You know what's really fukking disturbing? My girl's dermatology and OBGYN appointments are at an office that's right next to a pediatrician office. So when we're in the waiting room there are little kids everywhere. Often times there are kids of all different races in there but the thing I see the most is little white kids and little black kids...and you can immediately tell the white kids are speaking clearer and better than black kids, from young ages. Like...three year old kids, talking in near complete sentences, vs a majority of black kids grunting or crying or laughing. That's not to say I've never seen young black kids speaking clearly, I have seen some. And I have friends with talkative young black children. I live in a nice area, relatively high medium incomes for whites and blacks.
I'll watch as white parents talk to their children, from very young ages. VS a lot of black parents (specifically black moms) being rather severe and terse with their children. Sit down, stop talking, be quiet, no, etc. Speaking to infants at a young age helps teach them languages. Reading to them helps develop their brains. And I'm not convinced this is happening at high enough levels with black parents.
Reading levels are down across the board for people in 2023 and yet we still see these gaps. That tells me it's something that starts early, and by the time you're in 6th grade and can barely read it's too late. You're just getting by at that point, the teachers are more concerned with getting the entire class to the end of the year VS helping individuals there is no guidance at home. These are cracks that an ACTIVE parent could prevent a child from falling in.