My biggest gripe with women is simple. Unrealistic expectations. (What most men don't do)

[philmonroe]

If you don't naturally have that shape, then that's incredibly hard to attain.

Excuses and bullshyt. Cats of both genders love em. It don't have to be that exact shape but being in the best shape for that person is what dude was going for I think (if I'm wrong I'll take the L) just like that pic of Dez I think it was in that other spoiler.

 

[Rawtid]

Most of the time they are.

Bullshyt. Men that treat women poorly or who abandon their children have character flaws that have shyt to do with how much money they have.

 

[The Mad Titan]

You sound sloppy. It's easier for men to stay/get in shape than it is for women. Women are supposed to have more body fat. Males are supposed to be more muscular/strong. Don't be upset that women like strong/muscular or inshape men. Go to the gym and work out instead of being lazy, drinking and doing coke (wich most people don't do by the way). Use your time differently.

Also, you guys lust after instagram girls/female celebs, urban models much more than women lust after athletic looking men.

I just saw the last line and that is completely false.

Women have more body fat because they are suppose to be "softer" but somewhere along the line that changed and they want mini men bodies with nice breast and a round butt.

 

[Cynic]

Ya'll seen Cam Newton come water polo pic, nikka looking like a African Gawd and all, that's cool. But so many women leaped into that on some "I wish my man looked like that" when realistically it's very improbable that your man will look that way. For one, your man isn't in the NFL and doesn't train 7 hours a day, if he did, you would complain about him working out all the time. Number 2, do you really expect a nikka that works in a warehouse or call center or whatever etc.. to have the body of a god, he could be in regular human shape and that would be cool. No. 3. A lot of women, hell people in general like to have fun. they drink, smoke, do coke, pop pills hell do what they can with the free time they have away from the job. Unless you messing with an athlete, most dudes are gonna look like they do those things. and most chicks will too.

to be honest Men are much more about personality than women. I'm just saying.

Have gripes with entitled women brehs

 

[Will Ross]

Bullshyt. Men that treat women poorly or who abandon their children have character flaws that have shyt to do with how much money they have.

When it comes to kids most financially stable men are not reckless.
They tend to build Familes, now how they treat a woman is a different subject

 

[Neuromancer]

Another one.

 

[NoSingleMothersB]

If black women actually did this, our community wouldn't look the way it does.

There is no "Black Community". Haven't been one for decades. I wish people would stop saying that.

 

[Bugatti Biceps]

You do know there are rich dudes that don't pay child support nor spend time with their kids right?

Once again, do you think its a better option to commit to men who can't commit to a career or labor and become financially stable?

You must date 34 year old nikkas that still dream of being rappers, because I don't know what point you're trying to make.

With all things being equal, black women SHOULD be putting financial stability as a MUST when dealing with men, not a bonus.

Arguing otherwise is how we have the community in the state that its in.

 

[Blackout]

Most nikkas ain't got the opportunity to be picky like that and will sleep with any woman that blinks. We also tend to stay in our lane when it comes to what types of chicks we can pull. Those IG chicks are just a fantasy every man has..

Basically

Women do have more options than men.


It is what it is.

 

[philmonroe]

Women don't see the problems of men that are in decent shape in general like men dont see the problem of women that are in decent shape in general.

Most women have probably never hear a man complain about his legs, or have the dreaded chest gap. But sitting around talking we do if we work out


Most women don't care about the space/or gap between your chest like that but that is one thing that is pretty big for men that work out. Just like most men don't care how perky or the shape of a woman breast or small love handles. They might have preferences but over all no man really cares like that.



I do think women have way more unrealistic exception but they dont really act on that. Women will take a dude not in shape and funny looking if he's makes them feel a certain way wayyyy before most men will with women. A woman will fall for a mans personality and be completely loyal. Where as a man can fall for a womans personality and be ready to cheat after week 2 lol.


The women and men who have these unrealistic exceptions are the ones that are single going into there late 30's or paying child support and bashing women at every chance they get.

With bold both genders do this no need to make it like one does it more than the other. If you need proof look at who cats are dating, wifing, having kids with. Most on both sides aren't fitting the prototype standards. Now for the cheating part that's individual stuff right there again for both sides.

 

[NobodyReally]

Gawd, I swear y'all must comb through the archives for recycling. How many times is this thread gonna get made? Don't like the kind of unrealistic women you're meeting? Go to different places, do different things, and you'll attract different kinds of women looking for different things. It's not rocket science. But first you gotta get off your ass and stop combing through social media for women.

 

[philmonroe]

Basically

Women do have more options than men.

No they don't. If that was the case they wouldn't be bytching as much as they do. Now if you mean to just fukk yeah but let's be real most chicks ain't going to the bar like us like I want to fukk you fukk me. I'm not saying it don't happen but a lot of y'all like to exaggerate how easy women have it with things that matter to them.

 

[Blackout]

Now if you mean to just fukk yeah

Still generally more than what men have even with that.

Its one less obstacle for a lot of them which puts them in a good position if they move tactfully.

 

[2manyFCKNrappers]

Most women I know just want a nikka who not still fukking with his BM has a good job and ain't fukking with 2-3 other people from the past. The same can be said for men in reverse. Maybe on the surface they want that but most people just want someone to hold them down and not have them out here looking stupid.

 

[GrindtooFilthy]

Being in shape don't mean shyt, ya it helps bagging bytches become slightly easier but you still need swag and crisp mouthpice. And also as someone whose in the gym everyday all I can say Is that people in general look like shyt, you not attaining gokus body until a solid year of Straight training for 4-5 days consistently