Nicole Ari Parker gets push back after admitting she misses the single life

[Ya?]

Single ≠ Affectionate

Dating ≠ Affectionate



No, merely comparing what men and women typically associate with "single"-ness




Why I believe this passive-aggressive plea is abuse.

Now, Boris ignores her and the public example is considered an aberration. And we have to consider her version of events because Boris has not defended his self.

Again, that was the only point I was trying to make in this and you help me make it.

You are arguing with someone who think marriages are suppose to be so military, stale co-operative. No.

But, the "random sweet texts and kisses out of nowhere" begins with her.

Now, if she's doing that and it's not being reciprocated, then Boris has a problem.

But, typical with the dating scene, men are expected to fulfill and initiate execution women's entitlements--again, the reason I don't believe any principles of dating belong in a marriage.

The question was asked, she answered. He chose to stay silent.
What I think is the issue for you is the fact that she pointed out what she would like to see that he isn’t doing anymore. If she would have been praising him and mentioned how perfect would we really be speaking about not discussing your relationship publicly. I think you have to be careful how much you stare but in kodjoes care their relationship is part of their brand.

 

[Youseenmywork]

Just as an aside im not a romantic nikkas either men are just better at romance than women and men ALWAYS have to be creative with the shyt .

Really at the age of 35 I figured out that romance is just extra work for the man it just more things on his plate that he has to be responsible for and remember . The rest of y'all can miss me with its a man and womens job to be romantic ...when we all know it is going to most likely fall on the man's shoulders . This is why romance well becomes.... unromantic for men. Romance is not a phenomenon, but instead a verb; it's a series of actions carried out by a man to earn a women's affections ....it LABOR .... PERIOD!!

All I'm hear is but... but...but... if you LOVE that person ....

 

[True Darkseid]

That nikka was on a whole different level of no fukks given.

Boris like

 

[Dameon Farrow]

Seems she was speaking more from the fact that Boris doesn't show her affection anymore like he used to. Which is understandable from her perspective IMO. If you marry someone, yes the spark will obviously flame out after years of being together, but you still better show affection to your partner if you don't want your relationship just being dormant.

Don't expect anyone here to put things in perspective. They need a reason to shyt on any long term relationship.

 

[Youseenmywork]

Don't expect anyone here to put things in perspective. They need a reason to shyt on any long term relationship.

This anit it fam

 

[GoPro]

He should've said 'I miss your hairline'

 

[mag357]

A lot of things go out the windows once singleness is over. That's a non-starter for me.

If a man wanted to run the streets "because he misses singleness" your position mine change.

That's where I'm at; you're not single, so...

Did you not see this? Posted OCT 2019



Also, "public plea for him to step up" is abusive, in my view, and by definition unhealthy.

Again, we've publically seen him be romantic. When's the last time she did any of the things she demands?

How many kisses did Boris give that white woman.... right in front of his wife

 

[mag357]

They just look like a couple that's gonna get divorced.

He'll fine a badder younger chick.... just for her to treat him with the same energy he has for his Nicole...

Nicole will downgrade, to an old fat ex-producer... and feel more appreciated...
But probably treat him like shyt lol

It's a never ending cycle

 

[JT-Money]

All I know is the other chick in the video didn't have any complaints.

How many kisses did Boris give that white woman.... right in front of his wife

I thought it was strange she locked on to dude like an octopus. Had his head in a Vulcan death grip. These pawg's ain't shy that's for sure.

I'm surprised the females on this site didn't blame Boris for that white female anchor attacking him. They blame men for everything else.

 

[Rawtid]

All that juelzing by nicole...sounds like she wants boris to give her a hall pass

I think she did that because it generally sounds horrible, I mean there is no good way to explain that you want that feeling when you were single/dating....it's new, exciting, unknown and different and all without sounding ungrateful because most women would love to have your husband. It also sucks to me how limiting marriage seems. Like once you get there you can't be expected to want anything more from it or you are forced to be happy with whatever because there is a woman out there wanting to take your place.

 

[mag357]

All I know is the other chick in the video didn't have any complaints.

I thought it was strange she locked on to dude like an octopus. Had his head in a Vulcan death grip. These pawg's ain't shy that's for sure.

I'm surprised the females on this site didn't blame Boris for that white female anchor attacking him. They blame men for everything else.

Yoo.. a female grab ur head like that.... she's thinking about sex...

I don't give a fukk what female it is...

U could go down south to a family bbq and see cousins you never saw before...
And if one of ur female cousins grab ur head like that. stay away or ull be having some retarded babies.

Nicole so gott damn dumb.. that other woman coulda been sucking bojo koris off right there on stage.
She would just still be acting all surprised about bojo bringing out a plate of grits.

Like she's never seen this nikka before

 

[Sonic Boom of the South]

Just as an aside im not a romantic nikkas either men are just better at romance than women and men ALWAYS have to be creative with the shyt .

Really at the age of 35 I figured out that romance is just extra work for the man it just more things on his plate that he has to be responsible for and remember . The rest of y'all can miss me with its a man and womens job to be romantic ...when we all know it is going to most likely fall on the man's shoulders . This is why romance well becomes.... unromantic for men. Romance is not a phenomenon, but instead a verb; it's a series of actions carried out by a man to earn a women's affections ....it LABOR .... PERIOD!!

All I'm hear is but... but...but... if you LOVE that person ....

I been said this

I totally agree

Women are way less romantic cause they never expected to be

 

[Ya?]

I think she did that because it generally sounds horrible, I mean there is no good way to explain that you want that feeling when you were single/dating....it's new, exciting, unknown and different and all without sounding ungrateful because most women would love to have your husband. It also sucks to me how limiting marriage seems. Like once you get there you can't be expected to want anything more from it or you are forced to be happy with whatever because there is a woman out there wanting to take your place.

I think women complicate their lives, own up to what you want. Stop trying to sidestep men feelings when you are face to face with them. Have you seen Boris Kodjoe and how he talks about women and relationships. He is direct and does not p*ssyfoot around and some might even call him arrogant. If this is how she feels and that’s what it is. Men claim they want women to be direct but want their feelings to be coddled it’s a no win. She is married too long to play coy now.

 

[CarmelBarbie]

I didn’t care enough to watch more than a few seconds of this video, so this is my contribution: Boris is still very sexy.


The talking points in this thread centered on the differences between men and women and how they approach marriage, romance and what not, remind me of when I went to see Sinbad perform back in December. He broke down those differences between both groups in such a hilarious way. Had us all(and I went with 15 people, half women and half men) rolling in laughter because he told no lies. He was coming with the Boris type of vibe and explaining why he was that way and talking about his marriage. And it was funny asf.

The older I get the more I find those differences between men and women funny (and not so much frustrating like others seem to feel).

 

[WaveCapsByOscorp™]

That was fukked up, she basically made it seem like he don’t do shyt for her no more.

If that was me, we woulda had words...