Nicole Ari Parker gets push back after admitting she misses the single life

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Marriage is benefited by both parties.
Besides marriage what do men do for women that they find no benefit. I mean if you are going to criticize women I would expect that you would have more examples than just marriage.

I’d say for women it’s birthing children.

Let's stick on marriage, what do men benefit from marriage?
 

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And i'm sure that nikka in the video clip doesn't do some stuff that Boris does.

Women want it all and then some. Every man on God's green earth changes from the "honeymoon" period. When you text non stop, talk on the phone all the time, see each other as much as possible etc. It's just like a job when you're on probation you start 9am you're there 850, you're down 5 you leave 5:04. Your breaks are exactly 15 minutes you don't check out thecoli.com on your work computer. Then as time goes on you stroll into work 9:10, you leave 4:45, your lunch is a little longer, you're on the coli as soon as you log into work - https://www.thecoli.com/threads/log...as-you-get-to-work-appreciation-thread.25399/

At least that nikka ain't cheating and got some out of wedlock kids or beating your azz and still has a job providing and gave you two kids, and even married your azz after you divorced your first husband in less than a year
 

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Let's stick on marriage, what do men benefit from marriage?

Tax breaks, childcare, childbirth, house maintenance (grocery shopping, decor, laundry, etc...), meals/cooking, career advancement due to being married, discounts given to married households, double income household, companionship (counsel, intimacy, doing activities together, travel) , a very high percentage of men who are still married when they get older are taken care of by their wives, there are lot of little things that women handle in the home that men don’t appreciate or think about until the women isn’t around.

men who complain that women only good for sex aren’t seeking women who offer more than that.
 
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95% of the talking and texting. 80% of the going out to places and eating out. Almost 100% of the romance and sappy shyt.

And I didn’t even have to think much
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Talking and texting is a two person activity and gives you an opportunity to feel other out. If you don’t want to do that, you are free to find a prostitute that can sex you without the effort.
 

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Tax breaks, childcare, childbirth, house maintenance (grocery shopping, decor, laundry, etc...), meals/cooking, career advancement due to being married, discounts given to married households, double income household, companionship (counsel, intimacy, doing activities together, travel) , a very high percentage of men who are still married when they get older are taken care of by their wives, there are lot of little things that women handle in the home that men don’t appreciate or think about until the women isn’t around,
I thought you we're a feminist that doesn't believe in marriage?
 

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Talking and texting is a two person activity and gives you an opportunity to feel other out. If you don’t want to do that, you are free to find a prostitute that can sex you without the effort.

You asked I answered. Women talk and text about nothing constantly, that doesn’t help get to know anyone.
 

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Tax breaks, childcare, childbirth, house maintenance (grocery shopping, decor, laundry, etc...), meals/cooking, career advancement due to being married, discounts given to married households, double income household, companionship (counsel, intimacy, doing activities together, travel) , a very high percentage of men who are still married when they get older are taken care of by their wives, there are lot of little things that women handle in the home that men don’t appreciate or think about until the women isn’t around,

Only thing i agree with is tax breaks, discounts and career advancement.
All those other things can be done without marriage.
Not to mention, if they get divorced, the man is the one who suffers due to all the money he loss and will lose.

Its not worth the gamble imo
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what aspect of what she said is the instability of single life? The spontaneous texts or hugging from behind?:jbhmm:
The general point is that she wants her dude to be in a consistent pursuit of trying to maintain that "spark" so she can be satisfied and excited about the relationship. This will bring instability because the dude will be going up and down trying to keep up with her incessant self-absorbed wants and desires.

But anyways, your goofy ass ain't going to get it and don't want to get it.
 

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You asked I answered. Women talk and text about nothing constantly, that doesn’t help get to know anyone.
So you are actually interested in getting to know a woman on a deeper level and she is sending you superficialities or you just want sex and not invested in talking or texting.
 

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what aspect of what she said is the instability of single life? The spontaneous texts or hugging from behind?:jbhmm:

Here's my problem with this whole discussion;

Basically women want to charge men with two jobs; being the man you were and being the man I want you to be.

I don't think women make a honest assessment about the things that will no longer happen in a relationship.

They have 2 children. Things change.

They been together since 2005.

He can't evolve into the man that can take on her expectations and, on a whim, devolve back into the man he was.

And two, very frank, women never ask themselves; am I the same person I was in the beginning of this relationship to expect to be treated the same as the beginning.

Nicole is not a bad person. I'm arguing the principle of this expectation of men--please don't hit me with the men do the same...

And to reply to your other post; women need to start initiating romance if the want it. I will judge her for that. It's selfish to sit back and want to be treated when you don't demand the same of yourself.

You wanna go to McDonald's like we did in 2005; gas the card, get your card/cash and drive us to Mickey D's (just an example).
 
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