allright i unbanned her if she keeps it up and y'all want her ban from this thread ill drop the hammer.
Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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Combativeness is usually one of the biggest the signs of a past full of scoundrel tendencies and disgusting decisions. This is why morals should always be the most important attributes to look at when considering a relationship.
Shameonyou
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trusting a woman is idiotic....never trust a woman thats inconsistent....little shyt like her writing on your facebook wall, and you responding like a normal functioning human being, and then you writing on her wall, and her pretending she doesn't see your facebook post, but continuing to communicate with other people on her fb. A woman that don't understand common courtesy and decency is a woman that don't understand what it means to be mature.
there are a lot of men in serious relationships who are unhappy, yet they will deal with the problems because they put themselves in a situation where they get fukked over. Ex. She pays half the rent, you have kids, she knows your criminal history, she got some shyt that can fukk u up. Most women look for that trump card and will use it when their backs are against the wall. Never reveal anything to a woman that she can use against u. Don't lie to her, just know that everything isn't her business. don't allow yourself to be trapped. If you're in one of these situations you need to start planning a way out. Woman don't think we are smart enough to do these things, so you're at an advantage. Time is unlimited. Women do this all the time. They plan before they leave u and u ain't know what hit u. Only do this if u have something to lose.
Get your affairs in order or be prepared to take the hit if u proceed. If you're not in this situation then just cut the chick off.
Get your affairs in order or be prepared to take the hit if u proceed. If you're not in this situation then just cut the chick off.
yep
1. Be in control your libido.
2. Always have an exit strategy.
3. Do not care what she thinks about you.
4. Read her body language and ignore her words.
Broke Wave
The GOAT
Thoushall I fukks with you but Reincar is a specialist.
He helped me painlessly end a real life simp sichiation
He helped me painlessly end a real life simp sichiation
I hate to break this to my fellow brehs, but every women you deal with at some point in your life will disappoint you. The key is to minimize how much that disappointment will affect your life.
We repeat this, but it must be drilled into your head. If there are no consequences for her actions, she will continue to abuse you. Even if you leave her for her actions, you may not directly benefit from it, but you broke a chain. Now she knows there are dudes out there who won't tolerate her shyt. Strangely enough, she will respect you for it much later and be trying to fukk with u again for years to come.
We repeat this, but it must be drilled into your head. If there are no consequences for her actions, she will continue to abuse you. Even if you leave her for her actions, you may not directly benefit from it, but you broke a chain. Now she knows there are dudes out there who won't tolerate her shyt. Strangely enough, she will respect you for it much later and be trying to fukk with u again for years to come.
Rocket Scientist
Superstar
The thing is if you are a good dude and her mom's can spot it.You can get AWAY with ANYTHING .When I was younger,some had curfews but moms was willing to let some things slide if you were great in her eyes
,its funny how their moms would practially throw their daughters to you.
Powerful post you quoted.just came across this today
A woman will mold you into the man she DOESN'T want and will use and throw away with her advice. She will guide you towards being the man she DOES want to deal with her actions.
Women will tell you she wants that nice, sweet fellow, but watch, you get around to being too nice and nonchalant around a woman and she will start disrespecting you in one way or the other, where it's talking over you, talking down on you, flaking, etc. A lot of times women will attempt to do things to verbally mold you into this certain sort of man, and when you've succumbed and turned into that man, she gets bored and leaves. Rather, you can easily see the real by always observing a woman's actions. Look at who she gives her quality time to and who she really does things for. It's the man she CANNOT change. You have to be deeply rooted in who you are as a man and resilient enough to stay who YOU are... otherwise you will be the one being led to the edge of a cliff and pushed off. One of the ways you will be attacked is various forms of name-calling... you are bitter, angry, a jerk, etc. Maybe she will say subliminal things about you via status messages or to others... but for some reason she will stick around if you don't change. Learn to maneuver right past that. Be able to tell her,"If you want a different man so doggone much, go hit the road and find the one you keep imagining I should be because I ain't going to change. What you see is what you get."
