why would you not want a womans perspective on how to deal with women?
Because women never show you how to deal with other women, they teach you how to keep a woman happy which usually results in her directing you towards simp like behaviors
Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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Because women never show you how to deal with other women, they teach you how to keep a woman happy which usually results in her directing you towards simp like behaviors
Because you're dealing with a person's subconscious mind and they can't observe how it works. People like to idealize themselves consciously and there's usually a disconnect between the conscious and subconscious. She may think she likes nice guys and say that but is that really what she responds to?why would you not want a womans perspective on how to deal with women?
women also aren't primarily logical or self-analytical. You'll often see women date men and when it doesn't work out they'll straight shyt on the man but the hole in the logic was that was the man she chose and she was attracted to a man she now represents as a piece of shyt. In her mind that doesn't reflect on her at all.
1) Foster a competitive environment and the best prizes have to be WON
We have talked about this prize and value mentality, and lets elaborate. The BEST prizes... the things most highly valued need to be WON. They need to be worked for. As a man, you simply have to be able to challenge a woman and learn how to not give away your time, affection, resources and exclusivity away for free. She has to WORK to get that.
Competition brings out a lot in us that we think we didn't have. This is why you put yourself in situations where you are always dealing with lots of women. I didn't say sleep with them or any of that, but put yourself in situations where you can talk to lots of women. You don't just GIVE away your exclusivity to a woman who you just met or are in the process of getting to know. For one, you don't know anything about her, so why in the world make changes for her she likely isn't making for you? This isn't to say you are to be a player and tell all these lies. IF she isn't YOURS, which is proven through her actions, then stop giving her the notion that you are exclusively dealing only with her. Women love a man that other women love and they love competing to get at him. Why do you always hear people say, "Man, once I got a girlfriend, all of these women out of nowhere started coming after me."
Also, consider this... what prize feels better and holds more worth to you? The one that you've had to STRUGGLE to win or the one you just got for free? What trophy will you value more, the one where you had to actually WIN the league and beat your opponents through countless toil or that trophy where EVERYBODY gets one for participating? The right woman has to WIN you.
Also, stop trying to give a prize to a woman that she doesn't want. If she doesn't want what you bring to the table, LET HER GO and go present your wares elsewhere. You only deal with women who VALUE you. As they say, another man's trash is another man's treasure. If one woman isn't digging you or has stopped digging you, you have to keep it pushing and find where you are valued. NEVER GIVE THE PRIZE AWAY. That means it has zero value. Always find yourself in a situation where a woman is willing to work for and win the prize, which is you. Thus, you must know how to be a challenging man who presents various challenges for her to surpass in order to win you.
2) One of the key goals of your leadership is to eliminate "I don't knows"
It's hard to figure out what exactly happened to this modern generation of men, but for some reason, so many of them don't know a doggone thang. So many men can't even pick a restaurant to go to or plan a day of activities. What do you want to do? "I don't know baby, whatever you want." Honestly, as much as I get on about women, I'm GLAD they react to these 'nice guys' like they do. They aren't nice guys, but rather WEAK guys. Guys that don't know much, can't take control, can't demand anything from people they are dealing with, never uphold their standards, sit around crying and attempt to procure the affection of women through stealth and monetary value. It's PATHETIC. Know what you like and STOP BEING ASHAMED of that. Stop worrying about what the woman is going to like in your dealings with them. What you need to be worried about is finding that woman that likes YOU and WHAT YOU DO. YOU choose the restaurant to go to and since she likes you so much, she will go and won't bring it up. ELIMINATE I DON'T KNOWS and weak behavior.
3) Don't be afraid to have requirements of women
If you don't want no funky attitude, then don't deal with women that bring this to the table. She comes with it, warn her once, and if she comes foul again, keep it pushing. She comes with foul behavior? Let her know what she is doing and give her a chance to react. If she continues on with her behavior, give her the pink slip. The key is, you DON'T have to deal with women... so NEVER deal with women that you have to constantly watch or is bringing you more stress than joy. If the first thing on your mind when you think about your woman is, "Oh dang, she probably got some nonsense for me today," or "Man where in the world is she at? Why is she so busy?", that's something you don't need to be dealing with. Get yourself out of those situations pronto. What you SHOULD be able to say about your woman is, "Man my woman grinds for me and holds me down so well, I must say she is special."
