Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Nintendough]

We really having this argument
Let's get back to the gems

I agree...








Use integrity at all times. The best way to cool off the heat of bitterness is by not giving people anything to use against you in the first place.

 

[Nintendough]

Bordem due to a lack of attention is one of the main reasons for out of pocket behavior. This is why simps make it harder for the rest of us. They hype up a situation and then they get bored and find something new. The old situation that isn't simp worthy anymore will usually use desperate tactics to get the old attention back.

 

[Sharp]

Lol. Let's get back to basics. She has demonstrated everything that we said she would or any woman would. Calling us bitter, emotional, any thing she can do to discredit us. This is what all women do when they are trying to get u to conform.

Theres a lesson to learn from this. Hold your ground and stay true to your principles and standards. A woman has the choice of dealing with it or kicking rocks. Any woman that attacks your character u don't want her in your circle, neither as a girlfriend or a friend. A woman who will belittle and disrespect you during a disagree is a woman who has no honor or boundaries if you guys ever have a real conflict.

They call their outspokenness and disrespect being strong. Lol. A strong woman makes her man stronger and can do it without ever defying him.

 

[MikelArteta]

Let me just add a guys best chance of meeting a woman who likes him for him is when he's very young and doesnt have shyt. If you wait until your middle aged making $80k+ and thinking your just gonn swoop in and wife some young perky chick with no baggage your in for a disappointment. Youre competing with dudes younger stronger and faster than you cmon now. She might let you trick but she wil go spend that $ on that young a$$hole who beats it up and she doesnt get stared at in public with. MEN DO NOT AGE LIKE WINE.

Lol at this lies , I've already posted this and I will again

Why women lose the dating game


All women have is their beauty and that goes by 30, along with 80 percent of your eggs. Men sperm does not have a shelf life, men age better.


I'm 27 and it takes me nothing to get a 18 or 19 hear old if I want

 

[Sharp]

You have no business being in a serious relationship if you have not accomplished at least 80% of your personal goals. You should be casually dating with no commitment until you are at a point in your life where you are straight and are able to take care of family if you so choose to have one. Cause of you get into a serious relationship before most of your personal goals are accomplished, you will probably never do so. A woman will have her own plans for you if you don't have any for yourself. Be about some business. Once u have a family your priorities will change and u will be bitter that u put things on indefinite hold because of her.

Have fun and gain experience in the dating game before u commit. Getting into a serious relationship fresh out the gate is a bad idea. Different women give u a more well rounded experience. Do this while you're accomplishing your personal goals.

 

[Ohene]

bytch dont tell me what to do fukk you

why would i lie? this is why yall have no luck dating because you dont use COMMON SENSE. Women know how to get other women. Just like men know how other men think. COMMON fukkIN SENSE





I never said all the advice was terrible. there are some thigns in here i agree with they were dapped if i thought so. what the fukk do yall think my objective in here to do is?

Everybody knows bytches don't use common sense in relationship and act Almost solely on impulsive emotions. How you see yourself, how others are you and how you actually are are 3 different things. My sister told me that and it made me . Cause its true. I think youre my age and dont try to front like girls your age even know what they really want. Only one a man should take advice from is an older sister or mother cause they really know and will tell you the tendency of women with your heart in their best interests and not some sugarcoated fairy tale shyt. To say you know how women think when you've Never dealt with one shows your idiocy. Lemme guess...you know by listening to stories your girlfriends tell you? Typical

 

[MikelArteta]

how many 30 plus men do you see complaining about finding a good woman? compared to the array of 30 plus women everywhere hoping to find a good man

women follow the rules of hypergamy, has always been that way and will continue to be.


A man should rarely/never listen to dating advice from women



1. They are not qualified "hunters" - unless they are lesbians, women never chase after other women, with the sole intention of "hooking up", or developing a relationship. They are not exposed to the brutality of the hunt, and the embarrassments a man has to go through, and as such, cannot provide ways to circumvent possible obstacles during the hunt. They simply lack the experience, and can only provide advice out of theoretical reasoning, to your detriment. I often like to compare this to a hypothetical gazelle, who gleefully tells the lion that; "well, we can usually be found hanging around the tall elephant grass by the river bank, and a quick bite to our necks, often renders us quite weak..." It just doesn't work.

