Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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So brehs the chick broke up with her bf :ohhh:

Sounds like she was tryna have you in her pocket (so to speak) for when she eventually broke up with her bf. truthfully if a girl is smilin at me like you said all the time i'm finna wear her ass out, especially if she look good
 

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Sounds like she was tryna have you in her pocket (so to speak) for when she eventually broke up with her bf. truthfully if a girl is smilin at me like you said all the time i'm finna wear her ass out, especially if she look good

Yeah i'm talking to her over FB right now and she actually wants to know what I'm doing, which is a first
 

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I have never not received a text message that was clearly sent. Women just be lying about that shyt.

Exactly. These women just be telling fibs about it... and you sit there and wonder the audacity of these women asking, "Why don't you ever hit me up??" when you know you sent a message, they got it, looked at the phone and felt you weren't worthy of responding back to. The reason they keep on doing it though is nobody ever calls them out on their behavior or punishes them, and you have these simp soldiers rushing in trying to relieve women of any responsibility for decent behavior. Simp soldiers combined with guys who don't care of they are disrespected from the floor to the ceiling as long as they get a potential shot of vagina are a couple of the reasons women act the way they do. I hit you up and you don't respond back? Don't expect me to keep on hitting you up.
 

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Man let me tell ya'll something. We are in an age of instant communication and women ALWAYS have their phones near them. If you look at the majority of women, you will always see them looking down at their phones texting someone or on some social network. But somehow, some way, this woman was 'too busy' to hit you back? She was too busy to take one minute out to punch a message out on a phone that she is always using? Naw mane, she just didn't feel like hitting you back up or didn't feel you were worthy. What service provider is running their service that they are missing like 50% of the texts they are getting sent, and if that's the case, why are they still with that provider knowing they may miss out on important information? Stop believing them stories these women will try to run by you. If she wants you, she will get back to you immediately. If she doesn't want to mess with you, 'she'll be busy' and 'not getting your messages.' Realize that act act accordingly. She doesn't get back to you immediately, she is someone you don't think about or spend any time or resources on.
 

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Im gonna flip that old slogan from sprite and tell you like this: Image is everything, so DONT obey your thirst

if you want to look like youre beneath a woman, communicate to her that youll accept substandard behavior, and display that you have no spine, then get to tricking or start acting thirsty around these broads. men who lose their controlled, self important composure and act desperate around women get punked. how you present yourself is important, and how you carry yourself even double. if you dont portray yourself seriously and carry yourself as a man of importance, then how is she gonna do the same? you want a woman to lift you up and build you up into a new man? forget it. dont depend on that ever. not anywhere in life. whats going to happen is, that people are going to try and get away with what they think they can. only you can stop the bad behavior that someone wants to present to you, other wise you become a participant in this relationship. its all going to come down to how you see yourself as, and how you uphold that.

never get tagged with the thirsty image. make yourself important, and KNOW that you are. women will give you a different look. if you dont have your self respect, than she will never show it to you either.

whenever you make yourself extra available, needy, quick to please, tend to avoid having a different opinion from hers, you chase them, you offer them gifts/money for attention, or you shamelessly kiss a girls ass, its over. your image and your value is in the dirt. your stock is zero as a real man. youre at best "a buddy" aka a friendzoned buster. a guy she can juice for money. a background chump who "listens to her problems." the fool she knows she can get favors from by doing nothing. one day - MAYBE youll become the fall back guy. that one fateful day which she will probably look back on in disgust like "how could I have done it with THAT guy."

it doesnt even matter how old you are, how you dress, your build, what car you got, your career, NOTHING. if you fail at holding yourself to high standards, then you will be gotten. poor and rich men are getting played because they let these women act up on them and do shyt to them. when you take yourself seriously, then your time and your integrity have to be maintained. and weak bytches will fall off if they cant keep up. they will realize that they cant use you, so they have to respect it/walk. this is just the nature of these males and females today. if you dont entertain the bullshyt, then they cant get away with it. ya see its just how they think. theyre like children with bad behavior. instead of rationalizing it and getting mad about it, just accept it and move on.


