yea there's a lot of young dudes out here that are pretty much invisible to society
..I went through a phase in my mid teens like that, feeling invisible, rejected and realizing nobody gave a damn about me but luckily I found guidance and peace within myself to overcome that self pity...
These young boys grow into old men who become weirdos...I know yall came across those creepy older men types before....those dudes are a lost cause but these younger dudes can be saved .....we gotta do more to reach out and guide these young brothas and let them know life is more than getting women to like you...
martial arts needs to be promoted more imo
it builds confidence, mental and physical strength, discipline, etc.....you face L's everyday when you spar and lose...so life L's aren't so bad and u aren't avoiding them since u take them everyday on the mat....these young men out here so afraid of rejection and taking risks, they hole themselves up in the house and become really weird, pathetic and awkward......shyt even a few women are becoming like that now
I also recommend studying Stoicism if you think you are dealing with "adversity" and loneliness.....