Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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had a cool date last night, didnt go for the kiss
damn, that sucks but don't trip brotha,... assuming it was a first date you could still be in good shape, just go in for a move on that second date!
she just told me that she had an extra ticket to a concert and was having trouble getting her friends to go with her and asked if I wanted to go. I wonder if I need to pay for the ticket since she already bought it. I guess I can offer, she may decline since it was going to go to waste anyway
Broke one of my rules the other night brehs,..
I got a 21 or older rule (I'm 26) but I met this chick Saturday night who is 19. Haven't messed with a chick this young in a minute, apparently she's going to school to be a doctor of some sort so at least she got that going on. I'm debating whether I should even fukk with this chick or keep it moving. I mean I was thinking and the only activity since she's 19 is movie night at the crib
or going to the park...
Please tell me I'm trippin...
I got a 21 or older rule (I'm 26) but I met this chick Saturday night who is 19. Haven't messed with a chick this young in a minute, apparently she's going to school to be a doctor of some sort so at least she got that going on. I'm debating whether I should even fukk with this chick or keep it moving. I mean I was thinking and the only activity since she's 19 is movie night at the crib
or going to the park...Please tell me I'm trippin...
LebronsHairline
AKA Chief Green Leaf
Broke one of my rules the other night brehs,..
I got a 21 or older rule (I'm 26) but I met this chick Saturday night who is 19. Haven't messed with a chick this young in a minute, apparently she's going to school to be a doctor of some sort so at least she got that going on. I'm debating whether I should even fukk with this chick or keep it moving. I mean I was thinking and the only activity since she's 19 is movie night at the crib
Who cares nikka? Whats her mentality like? Is she a birdbrain bytch or does she conduct herself in a more appropriate manner? Is she pretty as hell? Think of it this way, some nikka is gonna be paintin her walls if she's attractive so..might as well be you fam
And no you aint trippin
Arbitrary age limits won't do anything for you in the long-run. Now typically I prefer a woman around my age range, but that's because I prefer a woman that knows how to act mature. With that said, a 19 year old woman can act more mature than a 30 year old one, so if that 19 year old has her head on straight, there's no need to cancel that because she didn't hit that age line that you set. The only time you definitely need to adhere to that age line is below 18. Keep it legal and keep it pushing.
insecurities and indecisiveness. or she is a manipulative bytch and likes to play games. no matter what it is, don't play along.
But I thought if you didnt go for the kiss, they dont respect you? I'm confused
but in this case he put her in the friendzone and not the other way around. now she thinks:
why doesn't he want to fukk me? is there something wrong with me? is there another girl? am i not attractive enough? and will put in effort to convince him to fukk her.
Never do a favour for a broad
Who cares nikka? Whats her mentality like? Is she a birdbrain bytch or does she conduct herself in a more appropriate manner? Is she pretty as hell? Think of it this way, some nikka is gonna be paintin her walls if she's attractive so..might as well be you fam
And no you aint trippin
Good points, I need some more time to evaluate where her head is at so I might set something up today if I have time.
True indeed, I'm talking to this other chick who is 22 and lawd have mercy is she about her business. Mad focused and driven to succeed, got me looking at older females I know and shaking my head. And cosign that 18+, I don't know how some dudes can go below that, those are dangerous waters.I'm a firm believer in you get what you put out in the universe. Meaning if you give off a persona/energy that you are trying to achieve more and be successful in life you attract people who are about those same goals as well.
You brehs ever really really been into a chick then she says or does something that isnt big enough to leave her alone but it still causes you to lose a lil respect for her?
Me and this chick been gettin down for close to a year and a half now, shyts gotten pretty serious (we say "i love you" to each other every now and then) but at the same time out of the 3 females i've been dealin wit this whole time (2 now since my bottom jumped ship) she's been the most realistic about it, she'll let me know that even though we're pretty deep in feelings if I'm not givin her exclusive dikk then she's still single and has the right to do whatever she wants. I'm cool wit that seein as how she knows about the other females, but she also gives me signs that she's not messin wit anybody else so I honestly don't know if she is or isnt but I don't think she is, and I don't really care enough to ask.
This weekend she was house sittin for her moms, she has a nice as house wit a pool and shyt. She asked me to come over thursday night and I ended up stayin 4 days. At some point during the 4 days she starts talking about her "brother", I knew she had to mean frat brother cause she doesnt have any real brothers. She started talkin about how he's a rich bum, one week he can have 10 stacks in his pockets, next week he beggin people to crash on their couch. Then she starts talkin about how he's asking if he can crash at her crib cause he aint got nowhere to go and he'll put in on the bills and thats money she could really use. From what she told me he's from an island and he goes back and forth on work visas, whenever he's here its a constant struggle for him to keep a roof over his head.
At some point during her talking about this dude I thought about all the posts I had read about women refering to dudes as their "brother" and how that dude usually ends up being some nicca they fuccin. Not that I even cared about the fact that she was bout to be havin some dude stayin wit her but i just decided to straight up ask her "have you fukked him", and she said "
it happened a time or 2". So now I'm like "
but this is your "brother" right?" then I turned around and said "you realize you just proved a stereotype about women who referring to a non relative as her "brother" to be true right?". She said yeah lookin all sad then tried to tell me its not like that between them anymore, I told her I don't care if it is, but i'm not feelin how you tried to slide him in there as your "brother" like I don't know the game, i've been a bytch's "brother" before so i know how it go.
Wasnt much more said about it after that but I can't help but to feel like I've lost a lil respect for her because of that, how would you brehs feel about that situation?