4) You have to teach and tell a woman what you want
You want a woman that's down for you and grinds for you? You got to LET HER KNOW and you have to reaffirm that you won't deal with a woman who does otherwise and you have to back that up with your actions. A woman is a reflection of her man. Don't let these society lames brainwash you or women brainwash you into thinking you need to be some 50-50 man. If that 50-50 nonsense worked, relationships would be EASY. You are the leader and your woman needs to reflect you. That's how it is, that's how it has always been, and that's how it's going to be. YOU are the leader and teacher and you need to find that woman willing to be molded into that special lady who brings joy into your life and you bring joy into hers.
We have talked about this prize and value mentality, and lets elaborate. The BEST prizes... the things most highly valued need to be WON. They need to be worked for. As a man, you simply have to be able to challenge a woman and learn how to not give away your time, affection, resources and exclusivity away for free. She has to WORK to get that.
Competition brings out a lot in us that we think we didn't have. This is why you put yourself in situations where you are always dealing with lots of women. I didn't say sleep with them or any of that, but put yourself in situations where you can talk to lots of women. You don't just GIVE away your exclusivity to a woman who you just met or are in the process of getting to know. For one, you don't know anything about her, so why in the world make changes for her she likely isn't making for you? This isn't to say you are to be a player and tell all these lies. IF she isn't YOURS, which is proven through her actions, then stop giving her the notion that you are exclusively dealing only with her. Women love a man that other women love and they love competing to get at him. Why do you always hear people say, "Man, once I got a girlfriend, all of these women out of nowhere started coming after me."
Also, consider this... what prize feels better and holds more worth to you? The one that you've had to STRUGGLE to win or the one you just got for free? What trophy will you value more, the one where you had to actually WIN the league and beat your opponents through countless toil or that trophy where EVERYBODY gets one for participating? The right woman has to WIN you.
Also, stop trying to give a prize to a woman that she doesn't want. If she doesn't want what you bring to the table, LET HER GO and go present your wares elsewhere. You only deal with women who VALUE you. As they say, another man's trash is another man's treasure. If one woman isn't digging you or has stopped digging you, you have to keep it pushing and find where you are valued. NEVER GIVE THE PRIZE AWAY. That means it has zero value. Always find yourself in a situation where a woman is willing to work for and win the prize, which is you. Thus, you must know how to be a challenging man who presents various challenges for her to surpass in order to win you.
2) One of the key goals of your leadership is to eliminate "I don't knows"
It's hard to figure out what exactly happened to this modern generation of men, but for some reason, so many of them don't know a doggone thang. So many men can't even pick a restaurant to go to or plan a day of activities. What do you want to do? "I don't know baby, whatever you want." Honestly, as much as I get on about women, I'm GLAD they react to these 'nice guys' like they do. They aren't nice guys, but rather WEAK guys. Guys that don't know much, can't take control, can't demand anything from people they are dealing with, never uphold their standards, sit around crying and attempt to procure the affection of women through stealth and monetary value. It's PATHETIC. Know what you like and STOP BEING ASHAMED of that. Stop worrying about what the woman is going to like in your dealings with them. What you need to be worried about is finding that woman that likes YOU and WHAT YOU DO. YOU choose the restaurant to go to and since she likes you so much, she will go and won't bring it up. ELIMINATE I DON'T KNOWS and weak behavior.
3) Don't be afraid to have requirements of women
If you don't want no funky attitude, then don't deal with women that bring this to the table. She comes with it, warn her once, and if she comes foul again, keep it pushing. She comes with foul behavior? Let her know what she is doing and give her a chance to react. If she continues on with her behavior, give her the pink slip. The key is, you DON'T have to deal with women... so NEVER deal with women that you have to constantly watch or is bringing you more stress than joy. If the first thing on your mind when you think about your woman is, "Oh dang, she probably got some nonsense for me today," or "Man where in the world is she at? Why is she so busy?", that's something you don't need to be dealing with. Get yourself out of those situations pronto. What you SHOULD be able to say about your woman is, "Man my woman grinds for me and holds me down so well, I must say she is special."
