Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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http://www.dailystar.co.uk/just-jane/332495/Sudden-end-to-our-love

I wasn’t planning to leave him at all. I went on a mini-break with my friends and suddenly decided on the way back I wanted to be on my own.

I booked into a hotel, rang my mother to explain that I was fine, but needed some space, and sobbed for a week.

Eventually I emerged and asked a pal if I could rent her spare room. I’ve been here ever since.

I know that my partner must be terribly upset, but I have no desire to see or hear from him ever again.

He’s not a bad man, he’s never done anything to hurt or upset me, but I’m through with him.

My family are being very supportive but I can tell that they think I’ve lost the plot.

Am I the most selfish woman in the world?




But people wanna knock us when we don't want to get emotionally attached? :aicmon:


thats the thing with these broads you can do everything right, look attractive, no negative flaws nothing be faithful but they can just turn off their emotions toward you like a light switch.
and then they wonder why so many men dont stay faithful or play women
 

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This thread is why i signed up to this forum

first i saw sports, hip hop and piff :leon:

then i read this thread :ohhh:

by page 2 :salute:


forum security was tight though

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Ok this is sorta going to be long, but here is where Im at

Everyone knows about chick number #1, she was on that BS and I just wasnt accepting it, we havent talked in 9 days. The 2 other chicks I was talking to I could tell wasnt feeling me, so I just dropped it so things wouldnt go like it did with chick number #1. Well there is this other chick who we have been texting back and forth for about 5 days. I tried setting something up for during the week, but Ive been working long hours all this week, so we are getting together on Sunday. Still havent decided what we are doing. What I like about her is she actually hits me up more than I hit her up its like a 60/40 split but also we actually talk about things. With the other previous 3 chicks conversations centered around, how are you doing, how was your day, etc. But with this chick we have talked about books, musuems, sports, music, hobbies, like I can tell she is actually trying to get to know me. She hasnt showed me one sign of flakiness or that she is on that BS, unlike the other chicks that did, but I just wanted to pretend it wasnt there.

another chick hit me up on okcupid, asking if my name was ..... and that she believes she went to high school with me. I didnt recognize the name or face when I saw her pics plus she is like 3 yrs younger than me, so she had to have been a freshman/soph when I was a senior. She is straight beautiful. Anyways we talked about what we did after high school our jobs and what have you. Anyways we start talking about music and how she has an extra ticket to see this old school group, which I would have never guessed she was into and that she cant get her friends to go with her because they said they are to young to see such an old group. She ask if I want to come with her and then gives me her number w/o me asking. We dont talk the next day, but do the following day, but I keep it short because I had to go to the gym. Anyways she hits me up this morning saying good morning and that she hopes I have a good day. We aint never sent each other a text like that before. I havent responded yet. She hasnt mentioned me paying for the tickets, which Im sorta curious if she wants me to or not, because they are like $100. I feel like I should offer at the very least and if she says no, then so be it, if she says yes then whatever. I think its only respectful to do so. The concert is next sunday. Are we driving there together or meeting up. Will it just be me and her, or did she buy 3 tickets? She hasnt mentioned anything about wanting a relationship, so when I asked her why she made a okcupid profile, she says no particular reason, just something she did, and she wasnt sure she was going to keep it up for long
 

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she invited YOU and yet youre still going to pay for the ticket?


Huh? I asked if I should offer, or should I not bring it up until and if she says something thats what I was asking. I guess I was just thrown off that she would invite me and we just met and even though she remembers me from high school I dont remember her at all
 

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thats the thing with these broads you can do everything right, look attractive, no negative flaws nothing be faithful but they can just turn off their emotions toward you like a light switch.
and then they wonder why so many men dont stay faithful or play women

Yeah and notice how she never even bothered to sit him and down and tell him how she feels? He was a good man who never did her wrong, but she just decided one day out of the blue she "doesn't want to see or hear from him ever again" just like that. This is why I don't take them seriously any more.

this is gonna totally change the dude and chances are he's either gonna treat women like shyt or simply have a 'fukk off' vibe when the next woman expresses any interest.
 

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Ok this is sorta going to be long, but here is where Im at

Everyone knows about chick number #1, she was on that BS and I just wasnt accepting it, we havent talked in 9 days. The 2 other chicks I was talking to I could tell wasnt feeling me, so I just dropped it so things wouldnt go like it did with chick number #1. Well there is this other chick who we have been texting back and forth for about 5 days. I tried setting something up for during the week, but Ive been working long hours all this week, so we are getting together on Sunday. Still havent decided what we are doing. What I like about her is she actually hits me up more than I hit her up its like a 60/40 split but also we actually talk about things. With the other previous 3 chicks conversations centered around, how are you doing, how was your day, etc. But with this chick we have talked about books, musuems, sports, music, hobbies, like I can tell she is actually trying to get to know me. She hasnt showed me one sign of flakiness or that she is on that BS, unlike the other chicks that did, but I just wanted to pretend it wasnt there.

another chick hit me up on okcupid, asking if my name was ..... and that she believes she went to high school with me. I didnt recognize the name or face when I saw her pics plus she is like 3 yrs younger than me, so she had to have been a freshman/soph when I was a senior. She is straight beautiful. Anyways we talked about what we did after high school our jobs and what have you. Anyways we start talking about music and how she has an extra ticket to see this old school group, which I would have never guessed she was into and that she cant get her friends to go with her because they said they are to young to see such an old group. She ask if I want to come with her and then gives me her number w/o me asking. We dont talk the next day, but do the following day, but I keep it short because I had to go to the gym. Anyways she hits me up this morning saying good morning and that she hopes I have a good day. We aint never sent each other a text like that before. I havent responded yet. She hasnt mentioned me paying for the tickets, which Im sorta curious if she wants me to or not, because they are like $100. I feel like I should offer at the very least and if she says no, then so be it, if she says yes then whatever. I think its only respectful to do so. The concert is next sunday. Are we driving there together or meeting up. Will it just be me and her, or did she buy 3 tickets? She hasnt mentioned anything about wanting a relationship, so when I asked her why she made a okcupid profile, she says no particular reason, just something she did, and she wasnt sure she was going to keep it up for long


You expected her to say because she's desperate for a man? It's pretty obvious why people are on websites. As far as the tix goes. Accept her offer and just treat her to dinner or something, that way things almost even out financially wise, and it still won;t add up to $100...so you win.
 

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You expected her to say because she's desperate for a man? It's pretty obvious why people are on websites. As far as the tix goes. Accept her offer and just treat her to dinner or something, that way things almost even out financially wise, and it still won;t add up to $100...so you win.


Yo that sounds like a great idea, but I disagree that a person on an online website is desperate, but I get where you are coming from
 

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Huh? I asked if I should offer, or should I not bring it up until and if she says something thats what I was asking. I guess I was just thrown off that she would invite me and we just met and even though she remembers me from high school I dont remember her at all
sounds like she's desperate as fukk

continue to be nonchalant and indifferent and you will eat, give her to much attention and you fail
 

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So I asked the co-worker i've been talking to on FB for a couple days for her number. She suggest to me yesterday that we should get to know each other more and hangout sometime so I thought I might as well ask. I wanted to ask her in person but I wouldn't be able to to do so until tomorrow and I didn't want to wait. She hasn't replied yet but I expect that because she just started her shift. Pray she gives it to me brehs :lupe:
 

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