Nicole Ari Parker gets push back after admitting she misses the single life

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women have amnesia. You can do something for them yesterday and they will act like you never did anything.

AND MARRIED MEN KNOW THIS...
WHICH IS WHY I SAID BORIS WASNT
TRIPPING TO TYPICAL NAGGING WIFE shyt.

MY WIFE TOLD ME EARLIER
WITH EXCITEMENT THAT I ALWAYS DO
GREAT THINGS FOR HER AFTER I SURPRISED HER WITH A GIFT...

:ufdup:THEN I REMINDED HER
JUST 2 DAYS AGO SHE SAID I NEVER DO shyt FOR HER.

PPL ARE OVER BLOWING THAT CLIP.
IT WAS NOTHING.
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I think women complicate their lives, own up to what you want. Stop trying to sidestep men feelings when you are face to face with them. Have you seen Boris Kodjoe and how he talks about women and relationships. He is direct and does not p*ssyfoot around and some might even call him arrogant. If this is how she feels and that’s what it is. Men claim they want women to be direct but want their feelings to be coddled it’s a no win. She is married too long to play coy now.
This all day. Women also need to stop faking during sex. A lot of the shyt women go thru is b/c they too shook to speak up. At some point, you have to say fukk his ego and let them know. Or you can’t blame anybody but urself when ur miserable.

Dudes get in their feelings EASILY but they get over it. Communication is everything.
 

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I think women complicate their lives, own up to what you want. Stop trying to sidestep men feelings when you are face to face with them. Have you seen Boris Kodjoe and how he talks about women and relationships. He is direct and does not p*ssyfoot around and some might even call him arrogant. If this is how she feels and that’s what it is. Men claim they want women to be direct but want their feelings to be coddled it’s a no win. She is married too long to play coy now.
True!! at the same time you can’t teach a mf to be thoughtful after a while or put into exact words how he needs to go back to when he was wooing her.

It’s like, if a dude is courting you and he’s all creative with surprises, flowers, dates and once the novelty wears off that behavior stops. There are few words you can say to direct him back to that mindset, you just want him to do it. Otherwise you’re planning your own “surprises” step by step and that’s not the point.
 

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The question was asked, she answered. He chose to stay silent.
What I think is the issue for you is the fact that she pointed out what she would like to see that he isn’t doing anymore. If she would have been praising him and mentioned how perfect would we really be speaking about not discussing your relationship publicly. I think you have to be careful how much you stare but in kodjoes care their relationship is part of their brand.
What question was asked?
 

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Because most men wouldnt air out their marital issues in public like this, its disrespectful birdbrained behavior

You know this but youre in here just to be a contrarian and argue

Is that always noble though?
They don’t air their marital issues in public but are they fixing it/addressing it in private? Generally, people go public with something when they are fed up with the situation. Key note on “in the last year”, it seems to me that things may have been discussed but fell on deaf ears. The opportunity presented to share how she felt and she brought it up. Also, how you going to counsel other couples and lecture people about their relationships publicly but be mad that your perfect husband routine gets put on blast?
Reminds me of Steve Harvey book and his relationship tour when he has a series of unsuccessful marriages under his belt. Many men want to capitalize on lecturing women about their relationships woes.
If the rumours about his LT mistress is true, he lost any credibility and has no moral standing on what is bird brained behaviour. Don’t be preaching to other people and doing dirt low kettle and have the audacity to get mad and nothing she had said is that bad.
 

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Because most men wouldnt air out their marital issues in public like this, its disrespectful birdbrained behavior

You know this but youre in here just to be a contrarian and argue

Is that always noble though?
They don’t air their marital issues in public but are they fixing it/addressing it in private? Generally, people go public with something when they are fed up with the situation. Key note on “in the last year”, it seems to me that things may have been discussed but fell on deaf ears. The opportunity presented to share how she felt and she brought it up. Also, how you going to counsel other couples and lecture people about their relationships publicly but be mad that your perfect husband routine gets put on blast?
Reminds me of Steve Harvey book and his relationship tour when he has a series of unsuccessful marriages under his belt. Many men want to capitalize on lecturing women about their relationships woes.
If the rumours about his LT mistress is true, he lost any credibility and has no moral standing on what is bird brained behaviour. Don’t be preaching to other people and doing dirt low kettle and have the audacity to get mad and nothing she had said is that bad.
So how about you stop being disingenuous.
 

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After 7 said it the best over 25 years ago With till you do me right and nobody listen

I gave the sun to you, you said it was too bright
I gave you diamond rings, you said they didn't shine
I gave my world to you, you said it's not enough
What in the world could I have done
To make you be so rough
 
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