2. They harbor biased intentions - No woman in her right mind, would give advice to a man, that conflicts with her evolutionary goals and notions of how a successful relationship is. So for example, if a guy wants to sample a whole array of women, so that he may get the best of the best, and he approaches a woman for advice with that regard, he is bound to be disappointed. The woman's evolutionary goal is to get the best husband possible - one with the best genes. So, a man whose main intention is to go with many different women, is an obstacle to the woman's goals(although highly attractive to some).

3. Women often talk about things which their subconscious mind often disagrees with. This is true to an extent, when you listen to the conversations of the younger women(twenty somethings). She may say things like; "i like a nice man", "a good husband", "a gentleman", "a sensitive guy" etc. But definition of what women consider "nice", "sensitive", "gentleman-like", and "good" are things that boggles(and confuses) the minds of most men, because the practical application of those words in a woman's world is often not logical. Why? A sensitive guy may find himself consoling a woman crying because her current boyfriend is treating her badly, but she will still go back to him anyways. A gentleman opening doors, buying dinners, and carrying sweet scented flowers to his sweetheart, may be shocked to find that she fell for the thug with no job and a lousy apartment, where his flowers were nicely tacked into the dustbin at the corner of the room... So a man following blindly to such advice, will fail.

4. Unless she's a sex expert, she will never give you good advice - This should be a no-brainer to any man aiming to driver her nuts in the bedroom. Women often shy away from giving explicit sexual details to men, because they are afraid of being misconstrued as sexually overt. Every woman tries to protect her reputation as best she can, so if you think she will give you proper advice about how to leave Jane in a quivering mess of delight, forget it. Leave that advice exclusively to your boys, who will not shy away from the explicit sexual details.



women just don't have experience dating women. They don't understand how the process works. Many times, they don't even understand how it applies to themselves. How many times have you heard a woman say "I dunno, this kind of guy usually isn't my type, but..." Or the classic line to a nice guy "I wish I could find a guy just like you" - where we are left wondering "well then, WHY NOT ME?!" Or how she'll list all the qualities she wants in a guy, but then ends up falling for a guy who is the complete opposite of that.

It's like, if you wanted advice on batting against Roger Clemens, you wouldn't ask his teammates - they usually don't bat against their own pitchers. You would go find the guy who has the highest batting average on some other team and drill him for pointers. Same kind of idea.

 

[MikelArteta]

And lemme guess men do?? men are just as clueless if not more than women stop lying to yourselves!!! men stay lettin their dikks get them in trouble!! I am well aware of the Johari Window boo it applies to men as well.

Do yall know how stupid you sound? Trying to figure out how to deal with women and here is a woman telling you some simple shyt and you're not listening And the hilarious thing is there are some dudes in here saying what Im saying and they got hella daps but because its coming from a woman you throw all logic out the window.

Sit down.

heres a question

what';s your longest relationship with a woman?

waits for it

yeah now run along or i will ban you from this thread for trolling

 

[MikelArteta]

fukk you bytch

im a troll because im shyttin on your piss poor logic

ive made over 100 posts in this thread, i doubt you read them all



you are a troll because you are ruining this thread, if you want to make a quick little gems on dealing with women from a harlot who commits incest thread then go right ahead, this thread is not for that

 

[MikelArteta]

how the fukk you gone ban me for giving advice??