Also, when you deal with women you have to be able to step up to bat and correct her when she is wrong. A lot of women are the way they are because they don't know. They've lived in a society where they were enabled their whole lives. It is refreshing to many of them to have a guy tell her the REAL and to stand on his leadership and to not succumb to her or society's attempt to mold him into an emasculated male. This is why you as a man often had situations where a woman you weren't really feeling just goes bonkers over you. You were able to step up and correct her disrespect, were nonchalant and didn't spend all your time with her, and she couldn't change you.
Women will tell you she wants that nice, sweet fellow, but watch, you get around to being too nice and nonchalant around a woman and she will start disrespecting you in one way or the other, where it's talking over you, talking down on you, flaking, etc. A lot of times women will attempt to do things to verbally mold you into this certain sort of man, and when you've succumbed and turned into that man, she gets bored and leaves. Rather, you can easily see the real by always observing a woman's actions. Look at who she gives her quality time to and who she really does things for. It's the man she CANNOT change. You have to be deeply rooted in who you are as a man and resilient enough to stay who YOU are... otherwise you will be the one being led to the edge of a cliff and pushed off. One of the ways you will be attacked is various forms of name-calling... you are bitter, angry, a jerk, etc. Maybe she will say subliminal things about you via status messages or to others... but for some reason she will stick around if you don't change. Learn to maneuver right past that. Be able to tell her,"If you want a different man so doggone much, go hit the road and find the one you keep imagining I should be because I ain't going to change. What you see is what you get."
Also, when you deal with women you have to be able to step up to bat and correct her when she is wrong. A lot of women are the way they are because they don't know. They've lived in a society where they were enabled their whole lives. It is refreshing to many of them to have a guy tell her the REAL and to stand on his leadership and to not succumb to her or society's attempt to mold him into an emasculated male. This is why you as a man often had situations where a woman you weren't really feeling just goes bonkers over you. You were able to step up and correct her disrespect, were nonchalant and didn't spend all your time with her, and she couldn't change you.
To elaborate on the previous post, a lot of women say they want this sensitive, nice, sweet guy that pays all kinds of attention to her, but soft guys get throw in the trash. Besides being yourself, you have to have a hard edge to yourself that she knows she can't cross or there will be repercussions. Stop crying, complaining and chasing women. If she wants to leave, don't think another word about her. Tell her bye and wish her well and move on to the next woman. You get to chasing these women and you will be left in the dust even faster as you continue to lower your value.
On that nice guy issue... women don't LIKE nice guys. A lot of them like to USE nice guys. They like the favors the nice guys present, but when you see them rolling, they are hardly ever with a nice guy. They 'deal' with nice guys while they chase after the exciting, impossible to change, never always there guys they REALLY want. If you don't believe me, ask these 'nice guy loving' women where her nice guy is at... more times than not you will hear she just can't find that guy... she keeps coming across jerks. Watch actions, not words.
On that nice guy issue... women don't LIKE nice guys. A lot of them like to USE nice guys. They like the favors the nice guys present, but when you see them rolling, they are hardly ever with a nice guy. They 'deal' with nice guys while they chase after the exciting, impossible to change, never always there guys they REALLY want. If you don't believe me, ask these 'nice guy loving' women where her nice guy is at... more times than not you will hear she just can't find that guy... she keeps coming across jerks. Watch actions, not words.
Rule number 1 never argue with a woman. Don't reach to their argument baiting either just ignore it. So what it she calls you bitter? how nice of you to notice that you're an experienced man who doesn't let bullshyt fly. Either use scarcasm to disarm her or misinterpret her insults as complements and show her that nothing she says can bother you or get under your skin. Never let them see you sweat never lose your composure and never defend yourself. Everything a woman says is said for an underlying reason.
why would you not want a womans perspective on how to deal with women?