4) You have to teach and tell a woman what you want
You want a woman that's down for you and grinds for you? You got to LET HER KNOW and you have to reaffirm that you won't deal with a woman who does otherwise and you have to back that up with your actions. A woman is a reflection of her man. Don't let these society lames brainwash you or women brainwash you into thinking you need to be some 50-50 man. If that 50-50 nonsense worked, relationships would be EASY. You are the leader and your woman needs to reflect you. That's how it is, that's how it has always been, and that's how it's going to be. YOU are the leader and teacher and you need to find that woman willing to be molded into that special lady who brings joy into your life and you bring joy into hers.
nikkas are on their periods like a mug in this thread 
1) Among the GREATEST tools you have is the eject button... The ability to withdraw your attention if necessary and the ability to not care if she stays or leaves.
A lot of guys might be afraid to do the things in this thread because they are afraid the girl 'might leave' or she will be offended. Man screw that. You DON'T HAVE a woman unless you have her in the way you want. She simply isn't yours. If you got to beat around the bush, constantly be scared of offending her and have a woman who does nothing but demand things from you, then that's not YOUR woman. That's someone that is using you and WILL leave you or give you nonstop problems... so what in the world is there to be scared of in doing these things we are discussing? If you demand respect from a woman and a joyful presence from her and she decides she doesn't like that and gets away from you, what in the world have you lost? A big headache, that's what you lost. What you do need to be afraid of as a man is engaging in simp-sucker behavior. That's how you WILL get left and that's how you will never have what you really want. If she leaves, cool, that presents another opportunity for another woman to step into the door... and if she can't deal with me on a respectful basis, whether that's on flaking, using a disrespectful tone of voice, etc., she's not getting my attention.
2) There's no magic to this. It's just standing up as a man, being social, having strong principles, holding yourself in value and enjoying life
A lot of guys want this secret scientific formula that they just have to repeat steps 1, 2 and 3, and viola! they got them a fine woman. They want a couple of pimp words to say that will make these women fawn over them. Doesn't work like that. There are certain TRAITS as a man that you possess that just will make women really want you and they are the ones that we've been discussing in this thread. They are certain fundamental rules, not magical techniques.
3) You NEVER change because of what someone wants. You change because of the TRUTH.
Changing things around because of what someone wants is a no-no. Changing because you've TRUTHFULLY and ACCURATELY observed that elements of your life need changing is what you do. Changing because of someone's emotional state is a no-no. You simply get those people away from you. But changing because you've honestly figured you need to improve on this or that element of your character and overall life is the change you DO make. That is PRINCIPLED CHANGE.
A lot of guys might be afraid to do the things in this thread because they are afraid the girl 'might leave' or she will be offended. Man screw that. You DON'T HAVE a woman unless you have her in the way you want. She simply isn't yours. If you got to beat around the bush, constantly be scared of offending her and have a woman who does nothing but demand things from you, then that's not YOUR woman. That's someone that is using you and WILL leave you or give you nonstop problems... so what in the world is there to be scared of in doing these things we are discussing? If you demand respect from a woman and a joyful presence from her and she decides she doesn't like that and gets away from you, what in the world have you lost? A big headache, that's what you lost. What you do need to be afraid of as a man is engaging in simp-sucker behavior. That's how you WILL get left and that's how you will never have what you really want. If she leaves, cool, that presents another opportunity for another woman to step into the door... and if she can't deal with me on a respectful basis, whether that's on flaking, using a disrespectful tone of voice, etc., she's not getting my attention.
2) There's no magic to this. It's just standing up as a man, being social, having strong principles, holding yourself in value and enjoying life
A lot of guys want this secret scientific formula that they just have to repeat steps 1, 2 and 3, and viola! they got them a fine woman. They want a couple of pimp words to say that will make these women fawn over them. Doesn't work like that. There are certain TRAITS as a man that you possess that just will make women really want you and they are the ones that we've been discussing in this thread. They are certain fundamental rules, not magical techniques.