Me and this chick been gettin down for close to a year and a half now, shyts gotten pretty serious (we say "i love you" to each other every now and then) but at the same time out of the 3 females i've been dealin wit this whole time (2 now since my bottom jumped ship) she's been the most realistic about it, she'll let me know that even though we're pretty deep in feelings if I'm not givin her exclusive dikk then she's still single and has the right to do whatever she wants. I'm cool wit that seein as how she knows about the other females, but she also gives me signs that she's not messin wit anybody else so I honestly don't know if she is or isnt but I don't think she is, and I don't really care enough to ask.
This weekend she was house sittin for her moms, she has a nice as house wit a pool and shyt. She asked me to come over thursday night and I ended up stayin 4 days. At some point during the 4 days she starts talking about her "brother", I knew she had to mean frat brother cause she doesnt have any real brothers. She started talkin about how he's a rich bum, one week he can have 10 stacks in his pockets, next week he beggin people to crash on their couch. Then she starts talkin about how he's asking if he can crash at her crib cause he aint got nowhere to go and he'll put in on the bills and thats money she could really use. From what she told me he's from an island and he goes back and forth on work visas, whenever he's here its a constant struggle for him to keep a roof over his head.
At some point during her talking about this dude I thought about all the posts I had read about women refering to dudes as their "brother" and how that dude usually ends up being some nicca they fuccin. Not that I even cared about the fact that she was bout to be havin some dude stayin wit her but i just decided to straight up ask her "have you fukked him", and she said "
it happened a time or 2". So now I'm like " but this is your "brother" right?" then I turned around and said "you realize you just proved a stereotype about women who referring to a non relative as her "brother" to be true right?". She said yeah lookin all sad then tried to tell me its not like that between them anymore, I told her I don't care if it is, but i'm not feelin how you tried to slide him in there as your "brother" like I don't know the game, i've been a bytch's "brother" before so i know how it go.Wasnt much more said about it after that but I can't help but to feel like I've lost a lil respect for her because of that, how would you brehs feel about that situation?
GETTINIT23
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Once upon a time, i started talking to a chick once and she was feeling me HARD. she would call me, text me, etc even if she had to study for an exam the next day she'd rather talk to me. she'd invite me to stuff, and even wore what i'd tell her to wear. When a girl is FEELING you, she will want to please you and submit to you. The thought of not meeting your expectations actually makes them anxious and that anxiety actually gives them a high when it's released. deep down they love that shyt.
It lasted for a little bit and then the simp in me started to come out (and this is my fault). then all of a sudden she started to get "busier", flaking, disappearing..had yours truly questioning himself (why? what did i do? is she ok?
All that to say this. Don't make excuses for chicks and don't cater your behavior to their personality. When a chick flakes on you or doesn't act right, only question you need to ask yourself is if you were being the true you. If so, the rest is on her. dismiss her and it's up to her to choose if she wants to get back in your cypher or if she doesn't care and stays out. EDIT: when they feel you, they'll drop everything in order to maybe spend 5 minutes in your company. when they're not feeling you anymore or see weakness they'll flake on you with not a fukk given. it is what it is. don't get mad at it. just be prepared for it and treat them accordingly without bitterness on one side or sympathy on the other.
my question is if a chick flakes how are you supposed to play it without coming off as bitter but also not seeming like a simp?... the worst flakes are the ones that come 2 hours before the supposed plan after a whole day of building up time to chill...obviously if you get mad you come off as bitter but if you dont say anything it may seem like you are a pushover, so what would you say is the best way to play a situation like this?
I'd rather tell her I'm disappointed and you don't tolerate people wasting your time and tell her in the most respectful way that you can't talk to people who aren't serious.
i'd rather she know I don't play that rather than she knows I'm a pushover. The key here is to say it in a tone that conveys you're not the doormat type.You brehs ever really really been into a chick then she says or does something that isnt big enough to leave her alone but it still causes you to lose a lil respect for her?
Me and this chick been gettin down for close to a year and a half now, shyts gotten pretty serious (we say "i love you" to each other every now and then) but at the same time out of the 3 females i've been dealin wit this whole time (2 now since my bottom jumped ship) she's been the most realistic about it, she'll let me know that even though we're pretty deep in feelings if I'm not givin her exclusive dikk then she's still single and has the right to do whatever she wants. I'm cool wit that seein as how she knows about the other females, but she also gives me signs that she's not messin wit anybody else so I honestly don't know if she is or isnt but I don't think she is, and I don't really care enough to ask.
This weekend she was house sittin for her moms, she has a nice as house wit a pool and shyt. She asked me to come over thursday night and I ended up stayin 4 days. At some point during the 4 days she starts talking about her "brother", I knew she had to mean frat brother cause she doesnt have any real brothers. She started talkin about how he's a rich bum, one week he can have 10 stacks in his pockets, next week he beggin people to crash on their couch. Then she starts talkin about how he's asking if he can crash at her crib cause he aint got nowhere to go and he'll put in on the bills and thats money she could really use. From what she told me he's from an island and he goes back and forth on work visas, whenever he's here its a constant struggle for him to keep a roof over his head.
At some point during her talking about this dude I thought about all the posts I had read about women refering to dudes as their "brother" and how that dude usually ends up being some nicca they fuccin. Not that I even cared about the fact that she was bout to be havin some dude stayin wit her but i just decided to straight up ask her "have you fukked him", and she said "
Wasnt much more said about it after that but I can't help but to feel like I've lost a lil respect for her because of that, how would you brehs feel about that situation?
what do you want from her? you're fukking other woman, so there is no reason to be salty about her "brother". unless you stop banging those other chicks, you're a hypocrit for getting mad at her. and as much as you act as if you didn't care and that it was just about her "sliding him in", you are salty that she is fukking somebody else. as you said, she has the right to do what ever she wants, and that includes sliding brothers in. so if you are feeling her to the point of telling her that you lover her and getting jealous, maybe you should reevaluate what it is that you want from this relationship and if you really need to fukk other woman.