Hey @GoldenGlove, haven't looked too deeply back to where you started mentioning your issue, but have you ever DMZ-ed your PS4 since you running wireless? I know that used to fixed some select issues on the PS3 waaay back when I was on that gimpy wireless life.
Nah never.
@GoldenGlove We can eliminate wireless from being the problem by creating a network bridge on your laptop,
your laptop will be like a modem and you can plug your ethernet cable into it from the playstation for testing
My laptop and PS4 Pro both have network cards that are superior to the OG PS4. I'm not sure that would make any difference, I guess I can try it out though.