Nicole Ari Parker gets push back after admitting she misses the single life

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ThrobbingHood said:
I wonder what she’s doing to keep the romance alive? It’s always a one way street with these women. The same reason I had to end my last relationship. What are you doing as a Woman to keep the spark alive?

You expect me to get excited when you come to bed in your scarf and clay mask every night? I come home and you’re there sitting like a lazy oaf watching some bullshyt on tv?

Are you sending text messages saying you have a bath waiting for me, with rose petals leading there and scented candles?

Women love to complain about men losing the romance in relationships but they don’t want to take responsibility for becoming lazy too. “Oh I’ve had kids. I’m tired. Blah blah.” Always deflecting.

We have to pretend we’re excited to fukk the same old p*ssy over and over. Every married breh I know is bored with their wife. This isn’t a coincidence.
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Easy-E said:
Here's my problem with this whole discussion;

Basically women want to charge men with two jobs; being the man you were and being the man I want you to be.

I don't think women make a honest assessment about the things that will no longer happen in a relationship.

They have 2 children. Things change.

They been together since 2005.

He can't evolve into the man that can take on her expectations and, on a whim, devolve back into the man he was.

And two, very frank, women never ask themselves; am I the same person I was in the beginning of this relationship to expect to be treated the same as the beginning.

Nicole is not a bad person. I'm arguing the principle of this expectation of men--please don't hit me with the men do the same...

And to reply to your other post; women need to start initiating romance if the want it. I will judge her for that. It's selfish to sit back and want to be treated when you don't demand the same of yourself.

You wanna go to McDonald's like we did in 2005; gas the card, get your card/cash and drive us to Mickey D's (just an example).
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It seems like some men want women to take what they offer in a relationship and be grateful that they are married. It wasn’t a tit for tat, everything she said there are numerous threads on this very site about the same thing from a male POV.

This was an opportunity for a meeting of the minds so to speak and to discuss the commonality in sentiments that both men and women have in marriage. Y’all went all the way left with it and are assuming everything just to make her look like a bad person.

The messenger and not the message is who most of you have a problem with cause I guarantee if it had been Boris who said this the reaction would be totally different..there are numerous books written by men and shows coaching women to keep certain things going to keep men interested. Somehow women don’t have a right to make some of the same demands. Of course things change after marriage that’s why people say that meaningful long term relationship demands work. The more you take someone for granted the more likely a relationship will go south.

women aren’t going to sex you like a rabbit when they work, take care of kids and have other things o their minds too like they did when they were single and dating. But no did wants to hear that ish though...Perhaps if people communicated like adults and worked to lift each other’s burden people would have more positive relationship. Everyone wants to complain about what they aren’t getting while getting mad that their partner has the same complaints about them.
 
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ThrobbingHood said:
I wonder what she’s doing to keep the romance alive? It’s always a one way street with these women. The same reason I had to end my last relationship. What are you doing as a Woman to keep the spark alive?

You expect me to get excited when you come to bed in your scarf and clay mask every night? I come home and you’re there sitting like a lazy oaf watching some bullshyt on tv?

Are you sending text messages saying you have a bath waiting for me, with rose petals leading there and scented candles?

Women love to complain about men losing the romance in relationships but they don’t want to take responsibility for becoming lazy too. “Oh I’ve had kids. I’m tired. Blah blah.” Always deflecting.

We have to pretend we’re excited to fukk the same old p*ssy over and over. Every married breh I know is bored with their wife. This isn’t a coincidence.
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Ok so it goes both ways...people get bored of each other it’s a natural human feeling to get bored. Men get bored and women get bored. So why are y’all mad.
 
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Some questions need to be asked that only them 2 can answer
What is she doing for him?
Is she even appreciating the things he does or too busy waiting for the next gift, trip, e.t.c?
Is the shyt he doing not enough so now he has this constant task of outdoing his last show of love? That's unrealistic in itself.
Plus is she overlooking what he's doing because they've been together for so long but gushing over the same thing because it's coming from a new man?
 
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Ya? said:
It seems like some men want women to take what they offer in a relationship and be grateful that they are married.
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In general...

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this is a bad thing?

Ya? said:
It seems like some men want women to take what they offer in a relationship and be grateful that they are married. It wasn’t a tit for tat, everything she said there are numerous threads on this very site about the same thing from a male POV.

This was an opportunity for a meeting of the minds so to speak and to discuss the commonality in sentiments that both men and women have in marriage. Y’all went all the way left with it and are assuming everything just to make her look like a bad person.

The messenger and not the message is who most of you have a problem with cause I guarantee if it had been Boris who said this the reaction would be totally different..there are numerous books written by men and shows coaching women to keep certain things going to keep men interested. Somehow women don’t have a right to make some of the same demands. Of course things change after marriage that’s why people say that meaningful long term relationship demands work. The more you take someone for granted the more likely a relationship will go south.
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Im'ma have to say this; Nicole Parker is done, in terms of this discussion after this video was posted;



But, as for our discussion (because, principally this ain't about her);

At some point (and this is why I don't want to get married) you're gonna get tire of hearing a person tell you that you're not doing enough and they want more. No many how honest you're being.

But, you're moving into hyperbole with;

Somehow women don’t have a right to make some of the same demands.

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Make demands. Fine.

But, generally speaking; women demand marriage. She got that. Women (generally) demand children, a house, a man consistently working, etc., etc.

At same point, from a male perspective it becomes;

:gucci:How many times do I have to climb Mt. Demand before you chill out for a minute with demands? I've changed like you asked...now you want me to be the man I was before I made all these changes?

Again, this isn't abnormal behavior, just makes marriage difficult.
 
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Easy-E said:
Here's my problem with this whole discussion;

Basically women want to charge men with two jobs; being the man you were and being the man I want you to be.

I don't think women make a honest assessment about the things that will no longer happen in a relationship.

They have 2 children. Things change.

They been together since 2005.

He can't evolve into the man that can take on her expectations and, on a whim, devolve back into the man he was.

And two, very frank, women never ask themselves; am I the same person I was in the beginning of this relationship to expect to be treated the same as the beginning.

Nicole is not a bad person. I'm arguing the principle of this expectation of men--please don't hit me with the men do the same...

And to reply to your other post; women need to start initiating romance if the want it. I will judge her for that. It's selfish to sit back and want to be treated when you don't demand the same of yourself.

You wanna go to McDonald's like we did in 2005; gas the card, get your card/cash and drive us to Mickey D's (just an example).
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Everything you are saying is the exact same thing that women feel about men.
 
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