NOTICE YOU HAD NOTHING TO SAY TO MY OTHER POST THO

i said keep it up and i will ban you from this thread for trolling, this is a mens thread, like how you ladies have your female thoughts you don't see us in there do you?

other ladies have come in here with questions wihtout any cursing or at males in here and they were answered, you came in here on some entitlement ish.


i don't reply to every post directed at me

 

[MikelArteta]

this isnt a mens thread you cant have a mens only thread in TLR where it says ladies welcome fukk you I tried to give advice and was attacked for no reason. I didnt say anything going against the grain. Yall just dont wanna hear a different perspective you want other bitter niccas to teach you the game.

again with the manipulative and shaming tactics , just like most women any advice that goes against the grain that you disagree with you call the person bitter.

you as a woman DO NOT KNOW THE GAME, all you can resort to is the same ol rhetoric when truth is being spilled, you already admitted you are a slut, you pose nude, you have stds, you have had more dikk in your mouth and p*ssy than a red light district slut in thailand, how can you give a perspective on dealing with women when in fact you have never dealt with a women, you have never been in love with a women, been in a relationship, been engaged, been married to a women, you have never picked up a women, been on a date with a women, now tell me how can you give advice, how can you give gems on dating with women?

gtfo

 

[Rich Spirit]

just ban the broad and continue with the gems

 

[MikelArteta]

The Wise Man Learns from the Mistakes of Others, The Fool Has to Learn from His Own.

just came across this today

Wise men learn from other men's mistakes, fools by their own." - Winston Churchill



To any young man who may read this,

You are a man by birth and nature. Never let anyone, least of all a woman, convince you otherwise.

From the time you were born, you have been lied to about women by everyone you know, and everything you think you know about women is a lie. The secret to achieving your own personal happiness and future success in life, which you very well may angrily disagree with now and possibly for years to come, hinges on understanding the reality that not one woman currently living on this planet is worth your time, money, or effort. Please read that again. You are an unwitting soldier conscripted against your will into the greatest of wars, and you need training so that you survive. You have been born into the darkest period in human history, and, if you are not wise to what is going on, have extremely high chance of living the all-too-common pitiful life of court ordered poverty by way of child support and alimony, ending up in jail as a sexual predator, or submitting to the various merciless dictates of the global feminist movement. You have been born into an invisible prison for men, and every woman in the world is a guard, watching your every move and waiting for you to fall out of line so they can administer punishment unfit for rabid animals. In the collective eyes of women, your sole purpose in life is to eventually be harvested for either your sperm or financial support, and when you are used up, to be scattered like trash in the winds of a barren ghost town. You can place a bet on the odds that any given homeless man you see begging for change is relegated to panhandling because he has succumbed to one or more traps set by a woman, and most likely by a woman he loved the most.

On TV, almost every tv show, movie, and commercial features a man who is portrayed as stupid and incapable of doing the simplest of things while the strong independent woman always comes to the rescue, generally acting disgusted at the man. This is no coincidence. Don't you dare fall for this. These programs are meant to manipulate you into thinking you are weak and stupid. In the news, every other article is about how poor women are savagely raped left and right by vicious evil men. It is enough to make you question your sanity. In schools, you are taught that your natural domineering display of energy and aggression is bad, that masculinity is a terrible thing and that you must be corrected and medicated and indoctrinated to be feminine. Even your own mother has raised you to believe that all women are perfect beings, and that to even so much as question their behavior towards men is tantamount to a criminal act. Your mother's behavior towards your own father taught you that it is perfectly normal to emasculate, ridicule, and marginalize your father. Your own mother may even spend your formative years turning you against him, to think that he is bad person. As your father is treated by your mother, so to will you allow yourself to be treated by every other woman you meet. Even your own male friends will turn on you the instant you so much as question the behavior of a woman.

The behavior of women today is atrocious. They are unfeminine, unfaithful, manner-less, violent, obnoxious, manipulating, foul-mouthed, narcissistic, vicious creatures void of any class and discourteous towards anyone not seen in a mirror. In a word, they are uncivilized and undeserving of your time, money, or attention. All women today never mature past the high-school mentality of being backstabbing teenage girls. And here is an uncommon word for you to learn today: misandry, meaning to hate men. By their actions alone, you can see that most, if not all women are complete misandrists. Women do not care about you to any greater extent than your usefulness to them. There is no logic or reason to a woman's thinking, as her though process is governed solely by fleeting emotions and feelings only. This is why women can fall madly in love with a man one day, and is pouring nail polish all over his car the next week in a fit of rage.