men who are confident in themselves, not worried about getting with a female by any means, and are relaxed in their conversations are more credible to women because he isnt putting himself out there like hes a lesser man. hes showing her that hes not a slave to a female. he doesnt think that he should put up with any bullshyt just because she has a vagina. thats their hustle, so dont let it get you. men who chase the cat and pursue p*ssy like its a mission of life or death end up as failures all around with women. women make them toys.


maintain your image, and fight off the thirst. with women its more like this: those who dont need, will always have plenty. when youre not looking hard and being thirsty, is when you get a lot more action and attention. you have yourself at a high value and worthy of respect, than guard that and keep it that way. women arent logical, so dont try to rationalize them too much. they make the game the way it is because men in general let them act this way. just learn it, and know it. remember that its on you to control your circle, what does or doesnt stay in it.
 
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ok you read my post but you obviously didn't comprehend it. I don't care if she's messing with other dudes, thats her choice, i know where we stand so that wouldnt' make me feel differently about her. I'm talking about her trying to pass this dude of as just a brother like i'm dumb enough to not see whats really going on. Had she been like "a friend who i've had sex with a time or 2 back in college needs a place to crash", i would have just been like ok cool, that lets me know that we need to just fukk at my house from now on cause i'm not bout to be smashin you wit a dude you smashed sleepin on the couch. I'm strictly talking about that fact that she tried to hide their sexual history by passing him off as a "brother". I don't care if she got a friend stayin wit her, but i think its my right to decide whether or not i wanna be in her crib wit a nicca she's already smashed, and she tried to hide that. Aint nothin hypocritical about it, she gone do what she gone do, all i ask is she keep it 100 wit me like i do wit her. I'm pretty sure she would feel some type of way if i had her up in my crib while a female friend was staying there and i was hiding our sexual history

nah youre right, because I dont want to be saying I love you to any woman whos keeping those kinds of secrets from me and out right try to pull a fast one like that. hell nah. that was real, and all I can say is that if a woman feels like she needed to keep a secret/fact like that from you, then she knows that she doing wrong. what kind of good excuse is there for her to lie and make it look like this dude is all innocent when you already have an open relationship? and after I see that, I just know its going to get worse and worse. it was the deception that kilt it. you lost respect for her, and to keep it real, she disrespected you with that move. that shyt aint 100, and thats the problem. this whole thing is now compromised and Id be looking somewhere else. lying about some guy moving in with her, "with stacks" and is "her brother" but it turns out that she been fukking him "once OR twice", is foul as fukk



shes more than likely open off that kid and didnt want you to know. she wants you to think boys some kind of loser on occassion (wtf) and hes really more like a brother to her. women make up half way stories like that all the time, it just takes a poke and prod here n there to get to what she really feels. or you just have to look at it and see what makes sense and what doesnt.

I feel like if she thinks she had try and decieve you, then theres more to it. and if theres more to it, then later on theres a good chance that theres going to be even more deception given to you. one lie always turns into more lies and it all becomes a joke. really at that point anything goes. shyt gets out of control until you realized you had to trust your gut



girls always keep an extra dude at arms reach and tell you like its harmless, yet KNOWING damn well that he will fukk her as soon as she opens the gates for him. so this "harmless" relationship women try to sell you on obviously aint mutual. its open for a "mistake" to happen at any time. see as soon as the time is right for a woman, shes always has the option to just let it go down. in the meantime she gets favors and time from him. its scandalous and its common today. male friends for women are generally a joke. women use those men for gifts and as safety nets, so she can fall and bounce up in a new york minute. once she has a change of heart she has that duck lined up. I dont trust it
 
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Do you have a story to go along with this statement?

