Nicole Ari Parker gets push back after admitting she misses the single life

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In general...

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this is a bad thing?

It depends if what is offered is lacklustre. If you do the absolute minimum then ya I have the right to expect more cause that’s not the energy you were giving me when you wanted to get me.
So why should I accept anything less now that we are in a relationship?



Im'ma have to say this; Nicole Parker is done, in terms of this discussion after this video was posted;



But, as for our discussion (because, principally this ain't about her);

At some point (and this is why I don't want to get married) you're gonna get tire of hearing a person tell you that you're not doing enough and they want more. No many how honest you're being.

But, you're moving into hyperbole with;

Somehow women don’t have a right to make some of the same demands.

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Make demands. Fine.

But, generally speaking; women demand marriage. She got that. Women (generally) demand children, a house, a man consistently working, etc., etc.

At same point, from a male perspective it becomes;

:gucci:How many times do I have to climb Mt. Demand before you chill out for a minute with demands? I've changed like you asked...now you want me to be the man I was before I made all these changes?

Again, this isn't abnormal behavior, just makes marriage difficult.

Marriage is supposed to be a mutual agreement it is not a demand. It is only for those who don’t believe in it.

men don’t like living in a house now? So if Boris was on his own he would live in a apartment indefinitely? As for children it’s a natural consequence of married life, plenty of men want children and want to wife a woman with the ability to bear children and dude is African btw so more than likely he wanted kids.
No respectable man takes pride in being jobless. She doesn’t need to make these demands she just need to find someone that shares the same expectations and values for themselves. Nicole has been a working woman before Boris and stil is. All these things mentioned are things that people strive for in a relationship.
 
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I don't see this as a man/woman thing. It's a people thing. People get complacent when they get in a relationship. Both men AND women. I bet there are things Nicole used to do to please Boris that she doesn't do anymore either.

Thank you!
That’s my entire point we just heard her side.
 

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:russ:I just rewatched Boris face during the interview. That nikka had the “oh word??:dwillhuh:” Face :dead:


Then when the simp yelled out “I still do that Boris” and Boris hit him with the “ok:comeon:

:dead: :laff:
I just figured out who the other dude is with the fake Latina.
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as he should

Boris will have much easier time upgrading to a young finer model than his wife would....

IMO his wife was NEVER fine....

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I actually thought his wife looked good back in the day and on the show they had together. She wasn't no dime tho, but a good strong 7 or 8.

She definitely didn't age well tho. Still smashable, but nobody breaking they neck for her.
 

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Then why bring up being "single" in any context? Why not I wish things were like the begining of our marriage?

And what's her part in it? Because this is always the man's fault.

This whole game is set up by women that we have to offer the world to get you all.

No man can keep up those lofty expectations women have in the beginning of relationships. It's impossible.

She referenced “singleness” because she was comparing his affection toward her when they were dating versus his affection in marriage.

In healthy relationships, both men & women are constantly choosing each other when they can easily leave & start over. No one party in a relationship should feel neglected. Now while I don’t think a public platform was the best way to rectify Boris’ nonchalant attitude towards her, I also see that this was her public plea for him to step up.
 

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She referenced “singleness” because she was comparing his affection toward her when they were dating versus his affection in marriage.

In healthy relationships, both men & women are constantly choosing each other when they can easily leave & start over. No one party in a relationship should feel neglected. Now while I don’t think a public platform was the best way to rectify Boris’ nonchalant attitude towards her, I also see that this was her public plea for him to step up.
I also think they are so public about being relationship goals perhaps it was a way of bringing some transparency that no relationship is perfect.
 

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I don't see this as a man/woman thing. It's a people thing. People get complacent when they get in a relationship. Both men AND women. I bet there are things Nicole used to do to please Boris that she doesn't do anymore either.

Who's less likely to deal with the monotony that comes with relationships (which in turn create that complacency)? Who's more likely to start stirring bs up and/or start making goofy demands to bring a "spark" back to the relationships? Who's more likely to up and leave because they got bored and complacent?

I can go on and on to display that your attempt to brush this off as something both men and women do when they're "complacent", is a weak simp ass deflection. So that men won't focus and get a better understanding of the nature of women.
 
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the glare from the light makes it seem like she's bald


She know what she doin wit that slit in that dress...showin all that thigh...:whew:

The kiddos would have to go quarantine in the guest house, while mommy finishes up dinner butt-ass naked wit that dress open...:shaq:

I'd know how to whip her back into shape Boris...:mjlit:

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Who's less likely to deal with the monotony that comes with relationships (which in turn create that complacency)? Who's more likely to start stirring bs up and/or start making goofy demands to bring a "spark" back to the relationships? Who's more likely to up and leave because they got bored and complacent?

I can go on and on to display that your attempt to brush this off as something both men and women do when they're "complacent", is a weak simp ass deflection. So that men won't focus and get a better understanding of the nature of women.
Who's more likely to go out and fukk other people? I think men are more likely to stick around when shyt gets boring and routine, but they are also more likely to go get what they need outside the marriage. Your response is super defensive. Grow a pair and understand men and women are both at fault in this situation. Putting it all on women is some weak nyqqa puzzy shyt.
 
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She referenced “singleness” because she was comparing his affection toward her when they were dating versus his affection in marriage.

In healthy relationships, both men & women are constantly choosing each other when they can easily leave & start over. No one party in a relationship should feel neglected. Now while I don’t think a public platform was the best way to rectify Boris’ nonchalant attitude towards her, I also see that this was her public plea for him to step up.

A lot of things go out the windows once singleness is over. That's a non-starter for me.

If a man wanted to run the streets "because he misses singleness" your position mine change.

That's where I'm at; you're not single, so...

Did you not see this? Posted OCT 2019



Also, "public plea for him to step up" is abusive, in my view, and by definition unhealthy.

Again, we've publically seen him be romantic. When's the last time she did any of the things she demands?
 
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