My biggest gripe with women is simple. Unrealistic expectations. (What most men don't do)

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Yeah, I'll admit I was wrong about that.


I'm lazy. I just figure that an in shape guy would force me to work out and I'd be resistant to that and he'd go and get a chick that liked to work out. But, as my bother related to me once, we didn't think we could do better mate wise so we always went I guess below our league if that makes sense.....

Of course now that I've hit a crazy weight I need a drill Sargent on my ass.

And before the dry dikk brigade comes in hollering about accountability and whatever else they can say to make women look like Satan incarnate, I have taken full responsibility for my body weight and I'm taking the steps to rectify it. But I need help.
I would take you to the gym with me but I live across the country from you :mjcry:
 

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That's true, but genetics play a big role in where and how that muscle will sit on your body. It may not be as aesthetically pleasing as we wish.



This isn't true. Once again genetics play a big part.
Genetics in terms of limits.
There isn't a man on Earth who will have a healthy, protein-rich diet, and workout five days a week, and still look out of shape for over a year.
 

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:childplease: Only fat nikkas and cacs (:mjpls:) talk about "genetics" when talking about black men bodies.

I think Cam Newton's body is attainable. Obviously you can't be 6' 5 or what ever height he is (that is where the genetics part come in) but everything else, yes you can, but you got to put in the work.
Some :flabbynsick: just don't want to.


It's not. I am 6'5 and it will take a lot of work to get Cams body...a whole lot 205lbs. Putting 60 lbs of mucles ain't easy.
 

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Most women I know just want a nikka who not still fukking with his BM has a good job and ain't fukking with 2-3 other people from the past. The same can be said for men in reverse. Maybe on the surface they want that but most people just want someone to hold them down and not have them out here looking stupid.
For me, it's really this simple. Don't have me looking like a fool because I chose to mess with you. But some people get off on that type of dysfunction.
 

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Bruh, if a nikka is not short, he can have an awesome body. Just hit the gym. If a woman doesn't have hips/breast no exercise will take her from Rihanna to Kim K. It's way easier for dudes to get what is considered a 'hot body'.
No not really. Some men have a wide country black body....wide frame and big boned and it's impossible for a man like that to achieve a body like Cam Newton or Dez Bryant. Look at some known football players...like Vince Wilkfork who used to play for New England and now Houston. He is very big but still athletic. He will never have a body type like some of the smaller slimmer players on his team.

My point is that folks sometimes have unrealistic expectations when it comes to looks and body types. This goes for females and males.
 

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You know whats funny though?


The gym life trend wasn't popping before unrealistic bodies and shapes of IG came along and made everyone a personal trainer, not only that the 28-40 generation kinda had to start going to the gym in order to keep up with the kids and because they are getting old, because lets be honest thats whats going on here.

So social media came along and made everyone want a coke bottle or pro wrestler shape. And if you were a woman and couldn't get it, you paid for it and pretend you worked out at the gym hard to get your miracle shape.

Dudes didn't care about being chiseled or having abs like that, most old gym heads went to the gym for stamina, and power. Having a model like body was only for those who were really there for the healthy living aspect of it since that part of working out is 70 percent diet anyway.



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I hate to tell you this.
But we're about 5 decades into the "gym life trend," there's a reason all those workout magazines can stay in print.
 

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You know whats funny though?


The gym life trend wasn't popping before unrealistic bodies and shapes of IG came along and made everyone a personal trainer, not only that the 28-40 generation kinda had to start going to the gym in order to keep up with the kids and because they are getting old, because lets be honest thats whats going on here.

So social media came along and made everyone want a coke bottle or pro wrestler shape. And if you were a woman and couldn't get it, you paid for it and pretend you worked out at the gym hard to get your miracle shape.

Dudes didn't care about being chiseled or having abs like that, most old gym heads went to the gym for stamina, and power. Having a model like body was only for those who were really there for the healthy living aspect of it since that part of working out is 70 percent diet anyway.

:leostare:
The fake it to make it trend is taking over the gym trend.

Now a lot of people just pay to go the easy route or just do a diet to look cool and just not dedicate themselves to it and go to the gym to be popular and take pics and not really chase results.
 
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It's not. I am 6'5 and it will take a lot of work to get Cams body...a whole lot 205lbs. Putting 60 lbs of mucles ain't easy.

Dudes really thinking they gonna look like Cam doing HIIT and bench pressing three times a week. This nikka jobs is literally to be a world class athlete.
 

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It's not just the unrealistic expectation, but the entitlement. These women want these pro athlete, entertainer/celebrity type dudes.....while bringing nothing to the table that would have them even deserve that type of dude. People with power and status are attracted to others with power and status. These athletes and such aren't out here choosing these average ass women out here for anything other than a nut here and there. Then again, there are dudes who do the same shyt thinking they're entitled to sex and such just because they're nice to women, but lack the confidence and everything else that would make them attractive to these women.


I don't even give females props for trying to get with the guy they know in high school they were not dope or a motivator enough.
To even bag the prep star athlete.
So, I clown hoes with that whole gold digger entitled to the mythical unicorn nikka that is so fictional.
The unicorn from the new day in a box of booty o's would come to life before this wish upon a star ass nikka.
they envision came to life they say they entitled to bag.
These failure to motivate face ass hoes, who failed to get a jock in high school.
Plus, most of these bytches some college nerd bookworm bussa nerd bytches. who was wack in high school and borderline buddaface buttafuco status in high school now trying to pull rank.
Thinking their job bolsters their stock and it DOES NOT.
Plus, was a lame bird in college, too.
That could not even get with random third string CB in a division I school or caia ball.
So, I don't listen to nuffin these land of imagination having ass hoes have to say.

fukk these mythical unicorn belief ass bytches.
They were failures at gold diggin since high school and still.failing to pull rank.

These bytches not even siovaughn funchess-wade with it and that crazy ho can say she got two kids and had the jock since hs, college and the pros.
Most of these gone in the head ass bytches talking all that I want a paid sports star shyt not even her level of game.
So, I be wondering how no game having ass broads be out here trying to pull it.

When at not time in their biological dating time line and internal clock.
Did it ever say they were bad enough to even play in that sector of play.
Where it is easy to see they were out of their league.


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Last year around this time I was ~155 lbs, I started eating better, purchased a pull up bar and started using the 15lb dumbbells i had and literally changed my body, I'm 225lbs and I bullshyt at the gym, I do more cardio than anything. Someone asked me today if I was an athlete, if I went hard-core in the gym and took it more seriously, I could have a crazy body.
 
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