yesterday brehs, it went well we got food and went bowling. No awkward silences and we made long eye contact and i caught her touching my arms a couple times. I hugged her at the end and kissed her on the cheek (usually i go in the for the kill but she's a rare shy religious type). I told her to text me after we left but i haven't received a text since that night and it's almost 4pm I should've just said i was going to text her instead of me telling her to text me.

Nevertheless, I'm thinking about texting her and letting her know i had a good time last night. Is this a good idea or should i wait for the text?

Um please don't tell her that. She should hit you back w/o you even telling her and tell you that she had a good time.

 

[Astroslik]

Um please don't tell her that. She should hit you back w/o you even telling her and tell you that she had a good time.

good thing i didn't

 

[Turbulent]

Should i throw her to the bushes so soon? She is very shy so she probably wants me to make the move, but you're right i should've said a definite timetable. But she's a submissive shy type

what she wants is not necessarely in your benefit. you probably want her to give up the bootyhole on the first date but it's not necessarely in her benefit. forget what she wants. if you do something, do it because it makes sense for you in relations to your goals and happiness. That "shy" shyt my be somewhat genuine but it's game at the same time. don't fall for it. give it time and let her choose. she already knows you're feeling her. what is sending her a text going to accomplish exactly?

 

[CASHAPP]

I don't think it is a coincidence that because of how Malcolm was with women and certain comments he said about them that would have him shamed in today's society......that it is hard to find woman today who talk about him as much as Martin. A little off topic but something i was just thinking about. I think the truth hurt because he said alot of things about them that were true.

 

[CASHAPP]

@kevm3 do you think it is possible to be a "reformed trick"? or is it impossible like a female who tries to say she is a reformed hoe

 

[Astroslik]

what she wants is not necessarely in your benefit. you probably want her to give up the bootyhole on the first date but it's not necessarely in her benefit. forget what she wants. if you do something, do it because it makes sense for you in relations to your goals and happiness. That "shy" shyt my be somewhat genuine but it's game at the same time. don't fall for it. give it time and let her choose. she already knows you're feeling her. what is sending her a text going to accomplish exactly?

she's pretty busy and we do have a history of long gaps in time in between texts, so I'll just wait it out if not ill just throw her to the bushes

 

[OfTheCross]

Just went on a date yesterday with this girl at my school yesterday brehs, it went well we got food and went bowling. No awkward silences and we made long eye contact and i caught her touching my arms a couple times. I hugged her at the end and kissed her on the cheek (usually i go in the for the kill but she's a rare shy religious type). I told her to text me after we left but i haven't received a text since that night and it's almost 4pm I should've just said i was going to text her instead of me telling her to text me.

Nevertheless, I'm thinking about texting her and letting her know i had a good time last night. Is this a good idea or should i wait for the text?

why hould you have said that instead?

Be patient

it doesn't really matter in the big scheme of things. cause you would have text her and she would have either played the vague reply/hot cold approach game OR simply not reply back and you'd be at the same spot you're in now. The bottom line is that if she was feeling you like that she would have sent you a text. Only thing i would have done different is give her a time to text you. "text me tomorrow evening". clear instructions. I make it easy for her to demonstrate she wants to follow me. the way you said it, maybe she's wondering when exactly she should text you to not seem thirsty. or maybe she's just not interested. or maybe she's busy. or maybe...get my point? you're left wondering about maybe. next time give them clear instructions and you give them an easy option to show she wants to ride with you (or show she wants to get off the ride, either way you respect it).

if i were you i wouldn't text her and just charge it to the game. maybe she'll text in a few days, maybe not...

I wish I was the type of dude that played these games, man. I'm just not. If I go out with a chick and I want ot text her I do. If I don't I wont. I won't try to give them instructions, and I won't worry about whether they're going to hit me up or no.

If you're feeling eachother shyt will happen, if not it wont. I can't get myself to care about manipulating a woman or leading her anywhere. I'm walking...whoever follows, follows. I'm calling/texting whoever answers, answers

 

[Turbulent]

I wish I was the type of dude that played these games, man. I'm just not. If I go out with a chick and I want ot text her I do. If I don't I wont. I won't try to give them instructions, and I won't worry about whether they're going to hit me up or no.

If you're feeling eachother shyt will happen, if not it wont. I can't get myself to care about manipulating a woman or leading her anywhere. I'm walking...whoever follows, follows. I'm calling/texting whoever answers, answers

that's kind of what i said though. i told him not to worry about what she's thinking or wants. i never talked about manipulation. If you tell a chick to text you tomorrow, she either will or she won't. if she doesn't why keep pursuing? as simple as that. no games at all. I even told him to do what makes him happy but it's obvious dude is scared she might be slipping away and that's where that desire to text her is coming from. that's not a good mindstate to be in.

If I go out with a chick and I want ot text her I do. If I don't I wont

I'm calling/texting whoever answers, answers

that's cool and all but i'm all about doing what i say and being consistent. Nothing wrong with going out with a chick and telling her you will text her and then texting her. just like there is nothing wrong with going out with a chick and telling her to text you. that part is irrelevant in the big scheme of things, you do whatever you feel. But dude already told her to text him. she hasn't texted him fast enough for his liking and now wants to text her to sooth his restlessness (i'm speaking in hyperbole but still...). i say remain consistent with what you said.

say you text a chick after a date and she doesn't reply and you feel like texting her again, would youkeep on texting her or would you check your emotions?

 

[OfTheCross]

that's kind of what i said though. i told him not to worry about what she's thinking or wants. i never talked about manipulation. If you tell a chick to text you tomorrow, she either will or she won't. if she doesn't why keep pursuing? as simple as that. no games at all. I even told him to do what makes him happy but it's obvious dude is scared she might be slipping away and that's where that desire to text her is coming from. that's not a good mindstate to be in.





that's cool and all but i'm all about doing what i say and being consistent. Nothing wrong with going out with a chick and telling her you will text her and then texting her. just like there is nothing wrong with going out with a chick and telling her to text you. that part is irrelevant in the big scheme of things, you do whatever you feel. But dude already told her to text him. she hasn't texted him fast enough for his liking and now wants to text her to sooth his restlessness (i'm speaking in hyperbole but still...). i say remain consistent with what you said.

say you text a chick after a date and she doesn't reply and you feel like texting her again, would youkeep on texting her or would you check your emotions?

I wouldn't text again because I already tried that mode of communication. If I really felt her I'd call her later on to see if that works. And if that doesn't work then I'm done...

But I'd feel good that I tried. Showed earnest interest. Balls in her court from that point