Why does he owe you one?
Pretty sure that was the basis of the original post. If you don't want to answer or don't like the fact that nobody seems to have a good answer, don't enter the thread.
He did answer the original post. If you don't like the answers then maybe YOU should leave/don't enter the thread. Maybe YOU are the issue and not everyone else.
It was a non-answer. People can't handle being pressed for an answer on this because they don't have one.
It was a non-answer. People can't handle being pressed for an answer on this because they don't have one.
He had an answer and you didn't like it. In the grand scheme of things it doens't matter what you want or what you think of their answer. Your whole posting style in this thread reeks of self-importance.
Yea it couldnt possibly be that he just didn't want to engage you because he saw through your completely transparent and emotionally charged agendaYou're detracting from the main issue. If you're going to give an answer to the question in the OP, it might as well be a complete one. If you can't give a complete one, I have to assume that there's no real answer. If you don't know why you wanted to do something as serious as commit to a marriage, then I'm going to assume that there wasn't a reason until I get one. Why get so salty when you see people press for an answer on this?
You've ignored plenty of good answers in order to keep talking about the non-answers
Yea it couldnt possibly be that he just didn't want to engage you because he saw through your completely transparent and emotionally charged agenda
Its clear you are looking to shame dudes for marrying "for the wrong reasons"Tell me about this emotionally charged "agenda" that I have. In the end, not being able to answer isn't the same as purposefully avoiding a conflict.
"I wanted to" isn't an answer because we already knew that. Sheesh, you want me to draw you a diagram?
The etc. is 'trust'. Would you trust someone that went to many of the classes to become a doctor, but didn't graduate and is just calling himself one?
I saw one good answer. One. And I acknowledged it.