i do
:snoop:

well i've mentioned before I have a godson, he's almost 3 years old. I may rail against single moms and all that and would never raise another mans child, but i treat my godson like he is my own. Anyways like 2 years ago his mom got a job, the day shse was suppose to start there was a bus strike and she lived like 2 hours away by bus, the bus strike went on for like 3 months, so for those 3 months i allowed her and my godson to live at my place rent free :snoop: since i have 6 extra room sand i twas just like ten min away from her work, so for thsoe 3 months I drove her to work every day, drove my godson to daycare picked them both up etc. etc. never got a sent never got heres a 20 for gas, or hers a 20 for groceries nada.

Anyways she finally got her own place 3 months later, but she needed first and last :snoop: and could only come up with half of it, so like a idiot i lent her half saying i needed the money back next month, o fcourse i never got the money back, she got her new place, i see her buying furniture, a new tv etc. and im like what about the 950 you owe me? :heh:. so anyways she thinks she is all that now, im still driving my godson to daycare etc., anyways this january she basically gets fired, for the past 8 months for unemployment she gets 1,200 a month and then 300 for baby bonus, her rent is 1000 a month, so shes left with basically nothing. I go over to see my godson alot and i noticed hes always crying for milk and theres barely any food, so for like the past 6 months i go out of my way buying diapers, these children milk supplements, granola bars, toys etc for my godson, and hell even sometimes groceries.

Anyways she tells me that is depressed and saw a shrink and is on pills, so i took my godson for like a weekend a few weeks ago because i was scared she might hurt him, her ei was running out at the end of the month, so im like screw it give me your resume, its filled with spelling mistakes and written horribly, so i spend like 4 hours on a saturday writing her resume from scratch, writing a cover letter, and then applying for jobs here and there. IN TWO WEEKS i ogt her like 8 interviews, after her having one for the past 8 months. She got a job actually making more than me :heh:, thanks to what I did but i didn't even get a thanks, her first paycheck she dropped of my godson asking if i could watch him because of a wedding she has to go, then i find out she went clubbing, then i find out she spent like 200 bucks on a tattoo, so i was livid, and im like did you forget you owed me money? did you forget who got you this job and didnt even get a thanks?


and then she hits me back with its my money im not your girlfriend you cant tell me what to spend it on, and im like your right dont contact me again unless its to due with my godson, and then shes like fine your going to lose a great friend :heh:

and im like lose what? did you take me in when no one else did? did you look after my child as a godmother? did you lend me money when no one else did? did you drive me to work becase i had no way to get there? when my child was hungry did you feed him?

so yeah this is my story on why to not do favours, and no im not interested in her, all i care about is my gdoson.
 

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this hispanic chick whose like 6 years older than me who is now a elementary teacher that I made out with during my sophomore year (best kisser so far:ehh:) (She started school late) finally broke up with her boyfriend might be lowkey teasing me brehs. I told her that when i get back to cali around the 22nd we should kick it she agreed, i told her this like a month ago. I sent her another text in for small talk in which i got no reply (big mistake, shouldve deaded the convo until i was in cali). Recently i liked her instagram pic because it was :blessed: then she commented with a flirtatious emoji and comment, i sent her a bland comment back without her thinking she has leverage. Now she sent me a text this morning talmbout good morning have a great day i responded (same to you), she rarely does this unless we are in contact, it isnt like she does it everyday. I actually believe she mass text that shyt to all her friends and included me in it. should i throw her to the bushes or hit her up when i get back to cali and see whats good with meeting up? i think she wants that ego boost but i'll give it a try shes like 26 and im only 21 so I'm thinking we should go get some drinks or some shyt? she likes to party and has the mindset of a 20 year old yet she's a teacher :wow:

if she plays games or ignores my part about meeting up I think ima finally throw her to the bushes. bytch has been teasing since my sophomore year but I ALMOST hit in her dorm one time until her fat ass roommate cock blocked me. I've also messed around with her close friend but I'm not sure if she knows :ohhh:, her actions make it appear like she doesnt or maybe she doesnt give a fukk? or maybe she does know and thats why she's playing games for an ego boost?:ehh:

what should i do brehs?
anyone?
 

