they have something to lose. the only way this would work for black people is if yall (i have my stuff together) got it together in terms of career, education and family structure. otherwise, you'd be threatening your kid to basically compete for a limited amount of good partners, and your kid will likely lose that battle.
Because there aren't any not shyt Indians. You said it yourself, you supposedly have your stuff together. Why can't it be the same for us? Good apples and bad apples? fukk.