Nicole Ari Parker gets push back after admitting she misses the single life

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I actually thought his wife looked good back in the day and on the show they had together. She wasn't no dime tho, but a good strong 7 or 8.

She definitely didn't age well tho. Still smashable, but nobody breaking they neck for her.
Life is more than "good looks" maybe shes an attention seeking thot and Boris is tired of the shenanigans. Plus he just came back from Ghana in Decemeber and was probably in a cornucopia of the finest African puss and has likely began plotting his personal return..to the continent.

Boris will be ok. He has his head on straight. Let the Simps do what they must.
 

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And that's what it all comes down to. It goes both ways but we're not brought up the same, men are taught to work for what we want and women are taught to expect things.
Particularly in relationships. How many romcoms for instance have the woman fukk up and then go all out to get the guy? It’s usually the guy doing some almost impossible and economically unfeasible shyt to win the girl and women grow up with these frameworks in their head that a man has to do some arbitrarily ridiculous amount of work in order to gain/maintain access to them...while offering not much beyond their looks and vagina in return. Those women are the ones who end up single in their 30s and 40s having to settle for some dude they never wanted to begin with. It’s up to us as a society to equalize the expectations.
 
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And that's what it all comes down to. It goes both ways but we're not brought up the same, men are taught to work for what we want and women are taught to expect things.


*When it comes to love men have a more ACTIVE role while women have a more passive role .
 

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And that's what it all comes down to. It goes both ways but we're not brought up the same, men are taught to work for what we want and women are taught to expect things.
EXACTLY!

I bet Boris could say the same things about her but chose not to.

I believe a person shouldn’t complain about something they not getting in a relationship unless they are trying to do it themselves and it’s not being reciprocated.

is she sending him sexy text in the morning?
Is she drawing bubble baths for him when he gets home?
is she sneaking up behind him kissing him on the neck?

Or is she just nagging about how she “wishes she was single” :stopitslime:
 

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When a man is that checked out when his girl says some out of pocket shyt like that one of two things is true:
1. He knows she doesn't have it in her to step out or end the relationship.
2. Hes already smashing other women on the side and is staying with her for the stability or because of his kids.

I'm inclined to think the latter is true. This nikka always shows up on womens "most wanted" lists.
 

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Y'all can say it's bad for Boris to not really care and it is...but in my personal experience...when a dude starts acting like this it's cause the girl has worn him down


She's prolly mad uptight/prissy
She probably Nags
She probably complains
She probably is gets mad sensitive over little shyt he says
And she probably doesn't do any of the things she now is saying she wants...or used to resist when he did those things in the past

These are things that make a guy feel trapped and not give a fukk. women have this way of being insatiable and it wears a nikka down to where they say, you'll never be happy so fukk trying to make you happy.
Hahaha man this describes the rough year my wife and I had where I was working like 60 hrs a week to help put her through her masters and she was still nagging me about 50/50 housework and not investing enough time in romance. She took me to couples counselling over it where she and this soft ass male counsellor (like I thought dude was gay until he started talking bout his girlfriend) would just gang up on my ass. And for four or five sessions I tried to be “understanding” and just took it.

Then one session I was like fukk that and I started going IN on all the shyt she wasn’t doing, her unrealistic expectations and the lack of acknowledgment for all the shyt I was doing (cuz I actually was doing super romantic shyt like making a big ass heart out of 70 candles on Valentine’s Day and surprising her). This counsellor has the nerve to say, “Guess Who, you seem angry” and I was like “YEAH MOTHERfukkER IM ANGRY!!” Both of them had the :merchant: face cuz it’s way outside my character to blow up like that.

Anyway, that was a quiet walk home lol. In the end, well my wife and I were able to communicate and since then we’ve had a much more equitable distribution of our expectations of each other and now there’s so much love between us.

It’s all about reducing the double standards we’ve been taught to resentfully accept.
 
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Particularly in relationships. How many romcoms for instance have the woman fukk up and then go all out to get the guy? It’s usually the guy doing some almost impossible and economically unfeasible shyt to win the girl and women grow up with these frameworks in their head that a man has to do some arbitrarily ridiculous amount of work in order to gain/maintain access to them...while offering not much beyond their looks and vagina in return. Those women are the ones who end up single in their 30s and 40s having to settle for some dude they never wanted to begin with. It’s up to us as a society to equalize the expectations.

Let's be real men have been putting in work since they teens . Women dont want to work for the love the want AFTER a man has done his job . Men are in the getting business but women aren't in the KEEPING business . Most women don't have the SKILLS it takes to keep a man...nor do they care. At 35 I don't plan on every getting married I deal with women but not past a ceartin level . Mental peace means a lot these days .
 

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Particularly in relationships. How many romcoms for instance have the woman fukk up and then go all out to get the guy? It’s usually the guy doing some almost impossible and economically unfeasible shyt to win the girl and women grow up with these frameworks in their head that a man has to do some arbitrarily ridiculous amount of work in order to gain/maintain access to them...while offering not much beyond their looks and vagina in return. Those women are the ones who end up single in their 30s and 40s having to settle for some dude they never wanted to begin with. It’s up to us as a society to equalize the expectations.
Just like they say men lie on our dikks, there's a bunch of women who lie on their p*ssy. Whenever the topic of sex comes up they all think that they're experts.:mjlol:
 
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Then women be wondering why nikkas is SOOO Savage when it comes to relationships ...nikkas is tired of being in lose-lose situation :rudy:
 

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Just like they say men lie on our dikks, there's a bunch of women who lie on their p*ssy. Whenever the topic of sex comes up they all think that they're experts.:mjlol:
My nikka, don’t even get me started on this haha. At least my wife came into our relationship like, “I don’t have that much experience and have a lot to learn.”

Truthfully, I know I’m sharing some of the unpleasant parts of my wife and our relationship here but she’s a good fukking woman and I am grateful for her.
 

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Hahaha man this describes the rough year my wife and I had where I was working like 60 hrs a week to help put her through her masters and she was still nagging me about 50/50 housework and not investing enough time in romance. She took me to couples counselling over it where she and this soft ass male counsellor (like I thought dude was gay until he started talking bout his girlfriend) would just gang up on my ass. And for four or five sessions I tried to be “understanding” and just took it.

Then one session I was like fukk that and I started going IN on all the shyt she wasn’t doing, her unrealistic expectations and the lack of acknowledgment for all the shyt I was doing (cuz I actually was doing super romantic shyt like making a big ass heart out of 70 candles on Valentine’s Day and surprising her). This counsellor has the nerve to say, “Guess Who, you seem angry” and I was like “YEAH MOTHERfukkER IM ANGRY!!” Both of them had the :merchant: face cuz it’s way outside my character to blow up like that.

Anyway, that was a quiet walk home lol. In the end, well my wife and I were able to communicate and since then we’ve had a much more equitable distribution of our expectations of each other and now there’s so much love between us.

It’s all about reducing the double standards we’ve been taught to resentfully accept.
Wow. Hang in there bro
Good to know yall was able to finally weather the storm]
im having issues with my chick at the moment
 

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Life is more than "good looks" maybe shes an attention seeking thot and Boris is tired of the shenanigans. Plus he just came back from Ghana in Decemeber and was probably in a cornucopia of the finest African puss and has likely began plotting his personal return..to the continent.

Boris will be ok. He has his head on straight. Let the Simps do what they must.
he defended his girl in an ig post breh
 
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