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How to choose a good wife

Yes I do rail against marriage etc., but I do know there is a large segment still in the matrix that still will get married (breh's), so what should you guys look for in a wife?

Well here it goes, a long list that if I were to ever get married these are the requirements and what I do, to give my undying love and commitment.



1. Is she Healthy, and if she can have children.

a) This is very important to me, you can get tests nowadays that can look at your genes and tell if you are at a high risk to develop certain type of cancers, dementia, alzheimer etc.
But but i love her, yeah but let's say she has a strain that leads to ALS or early symptoms, do you love her enough to be there when she is stricken in a wheelchair, can't communicate and needs you to wait on her hand and foot for the rest of her life?

b) Can she have children......you see it couples married for year and years, trying to have a child but the results are not happening, it's important to make sure that if you want children that your wife doesn't have a scarred womb etc., because one of the major reasons men get married is to have children of their own.


2. Is she from a strong loving family.

A woman from a strong loving family knows what makes a family, knows the sacrifices her dad and mom made. The fights how they stayed together, how important communication is, the ups and downs of marriages and not to bail when in a rut. As well they were brought up in a loving environment and actually know the meaning of love.

Compared to a woman from a broken family, or raised by a single mom. Hasn't seen what makes a family, hasn't seen the strong bond and love between a dad and a mom, how to keep a healthy relationships etc. Marrying a broad from a broken family you are headed for disaster.



3. Dig into her past.

Yes dig into her past, find out everything. If you were to buy a car, a house you would want to know the history of it. If the car has been in a accident, if the house was a grow up. So why would you not dig extremely deep and find out everything whether it hurts you or not about the women you want to spend your life with.
I would go as far as to hire a private investigator let him tail her for a few weeks or a month, let him dig into her history, find out her credit rating, find out if she has a criminal record, find out about her exes, her old places of employment EVERYTHING.
Nothing can be worse than marrying a women then finding out she owes 100,000, has trouble keeping a job, or gasp is cheating on you, I would take these steps and more.

4. No prior kids

There are many reasons for this and I will try to go through all of them

a) A woman with a child who is not married to me shows carelessness. I do not care that the rates are so high with children born out of wedlock, as a man would this be the type of women you want to marry? A women who had a child out of wedlock who made a horrible choice, is that what you want to wake up every day for the rest of your life to?
Is that who you would trust your finances with? your home with? be careful brehs

b) Instead of just being you and her growing in love together, travelling together, enjoying life together. It becomes you, her, baby daddy, and her child. Great you already have a 4 person family and drama every day till you croak.

c) Why save her? There are millions and millions of single childless women out there, don't give up your happiness for baggage.


5. Don't concentrate on looks, concentrate on what she offers.

This is very important, ever seen a chick's mom and your like eek how did she ever produce a daughter that looks so beautiful, then you look around their house and you see a wedding picture, and your like wow that looks exactly like my girlfriend. Because that's how it goes, women depreciate in looks very fast, just because everything is great now doesn't mean in 5-10-15 years or after kids she will look just as dashing.
So ask yourself this, if your only wifing, ringing, marrying this girl because shes a 10/10 what if she falls off, what if she can't lose the baby weight, what if she chops off her hair and everything starts to sag will you still be around? That's why you have to concentrate on more than looks, how is her personality, how does she treat others, does she nag a lot. Remember you will be stuck with her for the rest of your life, choose wisely.


6. Does she submit to you in your relationship

You are the man and the head of the household, a woman who will not realize this and try to test you and think she is in charge will make a horrible horrible wife.