And if you think women are poor innocent angels, let us not overlook all the women in the news you hear about how they have killed their husbands or children, or the female teachers who have raped their students, and have received little to no punishment. If it were men causing these heinous crimes, they would receive unfathomable prison sentences or the death penalty. There is a double standard, where women must play the victim in every situation in order to manipulate any outcome where they benefit. There is not one area in your life that women have not been granted an edge over you, be it with the Violence Against Women Act, Affirmative Action, Title 9, discrimination laws, biased criminal courts, biased family courts, you name it, you get the short end of the stick.

You may not be consciously aware of this, but women lie all the time and are never to be trusted. In fact, everything that comes out of a woman's mouth is in one way or another a lie. Whenever they say something to avoid taking responsibility or to dodge the issue, they are lying. If they give you a compliment, it is often insincere and only used to manipulate your feelings and get you to give them something. Nothing that comes out of a woman's mouth will ever benefit you. Women are masters of using words and promises get something from men for little to nothing in return. If you want the truth from a woman, you have to learn to decode and read their body language. You have to literally put earplugs in in order to acquire, hone, and use the power of observation to see what they are doing. If you think women are a mystery, you have simply been stuck trying to fruitlessly match their words to their actions. Women need you to be confused, because in confusion you will always give them the benefit of the doubt.

Your single greatest weapon in this war sounds so simple, yet impossible at a young age: take control of your sex drive. If you do not take control of your sex drive, I guarantee there will be women who will, and with control they have the power to cause you unending pain and suffering. Most if not all choices you make as a young man hinge on the mercy of your sex drive. Masturbate and masturbate a lot. You may laugh now, but the uncomfortable topic eventually subsides. It is unfortunate that nature has outfitted men with this monster of a weakness, and all you can do is constantly and continually drain it. And don't let women convince you it is wrong or a sign of weakness; they themselves use every manner and tool known to man to masturbate themselves. Realize that love is nothing more than a powerful chemical reaction in your brain that subsides as you get older.

It will be hard, but you need to let women fall. You must not come to their rescue, as they have made it very clear you are unwelcome in their lives. You must not save them from their self-inflicted suffering, nor be their knight in shining armor. Chivalry was killed long before you were born by the hands of women, and if the tables were turned they would never come to your rescue. Women need to learn what it means to survive without men to fix everything and build everything for them. Most lessons in life are hard learned, and women, like men, need to learn from their mistakes. They must take responsibility for their actions, or be shunned. It is the only way things will get better.

Learn to live your life for yourself, to succeed, and to pursue your own happiness. It is your right! Go your own way and do your own thing and live your own life. There are far more interesting and rewarding experiences in life than what you may find between a woman's legs. Sex is the greatest nothing in the world and is never worth the effort it takes to get it. Do not waste another second pandering to all the ungrateful women who would destroy your health and wealth in an instant if you let them.

Young man, I hope you have taken the time to read what I have told you and heed my warning. It is by no means difinitive, but more of a road sign pointing you in the right direction in life. Learn everything you can about women and their nature, but don't get sucked in. And don't forget, there are many men like you, in the same position as you are, fighting the same battles. You are not alone. However, should you dare forgo my warning and choose to engage women on their own turf, I leave you with this:


1. Be in control your libido.
2. Always have an exit strategy.
3. Do not care what she thinks about you.
4. Read her body language and ignore her words.
5. Avoid single mothers, divorced women, and feminists.

If only a man had told me this when I was your age, and that I had listened...

 

[MikelArteta]

The following users have been banned from this thread: thoushallhustle (14 Days)

if ladies want to post in here that's fine, but the attacking and the vitriol is not needed.

 

[Ohene]

I mayve jumped the gun But I saw Nothing But her attacking the men in here before offering her simple and condescending advice. Only thing wrong I said was the common sense thing and it was. More strategy is necessary. Like my man said who is more likely to tell you how to properly hunt. Animals that can't only speak for themselves and are still alive or the hunter that has studied the general habit and modus operandi of the population and succeeded?


Who can tell you how to successfully have a relationship. A jumpoff that Just got roasted and tossed by a dude... or a dude that has at least learned what not to do and successfully dealt with women.