Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[mamba]

Avoid meeting her friends in the first place. Nothing good can come of it.

You have to meet her friends. Gives you a good idea of who she is. It'll also allow you to keep her on her toes if you randomly ask about one of her friends from time to time. Especially if her friends are solid, good-looking women. You known d@mn well her friends are constantly asking her about you. You know women don't have much sh!t to talk about other than the men in their lives and other dumb sh!t.

Don't ask her about her friends, regularly. Just throw it out there from time to time. Women are insecure. Always trying to one-up their friends. If you have your sh!t together, she'll naturally try to keep you away from her friends after a while! Especially if her friends aren't 100% solid and trustworthy women.

The key is to limit the number of your friends she gets to meet. You don't want her getting too comfortable with your friends. Because, she'll use the same sh!t against you to test you.

Women love to try sh!t to get under your skin...to manipulate you.

 

[Tyuhnjko]

do you actually think a guy just wants to be your friend?

this isn't elementary school, men just want to get in your pants for the most part unless he is gay, or the tiny percentage that is actually ok with a platonic friendship.

It's the same for both genders, when a male gets into a relationship his female friends disappear except the true ones, the same whena chick gets in a relationship all of her "guy friends" are gone

When I was younger and naive, yes. Now? HELL NO!

 

[Doin2Much Williams]

The adage, "Striking while the irons' hot" is so textually unsound and ambiguous...

You can follow such a maxim and really fukk things up early because you can potentially

1. Be deemed too thirsty.

2. Come off as too aggressive

3. Placing yourself to be put in a position of being game played (due to the 2 aforemention).

But au contraire, if the gurh really feeling you, it would be safe to say it doesn't matter. The early stages of courting/impressing/selling yourself is so vital to winning a woman's attention/affection that if you aren't tactful and assertive in your execution, one miscalculation could define destruction.

The problem with a many women is that they aren't willing to give fellas the benefit of doubt - they assume bad so early that it ultimately cuts your chances off if you aren't coming "absolutely" correct (factor in timing, if your wording is impeccable, made a great initial impression, being patient and not overanalyzing... and knowing you aren't the only dude she's fukkin wit - 'specially if she fine).

What happened to just giving opportunity... opportunity?

I think i had that. May have fukked it up...

My problem is that i stress over a chick too much. If i'm really feeling her, my thoughts of homeslice may have a 95 percent prevalency in the cerebrum. And that's fukkin' it up already (its easy to overlook the remainder of your stable if they don't have that kind of impact on you - the mountain always eclipses the valleys... you just have to be mindful of the sea - cuz that's where the fish roam).

But how can you control how you feel about somebody you're so attracted to? Drawn into?

If i've learned anything in the past dozen or so pages is in the art of love; you gotta value yourself accordingly, your internal worth if priceless and to not put number one first, makes you secondary in everyone else's eyes.

And that's what separates the men from the mice, the pits from the poodles...


the captain... from the crunch.


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[Virtuous_Brotha]

You have to meet her friends. Gives you a good idea of who she is. It'll also allow you to keep her on her toes if you randomly ask about one of her friends from time to time. Especially if her friends are solid, good-looking women. You known d@mn well her friends are constantly asking her about you. You know women don't have much sh!t to talk about other than the men in their lives and other dumb sh!t.

Don't ask her about her friends, regularly. Just throw it out there from time to time. Women are insecure. Always trying to one-up their friends. If you have your sh!t together, she'll naturally try to keep you away from her friends after a while! Especially if her friends aren't 100% solid and trustworthy women.

The key is to limit the number of your friends she gets to meet. You don't want her getting too comfortable with your friends. Because, she'll use the same sh!t against you to test you.

Women love to try sh!t to get under your skin...to manipulate you.

for me its not a must all that call ur friends ill call my friends we can all be friends is not worth the hassal half the time...unless you know you got some real trustworthy friends that want the best for you then ehhh

 

[ComputersPutin]

When I was younger and naive, yes. Now? HELL NO!

I promise I'll be just a friend.

 

[ComputersPutin]

Memo:

Women have a habit of saying the names of there female friends even if you dont know them. So a large percentage of the time...if she says she was talking or something with a friend..and only refers to them as friend with no name...its more than likely a dude.

For some reason females dont think we catch that.

 

[winb83]

You have to meet her friends. Gives you a good idea of who she is. It'll also allow you to keep her on her toes if you randomly ask about one of her friends from time to time. Especially if her friends are solid, good-looking women. You known d@mn well her friends are constantly asking her about you. You know women don't have much sh!t to talk about other than the men in their lives and other dumb sh!t.

Don't ask her about her friends, regularly. Just throw it out there from time to time. Women are insecure. Always trying to one-up their friends. If you have your sh!t together, she'll naturally try to keep you away from her friends after a while! Especially if her friends aren't 100% solid and trustworthy women.

The key is to limit the number of your friends she gets to meet. You don't want her getting too comfortable with your friends. Because, she'll use the same sh!t against you to test you.

Women love to try sh!t to get under your skin...to manipulate you.

It's best to compartmentalize things. Keep away from her friends and family and keep her away from yours. Once you start mixing all that stuff together it can get messy. I'm almost 30 and in my entire life I've only introduced one girl to my parents or family.

 

[↓R↑LYB]

It's best to compartmentalize things. Keep away from her friends and family and keep her away from yours. Once you start mixing all that stuff together it can get messy. I'm almost 30 and in my entire life I've only introduced one girl to my parents or family.

I'm the same way, I always keep shyt separate.

 

[Rocket Scientist]

I also notice that the more a woman's mom likes you,the less the daughter likes you.Ever since I was in High School to almost up to now in my late 20's I notice this. Now I tend to deal with the women who arent their moms best friend.I have met women's moms and it seem like a jinx on any relationship.The more the mom respected and liked me,the more my exes or women at the time would drift apart.Its like SOME women wanan be rebels and find a guy who there family wont like and wanna be with.

 

[MikelArteta]

I also notice that the more a woman's mom likes you,the less the daughter likes you.Ever since I was in High School to almost up to now in my late 20's I notice this. Now I tend to deal with the women who arent their moms best friend.I have met women's moms and it seem like a jinx on any relationship.The more the mom respected and liked me,the more my exes or women at the time would drift apart.Its like SOME women wanan be rebels and find a guy who there family wont like and wanna be with.

this is true and you know why? because moms are smarter and older and can spot a good dude from the other filth her daughter has dated.

 

[Nintendough]

alot of terible advice in here

You aren't in any position to question this thread.

 

[Nintendough]

Sometimes you have to drop morsels of the game to get the best results. Stop trying to crunch everything into one interaction and learn how to space things out.

 

[Nintendough]

shut the fukk up. i have a vagina.

Who do you think you're talking to?

Nobody would use any game on you, they wouldn't have to.

 

[Sharp]

Anything that prevents a woman from manipulating a man is considered bad advice. So when a woman comes into a 100% male thread to say this is horrible advice, consider it a compliment. Because she knows there is powerful shyt in this thread. Keep building, woman can't contribute to something this great, they only try to confuse and take away.

 

[Nintendough]

you bytch!

your ass would have to pay

Thats your problem, you only cater to the simp crowd so real game doesn't benefit you.