7. Make sure she is 24-28

24-28 is the age range your wife should be around, not to young and not to old. Marry to young and get hit with the "im sorry but i was so young, i did not get to do everything I wanted", to old like 30, 31, 32 you are just the 2 bdrm bungalow for 110k on the outskirts of the city, aka the starter husband. 24-28 you get a women in her prime, whose graduated and has previous experience in relationships.


8. Make sure your family approves of her as a person.

Sometimes you get so caught up in love etc. that you don't see all the red flags and flaws those who really care about (your family) see. From my own observations, many times when the family doesn't approve not including race or religion the marriage will end in divorce.

9. Don't be unequally yoked.

What I mean if she is Jewish and you are christian your ideologies will clash. If she is a atheist and you are a christian, if she is even semi religious and you are hardcore again the clashes will destroy your marriage.

10. Willing to sign a pre-nup

but I'm broke with only a minimum wage job, so are you telling me your going to broke and working a minimum wage job 5, 10, 15 years down the line? You have car insurance on your car but don't expect to be in a accident right?
Protect everything you have..

But yeah if I were to ever get married and wanted children these 10 things I listed are what I base my initial search on.
 

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The Average Woman of today...


The average woman of today is in the club every weekend

The average woman of today has 10-20 good guy friends

The average woman of today has 150 guys in her phone

The average woman of today dresses scandalous

The average woman of today has 1-2 abortions on her resume

The average woman of today has or had a STD

The average woman of today cheats on her boyfriend

The average woman of today curses like a sailor

The average woman of today wears to much makeup

The average woman of today seeks attention whether negative or positive

The average woman of today is on a dating ait e getting 100 msgs a day

The average woman of today expects you to pay her bills

The average woman of today expects you to raise and accept her child out of wedlock

The average woman of today rarely brings any redeeming qualities to the table

The average woman of today is manipulative

The average woman of today is selfish

The average woman of today gets bored easily

The average woman of today is on fa eBook twitter instagram feeding her ego through likes and followers

The average woman of today would be stoned and called a harlot 3,000 years ago

The average woman of today rides the cock carousel

The average woman of today gives it up on the first night

The average woman of today is unappreciative

The average woman of today has lead photos or videos on the internet

The average woman of today follows hypergamy

The averahe woman of today files for divorce 70 percent of the time

The average woman of today looks for a starter husband

The average woman of today can't tell the difference between a guy who cares about them and a guy who just wants them for sex

The average woman of today is unfit to marry or even call a girlfriend.
 

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The Average Woman of today...


The average woman of today is in the club every weekend

The average woman of today has 10-20 good guy friends

The average woman of today has 150 guys in her phone

The average woman of today dresses scandalous

The average woman of today has 1-2 abortions on her resume

The average woman of today has or had a STD

The average woman of today cheats on her boyfriend

The average woman of today curses like a sailor

The average woman of today wears to much makeup

The average woman of today seeks attention whether negative or positive

The average woman of today is on a dating ait e getting 100 msgs a day

The average woman of today expects you to pay her bills

The average woman of today expects you to raise and accept her child out of wedlock

The average woman of today rarely brings any redeeming qualities to the table

The average woman of today is manipulative

The average woman of today is selfish

The average woman of today gets bored easily

The average woman of today is on fa eBook twitter instagram feeding her ego through likes and followers

The average woman of today would be stoned and called a harlot 3,000 years ago

The average woman of today rides the cock carousel

The average woman of today gives it up on the first night

The average woman of today is unappreciative

The average woman of today has lead photos or videos on the internet

The average woman of today follows hypergamy

The averahe woman of today files for divorce 70 percent of the time

The average woman of today looks for a starter husband

The average woman of today can't tell the difference between a guy who cares about them and a guy who just wants them for sex

The average woman of today is unfit to marry or even call a girlfriend.
the girl im seeing is none of those :blessed: dope blog breh your opinion on women isnt as biter as one would think
 
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