3) You NEVER change because of what someone wants. You change because of the TRUTH.
Changing things around because of what someone wants is a no-no. Changing because you've TRUTHFULLY and ACCURATELY observed that elements of your life need changing is what you do. Changing because of someone's emotional state is a no-no. You simply get those people away from you. But changing because you've honestly figured you need to improve on this or that element of your character and overall life is the change you DO make. That is PRINCIPLED CHANGE.
nikkas are on their periods like a mug in this thread
We sure are, because we sure aren't dealing with any question marks and just like a period does to a sentence, we're doing the same thing to a lot of nonsense in this game-- putting it to a stop.
why would you not want a womans perspective on how to deal with women?
That's like asking Donald Trump on his perspective on how to make a successful business dealing with him. What do you think he's going to tell you? You think he'll tell you how to procure the most value in that busineses interaction or do you think he'll tell you things so HE can procure the most value in this deal?
You don't ask women for their perspective on women because more times than not they will tell you to become a man they DO NOT deal with and will give you advice that benefits them, but not you. Now the real question is I'd like to hear some fly advice you've received from a woman that wasn't family.
She has nothing to gain from misleading you because you aren't trying to gal her.
Using yalls "logic" you can't trust a man advice on how to get women because that man will lead you astray so he has less competition.
Using yalls "logic" you can't trust a man advice on how to get women because that man will lead you astray so he has less competition.
what you're saying sounds nice but the hunted can't see from the hunters perspective. you're trying to be a leader but asking your followers how to lead.
Ashley Banks
All I ever wanted was the world
So going by this logic we should ignore everything said in This thread because you can't ask a man's perspective on dealing with men, correct? Or is it different for men?
As a woman you probably know more about dealing with men than any man here could ever tell you. Yeah the advice is probably worthless. The only real insight to take away is how men think.
but seriously though does not a man have to know and do far more to attract and keep a woman than a woman to keep a man. You could be as dumb as a pile of bricks and some guy would deal with you just cause you have a p*ssy.
women get to kick back and judge and critique men who have to meet their standards. Most men have no standards for women to meet.
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Ashley Banks
All I ever wanted was the world
@ the bold- The women don't think that advice is worthless. We actually take what we can out of it and use it.
Yes a man will deal with a dumb woman for sex only then dump her. I was always taught that you have to work to keep a man, not to just be all about my looks/p*ssy because that won't keep him. I don't know what type of women you're around but I know a lot of women that are with wack men simply because they look good or fukk good. Most men don't have standards for the women they want to sleep with but for the women they seriously date or marry, I would think most do have standards.
The majority of woman are the absolute last people to take advice from in regards to anything, especially when it comes to how to deal with them. 9/10 don't even know how to deal with the people they date, how you figure they will have any better advice on how to treat their fellow females.
Yea they can tell you how they want to be treated, but ask them if they are with a man that is treating them that way.
Yea they can tell you how they want to be treated, but ask them if they are with a man that is treating them that way.
exactly. but let us say this and these women will tell us we are bitter and have no common sense. lunacy i tell you.
Thats why I hate knowing that a girl I am dealing with is asking their girls for advice. Men in my experience have been able to look at situations from the girl and their friends perspective when giving advice. I've had to swallow my pride in the face of a friends advice when realizing I should/shouldnt have done something.
Girls are the exact opposite though and I know girls who have cosigned this notion and say they too have witnessed girlfriends giiving each other stupid, hate filled advice on some, "Leave that nikka alone he aint worth shyt. Let's hit the club." Blind leading the blind.
The fact of the matter is women at a young age are not good for much advice on anything. Girls are not interesting, funny or enlightening beings. It's rare ya girl will converse with you and have you like "
Tell me more" or like "
Girl you crazy" Rolling on the floor laughing. More often then not youre left like or 
listening to them ramble on about their daily occurrences, friends, gossip, boyfriend problems (god forbid) and other buffoonery.